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Wednesday, 26 August 2015
Munhu asingakwanisi kuvata noumwe munhu
Mai Chibwe, Ndodii kuti ndibvise munyama. Ndinamakore 34 asi ndiri mhandara. Handitombonyengwi. Ndibatsireiwo Please.
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Kune vanhu panyika pano vasina zvinoonekwa pavari zvingahi zvakaremara kana kuti hazvina kufanana nevamwe. Kune vanosvika makore akawandisa vasina kumbovata nevamwe vanhu. Unokwanisa kusangana nomunhu anenge ari mhandara kana jaya asi ava nemakore anpfuura makumi matatu kana mana. Izvi hazvirevi kuti haasi kuda kuvata noomwe munhu. Chinoitika ndechokuti pane chinomuvhundusa pazviri mufungwa dzake. Vamwe vavanhu ava vanotoitawo zemo chairo zvokutofanana nevane vokuvata navo asi zvinoitikaka kuti haavati nomunhu
Kana ari munhukadzi anokwanisa kunyengwa nomurume asi haakwanisi kutaudzana nomurume panyaya idzi kusvika pakutotadza kuwirirana zvachose. Hazvirevi kuti haadi murume amunyenga. Kungoti haakwanisi kutaudzana nomurume uyu panyaya idzi. Varumewo vakadai havakwanisi kunyenga musikana. Hazvirevi kuti haadi musikana, asi kuti haagoni kuita nyaya dzinosvika pakutaudzana zvorudo.
Pari zvino hazvizikamwi kuti chikonzero chaicho chii. Zvinoita sokuti ndeiya inohi PSYCHOLOGY. Pane chakangoti kanganisike pamunhu zvokuti kana ari ega hapana chakaipa. Anofunga zvokuvatana nomukadzi/murume. Murume chombo chinomira zvakanaka. Kana akashandisa maoko urume hunobuda zvakana uye anotonakigwawo zvinongoita vamwe. Kana ari mukadzi bhinzi inomira, matinji nepamberi pese panozvimbirira, chitubu chinonyorova zvokutoti dai gamba remurume riripo akavhura makumbo, anotirhojewa akanakigwa chose chose, asi kungoti kana gamba ravapo hapana chinoitika.
Pane vasikana vanozvisarudzira kugara vari mhandara kusvika pakuwanikwa. Vakomanawo variko vanoda kugara ari jaya kusvika aroora. Ava vanhu vasina dambudziko asi kungoti vanodawo kuzvichengeta kusvika paroorana noumwe munhu.
Tiri kutaura pamusoro pevanhu vanosvika pakudzivaidzwa noumhandara/ujaya hwavo asi vachitotadza kuvata noumwe munhu asi vachida kuzviita uye vokuita navo varipo muupenyu hwavo.
Zvinopera here?
Dambudziko iri rinokwanisa kuita kwenguva refu chose zvokuti hama neshamwari vanokwanisa kupindira nyaya iyi kusvika pokuto dzungaidza munhu wacho. Vamwe vanenge vachifunga kuti vakamutsvakira munhu wekudanana naye nyaya inopera asi kazvinji iye munhu asingakwanisi kutaudzana noumwe munhu panyaya dzorudo.
Kune vanozoti ava munhu mukuru chose moona ava nomukadzi/murume motoshamisika kuti akazviita sei. Mumakore akapera kuno ku UK takachatisa musikana aiva nemakore 37 asi ari mhandara. Kana ukaterera nyaya yake unohwisisa kuti mufungwa dzake aiva achida chose kuita mukomana uye akanyengwa nevakawanda asi achitadza kudanana navo. Munhu akadzidza anoshanda nevamwe asi kana pava panyaya dzorudo zvaimukona. Murume waakachata naye Munhu ane moyo murefu chose zvokuti akatombofunga kuti zvichakona. Mukadzi akazonoongorogwa nevarapi kwenguva inopfuura mwedzi mitatu kuti akwanise kungovata nomurume wake chete. Pazvakangoitika haana kuzozvirega. Izvozvi vakaita mwana ava nemakore matatu.
Uyu munhu umwe chete, uye hwisisai kuti vanhu vakadai vashoma. Asi zvikakuwanikidza uri kunyika ine vanhu vasina zve COUNSELLING, unokwanisa kuita dambudziko. Hwisisai kuti kuvatana unenge uchitodawo hako asi fungwa dzinokurambira chose. munhu anovhunduswa nokutyiswa nekungofunga kuti angangopinzwa chombo kana kuti chambo chake chingangopinda mukati meumwe munhu.
Mudzimba:
Mudzimba dzedu tinoona kuti kune vakaroorana vanokwanisa kuita kana mwedzi kana kupfuura pasina kuvatana, pasina anohura, pasina ambobvunzawo umwe kuti todii nhasi. Vanhu vakadai vakawanda chose. Kazhinji vanhu vasina nguva yazvo kana kuti pane chimwe chakaipa chiri kuitika mufungwa dzavo asi havasivo vatiri kutaura. Pano tinotaura munhu anonetseka pakutanga chete, kana agona kutanga hapana chinonetsa.
Zvikonzero:
Hapana anonyatsohwisisa zvikonzero zvenyaya iyi asi kungoti ndezvefungwa (Psychology) saka zvinoda vanohwisisa nyaya dzefungwa. Kureva kuti kana uriwe une dambudziko iri, zvichakunetsa kugadzirisa nyaya yako nokuti vanhu vanayo vashomanana. Nyaya dzinokasira kugadzigwa inyaya dzine vanhu vakawanda.
Kana pasina anoziva chikonzero, zvinoreva kuti hapana anonyatsohwisisa zvokuita panyaya zvaungaita wega kumba kwako. Zvokuti tibatsirane pano hapana asi kuti kana wafunga kuti une dambudziko iri, enda unoona murapi uongorogwe kuti fungwa dzako sei dzichinetseka nenyaya yokuvata noumwe munhu.
Ukaenda pa GOOGLE woisa nyaya yokuti DESPERATE VIRGINS. Wombotarisa firimu iroro. Wadaro wotanga kufunga kuti dai munhu uyu akadai asi ari MuZIMBA zvaizofamba sei.
Munhu wese pane zvaanofanira kukwanisa kuita pasina dambudziko. Kana wava munhu mukuru, toti makore anopfuura 25, unofanira kuzvisarudzira kuti wovata noumwe munhu here kana kwete, pasina chinonetsa. Asi kuti uri kuda asi uchizvitadza nokuda kwekutyiswa nazvo bodo. Enda unoonekwa nevarapi.
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Kune vanhu panyika pano vasina zvinoonekwa pavari zvingahi zvakaremara kana kuti hazvina kufanana nevamwe. Kune vanosvika makore akawandisa vasina kumbovata nevamwe vanhu. Unokwanisa kusangana nomunhu anenge ari mhandara kana jaya asi ava nemakore anpfuura makumi matatu kana mana. Izvi hazvirevi kuti haasi kuda kuvata noomwe munhu. Chinoitika ndechokuti pane chinomuvhundusa pazviri mufungwa dzake. Vamwe vavanhu ava vanotoitawo zemo chairo zvokutofanana nevane vokuvata navo asi zvinoitikaka kuti haavati nomunhu
Kana ari munhukadzi anokwanisa kunyengwa nomurume asi haakwanisi kutaudzana nomurume panyaya idzi kusvika pakutotadza kuwirirana zvachose. Hazvirevi kuti haadi murume amunyenga. Kungoti haakwanisi kutaudzana nomurume uyu panyaya idzi. Varumewo vakadai havakwanisi kunyenga musikana. Hazvirevi kuti haadi musikana, asi kuti haagoni kuita nyaya dzinosvika pakutaudzana zvorudo.
Pari zvino hazvizikamwi kuti chikonzero chaicho chii. Zvinoita sokuti ndeiya inohi PSYCHOLOGY. Pane chakangoti kanganisike pamunhu zvokuti kana ari ega hapana chakaipa. Anofunga zvokuvatana nomukadzi/murume. Murume chombo chinomira zvakanaka. Kana akashandisa maoko urume hunobuda zvakana uye anotonakigwawo zvinongoita vamwe. Kana ari mukadzi bhinzi inomira, matinji nepamberi pese panozvimbirira, chitubu chinonyorova zvokutoti dai gamba remurume riripo akavhura makumbo, anotirhojewa akanakigwa chose chose, asi kungoti kana gamba ravapo hapana chinoitika.
Pane vasikana vanozvisarudzira kugara vari mhandara kusvika pakuwanikwa. Vakomanawo variko vanoda kugara ari jaya kusvika aroora. Ava vanhu vasina dambudziko asi kungoti vanodawo kuzvichengeta kusvika paroorana noumwe munhu.
Tiri kutaura pamusoro pevanhu vanosvika pakudzivaidzwa noumhandara/ujaya hwavo asi vachitotadza kuvata noumwe munhu asi vachida kuzviita uye vokuita navo varipo muupenyu hwavo.
Zvinopera here?
Dambudziko iri rinokwanisa kuita kwenguva refu chose zvokuti hama neshamwari vanokwanisa kupindira nyaya iyi kusvika pokuto dzungaidza munhu wacho. Vamwe vanenge vachifunga kuti vakamutsvakira munhu wekudanana naye nyaya inopera asi kazvinji iye munhu asingakwanisi kutaudzana noumwe munhu panyaya dzorudo.
Kune vanozoti ava munhu mukuru chose moona ava nomukadzi/murume motoshamisika kuti akazviita sei. Mumakore akapera kuno ku UK takachatisa musikana aiva nemakore 37 asi ari mhandara. Kana ukaterera nyaya yake unohwisisa kuti mufungwa dzake aiva achida chose kuita mukomana uye akanyengwa nevakawanda asi achitadza kudanana navo. Munhu akadzidza anoshanda nevamwe asi kana pava panyaya dzorudo zvaimukona. Murume waakachata naye Munhu ane moyo murefu chose zvokuti akatombofunga kuti zvichakona. Mukadzi akazonoongorogwa nevarapi kwenguva inopfuura mwedzi mitatu kuti akwanise kungovata nomurume wake chete. Pazvakangoitika haana kuzozvirega. Izvozvi vakaita mwana ava nemakore matatu.
Uyu munhu umwe chete, uye hwisisai kuti vanhu vakadai vashoma. Asi zvikakuwanikidza uri kunyika ine vanhu vasina zve COUNSELLING, unokwanisa kuita dambudziko. Hwisisai kuti kuvatana unenge uchitodawo hako asi fungwa dzinokurambira chose. munhu anovhunduswa nokutyiswa nekungofunga kuti angangopinzwa chombo kana kuti chambo chake chingangopinda mukati meumwe munhu.
Mudzimba:
Mudzimba dzedu tinoona kuti kune vakaroorana vanokwanisa kuita kana mwedzi kana kupfuura pasina kuvatana, pasina anohura, pasina ambobvunzawo umwe kuti todii nhasi. Vanhu vakadai vakawanda chose. Kazhinji vanhu vasina nguva yazvo kana kuti pane chimwe chakaipa chiri kuitika mufungwa dzavo asi havasivo vatiri kutaura. Pano tinotaura munhu anonetseka pakutanga chete, kana agona kutanga hapana chinonetsa.
Zvikonzero:
Hapana anonyatsohwisisa zvikonzero zvenyaya iyi asi kungoti ndezvefungwa (Psychology) saka zvinoda vanohwisisa nyaya dzefungwa. Kureva kuti kana uriwe une dambudziko iri, zvichakunetsa kugadzirisa nyaya yako nokuti vanhu vanayo vashomanana. Nyaya dzinokasira kugadzigwa inyaya dzine vanhu vakawanda.
Kana pasina anoziva chikonzero, zvinoreva kuti hapana anonyatsohwisisa zvokuita panyaya zvaungaita wega kumba kwako. Zvokuti tibatsirane pano hapana asi kuti kana wafunga kuti une dambudziko iri, enda unoona murapi uongorogwe kuti fungwa dzako sei dzichinetseka nenyaya yokuvata noumwe munhu.
Ukaenda pa GOOGLE woisa nyaya yokuti DESPERATE VIRGINS. Wombotarisa firimu iroro. Wadaro wotanga kufunga kuti dai munhu uyu akadai asi ari MuZIMBA zvaizofamba sei.
Munhu wese pane zvaanofanira kukwanisa kuita pasina dambudziko. Kana wava munhu mukuru, toti makore anopfuura 25, unofanira kuzvisarudzira kuti wovata noumwe munhu here kana kwete, pasina chinonetsa. Asi kuti uri kuda asi uchizvitadza nokuda kwekutyiswa nazvo bodo. Enda unoonekwa nevarapi.
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Monday, 17 August 2015
Kana mwana apfuura makore mashanu
Kana mava nomwana ava nemakore mashanu kana kupfuura, hwisisai kuti mwana ava kuziva zvimwe zvezvinhu zvinoitika. Hwisisaizve kuti vana vadiki havarevi nhema uye vanofarira kuudza hama neshamwari zvinoitika mumhuri dzavo. Kana uchida kuudzwa chokwadi pamusoro penyaya, bvunza mwanana. Anokurondedzera nyaya yese agokubvunza zvainoreva.
Hwisisaizve kuti mwana mudiki haazivi siyano yokuchema nokuchemerera. Kwaari zvese zvakafanana uye akahwa mubereki wake achichema zvinomutyisa nokuti haahwisisi kuti chii chiri kuitika. Ndinoziva kuti mese munoyeuka musi wamakapinda muBedroom yevaberiki ndokuwana vachirhojana. Hakuna munhu anokangamwa musi uyi. Zvikuru ukavawana vasina kupfeka vasinazve kufuka machira. Zvinonetsa kuti IMAGE iyoyo ibude mufungwa. Kuhwa mai vako vachichemerera zvinotyisa, chero nhasi wava munhu mukuru ane imba yakewo kureva kuti unogarorhojana noumwe wako, ikahwa mubereki achichemerera zvinokuvhundusa.
Saka tiri kutarisira kuti isu kana tavavo nevana vohwisisa, tinova chengetedza kuti vasasangana nezviitiko zvavabereki. Haisi nyaya nyore nokuti mumba madziro anoita ruzha kana kwasviba zvokuti munokwanisa kuvhara mikova yese asi mwana avete mumba yake yokuvata anokwanisa kumutsa nokuchemerera kwamai vake, obva auya kuzoona kuti chii chiri kuitika. ipapo imi muri bishi zvenyu kana kumboziva kuti mwana amire pamukova uye ari kuona zvamumri kuita.
Musati matanga inofungai kuti mune mwana mumba uye mwana uvete. Fungaizve kuti mwana akamuka pakati peusiku, sokuti azviwetera, anouya kuvabereki opinda mumachira ovata navo. tese takabva neko ndiwo maitire evana vese vaneSTABILITY pamusha wavo.
Fungaizve kuti mungadii kuti mwana asaona zvinhu, itai zvinodzivirira vana kuona zvinhu. Munokwanisa kuti paya mwana avata, mozvikiira mumba menyu moita basa renyu, mokiinuna mukova movata henyu.
Munokwanisazve kujaira kuisana makafuka jira kuti musaonekwa.
Munokwanisazve kuita zviitwa zvenyu mwana achangovata toti awa imwe chete mwana avata. Ndipo panoita hope dzakadzika zvokuti anotadza kukuhwai.
Hatisi kuti Ityai mwana asi kuti hwisisai kuti mune mwana. Chombo chababa kumwana mudiki chinokwanisa kumutyisa chose kana chimire, nokuti haazivi kuti chii uye kuti chinoita basa rei. Kuzochiona chichirakasha mai zvinotyisa pakuti haahwisisi kuti mai vari kuchemei. Chii chiri kuitwa kuna mai vake uye kuti zvaita sei.
Vamwe vanhu.
Kune vamwe vanhu vanoparidza shoko rokuti vana ngavakure vachiziva zvinoitika mumba, saka vanoda kutsanangurira vana zvese zvinoitika. Ini sokuona kwangu mwana anodzidzswa zvimwe zvinhu kana nguva yakwana. Kana mwana ava nemakore anopfuura gumi nemaviri kuvasikana unoziva kuti ava kuda kutanga kuenda kumwedzi. Ndipo pakumugarisa pasi womutsanangurira zvichaitika uye kuti sei zvichiitika, kuti kana zvoitika azive zvokuita.
Kana ari mukomanawo achatanga kuzvirotera ava nemakore kana gumi nemana. Unomutsanangurira kuti zvinoitiswa nei asi kwete kuti aone vabereki vachiisana. Handizvo. Kutsveruka ikoko. Kana mada kuti mwana akasire kudzidza nyaya dzokuisana, mutengerei mhuka dzinozoita vana mava nadzo. Sokuti tsuro. Motenga hadzi nehonho. Motsvaka mavhidyiyo anotsanangura kuchengetwa kwadzo nokuti dzinoita vana sei. Motsanangurira mwa kuti zvichafamba sei.
Kana azosvika makore gumi namaviri (musikana) kana gumi nemana (mukomana ) ndipo pmunomuudza kuti vanhu vanoitawo zvaanoziva zvichiitwa netsuro. Kana asina kubvunza kuti imi vabereki munoitawo here, musamuudza. Regai abvunze kana zvamunetsa fungwa kuti vanhu vanoita mwana sei.
Pakugeza:
Koitazve vanhu vanofarira kugeza pamwe chete nevana vavo. Ini sokuona kwangu mubereki nomwana apfuura makore mashanu havafaniri kuonana pamberi. Mubereki anoona mwana asi mwana ngaasaona pamberi pamai kana baba.
Ndiyo nguva yokutanga kudzidzisa mwana kuti akaenda kutoireti ngaavhare mukova. Akada kubvisa zvipfekwa ngaavhare mukova. Ngaasafamba famba mumba asina kupfeka. Ngaasagara akapatsanisa makumo zvokuti vanhu vanoona bhurugwa rake (musikana) kana kuti agare asina bhurugwa.
Uyezve kudzidza kuti akangobatwa pamberi noumwe munhu asiri mubereki anofanira kukasira kuzoudza mubereki. Anodzidza kuti pamberi panhu pakakosha pasingabatwi batwi nemunhu asinei napo. Zvakasiyana nemaoko atinoshandisa kumhoresa vanhu vatinosangana navo.
Pachirudzi chedu Mwana anokwanisa kukura kusvika makore 20 asina kumoona mai kana baba vasina hembhe. Vakawanda havana kumbosvikira mai kana baba vachiisana. Ndicho chivanhu chakanaka ichocho. Kwete kungorega vana vachisangana nazvo.
Hwisisaizve kuti mwana mudiki haazivi siyano yokuchema nokuchemerera. Kwaari zvese zvakafanana uye akahwa mubereki wake achichema zvinomutyisa nokuti haahwisisi kuti chii chiri kuitika. Ndinoziva kuti mese munoyeuka musi wamakapinda muBedroom yevaberiki ndokuwana vachirhojana. Hakuna munhu anokangamwa musi uyi. Zvikuru ukavawana vasina kupfeka vasinazve kufuka machira. Zvinonetsa kuti IMAGE iyoyo ibude mufungwa. Kuhwa mai vako vachichemerera zvinotyisa, chero nhasi wava munhu mukuru ane imba yakewo kureva kuti unogarorhojana noumwe wako, ikahwa mubereki achichemerera zvinokuvhundusa.
Saka tiri kutarisira kuti isu kana tavavo nevana vohwisisa, tinova chengetedza kuti vasasangana nezviitiko zvavabereki. Haisi nyaya nyore nokuti mumba madziro anoita ruzha kana kwasviba zvokuti munokwanisa kuvhara mikova yese asi mwana avete mumba yake yokuvata anokwanisa kumutsa nokuchemerera kwamai vake, obva auya kuzoona kuti chii chiri kuitika. ipapo imi muri bishi zvenyu kana kumboziva kuti mwana amire pamukova uye ari kuona zvamumri kuita.
Musati matanga inofungai kuti mune mwana mumba uye mwana uvete. Fungaizve kuti mwana akamuka pakati peusiku, sokuti azviwetera, anouya kuvabereki opinda mumachira ovata navo. tese takabva neko ndiwo maitire evana vese vaneSTABILITY pamusha wavo.
Fungaizve kuti mungadii kuti mwana asaona zvinhu, itai zvinodzivirira vana kuona zvinhu. Munokwanisa kuti paya mwana avata, mozvikiira mumba menyu moita basa renyu, mokiinuna mukova movata henyu.
Munokwanisazve kujaira kuisana makafuka jira kuti musaonekwa.
Munokwanisazve kuita zviitwa zvenyu mwana achangovata toti awa imwe chete mwana avata. Ndipo panoita hope dzakadzika zvokuti anotadza kukuhwai.
Hatisi kuti Ityai mwana asi kuti hwisisai kuti mune mwana. Chombo chababa kumwana mudiki chinokwanisa kumutyisa chose kana chimire, nokuti haazivi kuti chii uye kuti chinoita basa rei. Kuzochiona chichirakasha mai zvinotyisa pakuti haahwisisi kuti mai vari kuchemei. Chii chiri kuitwa kuna mai vake uye kuti zvaita sei.
Vamwe vanhu.
Kune vamwe vanhu vanoparidza shoko rokuti vana ngavakure vachiziva zvinoitika mumba, saka vanoda kutsanangurira vana zvese zvinoitika. Ini sokuona kwangu mwana anodzidzswa zvimwe zvinhu kana nguva yakwana. Kana mwana ava nemakore anopfuura gumi nemaviri kuvasikana unoziva kuti ava kuda kutanga kuenda kumwedzi. Ndipo pakumugarisa pasi womutsanangurira zvichaitika uye kuti sei zvichiitika, kuti kana zvoitika azive zvokuita.
Kana ari mukomanawo achatanga kuzvirotera ava nemakore kana gumi nemana. Unomutsanangurira kuti zvinoitiswa nei asi kwete kuti aone vabereki vachiisana. Handizvo. Kutsveruka ikoko. Kana mada kuti mwana akasire kudzidza nyaya dzokuisana, mutengerei mhuka dzinozoita vana mava nadzo. Sokuti tsuro. Motenga hadzi nehonho. Motsvaka mavhidyiyo anotsanangura kuchengetwa kwadzo nokuti dzinoita vana sei. Motsanangurira mwa kuti zvichafamba sei.
Kana azosvika makore gumi namaviri (musikana) kana gumi nemana (mukomana ) ndipo pmunomuudza kuti vanhu vanoitawo zvaanoziva zvichiitwa netsuro. Kana asina kubvunza kuti imi vabereki munoitawo here, musamuudza. Regai abvunze kana zvamunetsa fungwa kuti vanhu vanoita mwana sei.
Pakugeza:
Koitazve vanhu vanofarira kugeza pamwe chete nevana vavo. Ini sokuona kwangu mubereki nomwana apfuura makore mashanu havafaniri kuonana pamberi. Mubereki anoona mwana asi mwana ngaasaona pamberi pamai kana baba.
Ndiyo nguva yokutanga kudzidzisa mwana kuti akaenda kutoireti ngaavhare mukova. Akada kubvisa zvipfekwa ngaavhare mukova. Ngaasafamba famba mumba asina kupfeka. Ngaasagara akapatsanisa makumo zvokuti vanhu vanoona bhurugwa rake (musikana) kana kuti agare asina bhurugwa.
Uyezve kudzidza kuti akangobatwa pamberi noumwe munhu asiri mubereki anofanira kukasira kuzoudza mubereki. Anodzidza kuti pamberi panhu pakakosha pasingabatwi batwi nemunhu asinei napo. Zvakasiyana nemaoko atinoshandisa kumhoresa vanhu vatinosangana navo.
Pachirudzi chedu Mwana anokwanisa kukura kusvika makore 20 asina kumoona mai kana baba vasina hembhe. Vakawanda havana kumbosvikira mai kana baba vachiisana. Ndicho chivanhu chakanaka ichocho. Kwete kungorega vana vachisangana nazvo.
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Saturday, 15 August 2015
Kuremara kweurume
Mazuvano vanhu vasingazvarisi vakadzi vavo vari kuwedzera kuwanda. Tinoona kuti mhuri zhinji dzinoshaya mbereko asi zvimwe zvezvikonzero zvacho zvichikwanisa kugadziriswa. Pano toda kuongorora nyaya yokuremara kweurume chinova chimwe chezvikonzero zvokushaisa mukadzi mimba.
Totanga nokurendedzera kuti urume hune utano hwakaita sei . Urume hwakada kuita seuzvuzvu utetetete. Unoerera uye ukahusiya paganda romuviri hunokasira kuomahoitawo ganda rinokwanisa kufunuka. Urume hune munhuwi waho usina kuipa kunhuwidza . Ukahuvhenganisa neOIRI inosinira ichibuda muchitubu chomunhukadzi (kuvhenganisa sokuti pakuvatana) unohwa munhuwi unozikamwa nevese vakambovatana kuti munhuwi wekuvatana.
Zvinohi izvo mukapedza kuvatana ukafukidza musoro we murume jira ukavhura makumbo, hwema hwezvokuvatana huya kunoita murume akasire kumira chombo. Hameno kuti ichokwadi here. Imbozvizamai mega.
Urume hune mhodzi dzisingaonekwi nemaziso asina michini yokuonesa zvinhu zvidikidiki inohi MICROSCOPE. Mhodzi idzi ndidzo dzinoitisa mwana kumukadzi. Kana tichiti urume hwakaremara tiri kureva kuremara kwemhodzi idzi.
Kana murume ane utano hwakanaka muurume hwake munofanira kuwanikwa humwe urume husina kuremara. Dzimwe dzemhodzi dzake dzinotaridzika semaburuvuru. Pakuvatana, murume anosiya urume mukati mechitubu chemukadzi. Panguva iyoyo muviri wemukadzi unokwanisa kuita ma SPASM anoitisa kuti urume hukwire kumusoro kune mukova wechibereko. Hwasvika pamukova apa hunopinda mukati mechibereko hwodhidha hwakananga kumachubhu anouya nezai.
Kudhidha uku kunodiwa panyaya yekuitisa mukadzi mimba. Kana urume husingakwanisi kudhidha zvinoreva kuti hakuna kwahuri kuenda. Kana zai rikashaya urume hapana mimba inobata. Pano toda kutarisa kuremara kunoitisa urume kuti hutadze kuitisa mukadzi mimba.
Marudzi ekuremara:
1 Musorobhangu: Kune urume hune rino zidzoro zihombe
2 Misoro miviri
3 Miswe miviri:
4 Kamusorombada
5 Musoro murefu
6 Muviri wakafonyoka
7 Musoro unemapundu nemakomba
Kuti murume anzi ane urume hwakanaka anenge ane hwakaremara huri pasi pe 85%. Zvinoreva kuti urume hune utano chaihwo hunodarika 16%. Saka apa tinoona kuti urume hunodiwa hwakanaka hahuna kuwanda.
Nyaya yokuremara urume iyi yakasiyana nenyaya yokuita urume hune mhodzi shoma. Kushomakara kwemhodzi ndeimwe nyaya inoshaisa mbereko futi. Zvese kushomana nokuremara zvinotariswa kana murume aenda kundoongorogwa pakushaika kwembereko mumba.
Hwisisazve kuti urume hwakaremara hunikwanisa kusangana nezai hugorigadzirisa mwana, Pamwe zvosatombozikamwa kuti panga pane dambudziko asi mazuvano pane RESEARCH yokuongorora kuti hunoitisa mwana hwakadii pane husingaitisi. Zvinofungigwa kuti kuremara idambudziko guru zvokuti vakadzi vakawanda vari kutadziswa kuita mimba nazvo.
Ndichaisa mapikicha yemamirire eurume hwakanaka nehwakaremara.
Zvikonzero:
Kune zvikonzero zvemabato maviri anoti zvinowanika mukati memuviri wemurume koitazve zvinowanika kuzhe kwemuviri wemurume.
Panezvokuzhe pane zvinoti :
Kusagara upenyu utsvene. Sokuti munhu haana hanya noutano hwemuviri wake, haadyi zvakanaka haaiti MaEXERCISE, Anoshanda pasina kunaka kushanda.
Pane zvomukati pane zvinoti:
Kuputa fodya, Kunge wakambotogwa ma X-RAY akawanda, Kushanda panopisa, Kana wakamboitwa OPERATION pameri, Kusashanda kwemabhora, Kana chiropa chisingashandi zvakanaka. Chikuru cheizvi kuputa fodya. Kana uchiputa fodya mabhora anotsonga muupenyu hwako hwese chero paunenge wazorega. Kumira kwechombo kunokasira kuita kushoma kupfuura munhu asingaputi fodya.
Kuputa fodya, Kunge wakambotogwa ma X-RAY akawanda, Kushanda panopisa, Kana wakamboitwa OPERATION pameri, Kusashanda kwemabhora, Kana chiropa chisingashandi zvakanaka. Chikuru cheizvi kuputa fodya. Kana uchiputa fodya mabhora anotsonga muupenyu hwako hwese chero paunenge wazorega. Kumira kwechombo kunokasira kuita kushoma kupfuura munhu asingaputi fodya.
Pane vanhu vanowanza urume hwakaremara asi pasina zvinozikamwa zvavanoita kana kuti zvinoitika kwavari. Saka apa tiri kungoti zvimwe zvezvikonzero ndeizvi asi hazvisi zvese zvinozikamwa.
Zvinorapiwa sei?
Pane zvinhu zvishoma zvaunokwanisa kuita kuti urume husina kuremara huwande asi chokwadi ndechokuti kuwanda kwahwo hakuwedzeri zvakanyana.
Gadziridza Balance yezvokudya zvako. Iyi nyaya inonetsa kuihwisisa asi inyaya inoda kuhwisiswa chose. Isu vanhu verudzi gwedu takajaidzwa kungodya sadza nomurivo kana kuti nenyama. Tinoona zvimwe zvokudya sezvisina kukwana. Mai vemumba basa rokutanga kudzidzisa mhuri kudya zvokudya zvakasiyana siyana. Utano hwemhuri hunotangira mumabhora ababa vemba uye muchikandirazai chamai vemba. Ukamirira kuzogadzirisa zvokudya wava nemwana, unokwanisa kushaya mwana wacho.
1 Tsvaka zvokudya zvine zvinhu zvinoti Vitamic C, ZINC, LYCOPENE, etc
2 Siyana nezvokubhema fodya
3 Ongorora paunoshanda kuti hapana RADIATIOn, hapapisi zvakawandisa, uye hapana zvinoita utsi hwakaipa.
Kana uchifungira kuti urume hwakaremara hwakawandisa, kasira kunoongorogwa kuti uudzwe pa PERCENTAGE yahuri. Zvadaro iti vakuverengere kuti uri kugadzira hwakawanda here. Chiona zvokuita. Haisi nyaya yokuti ukabvisa chikonzero nyaya inogadzirika panguva diki, unotombomirira nguva refu.
Varume vari pazera rokuzvara havafaniri kupfeka zvibhurugwa zvomukati zvinoshinya. Kana uchitenga zvibhurugwa zvomukati tenga zvakakura kupfuura muviri wako. Mabhora emurume, anova ndiwo anogadzira mhodzi dzeurume haafariri kushinywa.
Varume musapfeka zvinhu zvinopisa muviri pamabhora enyu. Ukatarisa mabhora emurume unoona akarembera. Anoda kugara akarembera nokuti TEMPERATURE inodiwa kugadzira mhodzi dzeurume usi pasi pe TEMPERATURE yomuviri. Mabhora anoda kutonhoregwa kwete kupiswa.
Varume vari pazera rokuzvara havafaniri kupfeka zvibhurugwa zvomukati zvinoshinya. Kana uchitenga zvibhurugwa zvomukati tenga zvakakura kupfuura muviri wako. Mabhora emurume, anova ndiwo anogadzira mhodzi dzeurume haafariri kushinywa.
Varume musapfeka zvinhu zvinopisa muviri pamabhora enyu. Ukatarisa mabhora emurume unoona akarembera. Anoda kugara akarembera nokuti TEMPERATURE inodiwa kugadzira mhodzi dzeurume usi pasi pe TEMPERATURE yomuviri. Mabhora anoda kutonhoregwa kwete kupiswa.
Chokupedzisira:
Nguva zhinji tinowana matambudziko mumhuri dzedu asi nguva zhinji tisu tinokonzera nyaya idzi iri ngari yokusaziva. Ngatigadziridze zvese zvatinokwanisa kugadziridza, tozoona kuti zvasara tingawana rubatsiro kupi. Nyaya yezvokudya inonetsa pakuti tinojaira kungogarodya zvimwe zvinhu tokangamwa kuti tinofanira kuita BALANCE pazviri. Dzimwe nguva zviri kushaikwa zvacho hazvitombodhuri. Kungoti hatina kujaira kuzvidya.
Ngatihwisisezve kuti vanhu verudzi gwedu vangojaira kuti chese chese ngachiitigwe mushonga unobva kun'anga. N'a dzakawandisa dziri kungowana mari kuva kuvanhu nenyaya yougino hwevanhu. Mushonga mukuru pazvinhu zvomuviri kuwana BALANCED DIET, kumwa mvura yakawanda, uye kuwedzera kuvatana nomurume/mukadzi wako umwe chete iyeye. Kuvatana kunorapa uye kudzivirira zvigwere zvakawanda zvakaita se PROSTATE CANCER, BACK PAIN, STROKES, etc. Shandisai kuvatana somushonga weupenyu.
Ndichaisa mapikicha okutaridza BALANCED DIET.
Nguva zhinji tinowana matambudziko mumhuri dzedu asi nguva zhinji tisu tinokonzera nyaya idzi iri ngari yokusaziva. Ngatigadziridze zvese zvatinokwanisa kugadziridza, tozoona kuti zvasara tingawana rubatsiro kupi. Nyaya yezvokudya inonetsa pakuti tinojaira kungogarodya zvimwe zvinhu tokangamwa kuti tinofanira kuita BALANCE pazviri. Dzimwe nguva zviri kushaikwa zvacho hazvitombodhuri. Kungoti hatina kujaira kuzvidya.
Ngatihwisisezve kuti vanhu verudzi gwedu vangojaira kuti chese chese ngachiitigwe mushonga unobva kun'anga. N'a dzakawandisa dziri kungowana mari kuva kuvanhu nenyaya yougino hwevanhu. Mushonga mukuru pazvinhu zvomuviri kuwana BALANCED DIET, kumwa mvura yakawanda, uye kuwedzera kuvatana nomurume/mukadzi wako umwe chete iyeye. Kuvatana kunorapa uye kudzivirira zvigwere zvakawanda zvakaita se PROSTATE CANCER, BACK PAIN, STROKES, etc. Shandisai kuvatana somushonga weupenyu.
Ndichaisa mapikicha okutaridza BALANCED DIET.
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Friday, 14 August 2015
Chigwere chokusura
Kune vanhu, varume kana vakadzi vane chigwere chokuti anongosura pese pese asingagoni kuzvidzivirira. Chigwere ichi chinoshungurudza vanhu verudzi gwedu asi mamwe marudzi anongosura zvakadaro panevanhu. Isu kusura pane vanhu takadzidziswa kuti kutsveruka saka zvinotinetsa. Asi kana une chigwere chacho zvingafamba sei Unogara sei upenyu hwako uye unogara sei nomurume/mukadzi wako?
Muchikaranga munhu anogarosura anohi ane NGUBHANI. Muchirudzi chedu, Ngubhani dzese dzakafanana saka hatina basa nezvokutaura kuti iyi ingubhani ipi. Asi kungoti une ngubhani.
Unoziva sei kuti une chigwere ichi?
Hazviiti kuti uve nechigwere ichi ugotadza kuziva kuti unacho. Unongohwa wega kuti uri kugarosura uye hapana zvaunokwanisa kuita kuti usasura. Zvinotovhundusa iwe muridzi uye vanhu vaunogara navo. Kazhinhi hazviiti kuti uwane nguva okumhanya kuchimbuzi kundosurirako. Ipapo pauri ndipo paunoitira. Chero muri pakudya chaipo hauregi kusura.
Unokwanisa kupedzisira usisasviki pana vanhu iri ngari yokusvodeswa nezvaunoita. Kuti uzvigamuchire zvinonetsa nokuti idambudziko rine manyadzi mukati. Kuti usazvigamuchira zvinonetsazve nokuti vaunogara navo kana kushanda navo zvinovanetsa kuzvigamuchira. Kana wakaroorana noumwe munhu zvinoshungurudza mese uye zvinogumburisa umwe wako. Kana uri munhukadzi zvinobvisa chimiro zvachose uye murume wako anoona zvisinganakidzi kusvika pakuparadzana pokuvata.
Saka apa tiri kuti kana une dambudziko iri unotoziva chete kuti unaro. Hazvikutoreri nguva.
Zvinokonzegwa nei?
1 Kune zvigwere zvinohi ma ALERGY zvokuti kana ukabata chimwe chinhu chakaita semamwe mabundo unokwanisa kuzvimba ganda kwekanguva. Ukarumwa nesvosve unokwanisa kuzvimba muviri wese. Apa ukadya zvimwe zvokudya unoita mweya wakawandisa mudumbu wobva wangotanga kusura. Vamwe vedu tinoti tikadya zvakaita semazai akabhoriwa tinoita mweya mudumbu asi unongoita kamaawa matatu zvobva zvapera.
Vanhu vane ALERGY anokwanisa kuita vhiki yese achingosuriswa nemazai aakadya pa Weekend. Iyi yakafanana hayo ne ALERGY asi kana yava pane zvokudya inopiwa zita rokuti INTOLERANCE. Kureva kuti muviri wako haukwanisi kugaya zvokudya izvi pasina nyaya nyaya. Saka apa tiri kuti pane chimwe chokudya chiri kukutangisa kusura uku asi wozoshaya kuti zvopera sei.
Pane zvokudya zvinowanzotangisa vakawanda zvinoti:
a) Mazai
b) Bhinzi
c) Mukaka
d) Chizi
e) Muriwo
f) Maputi.
Kune zvimwe zvakawanda zvinoitisa chigwere ichi. Kana uchiziva kuti chokudya chokuti chinokukonzera kutanga kusura asi zvichizononoka kupera, dai wambosiyana nechokudya ichocho.
2 Kune chigwere chinohi pachirungu IBS. chinoita kuti kana pakusura kwacho munhu anokwanisa kuzviitira svina zvoreva kuti zvinokutyisa kuti usure asi futi zvinokunetsa kuti usasura. Upenyu hwokuremera. Kuti ugare wakaisa LINER kwese kumberi nokushure idambudziko guru kumunhukadzi. Chigwere ichi chinonetsa zve kuchirapa. Chinoitiswa nezvokudya futi asi chinokuvadza kuzasi kweura uko kune ura ukuru.
3 Dzimwe nguva madyire aunoita kana uchidya zvokudya kana zvipi hazvo, anoita kuti umedze mhepo yakawanda nezvokudya. Vanoziva vanoti kushama muromo zvakawanda uye kusatsenga zvokudya zvakakwana kunoita uve nemheya mudumbu. Kana mweya wapinda mudumbu, unofanira kuti ubude, asi usati wabuda, unokuitisa mudumbu kugwadza uyezve haubudi nguva imwe chete saka uchasura wasurazve.
Zvokumedza mweya uchidya zvinowanzoitika kuvanhu vanemumhu mukuru nokuti vanhu vanodya zvakawanda asi nguva yavatora kuzvidya yakangofanana neinoita vanodya zvishoma avo vane munhu mutete.
Saka apa zvinoita sokuti zvikonzero zvechigwere ichi zvishoma. Zvimwe zvazvo hazvizikamwi.
Zera revanazvo:
Chigwere ichi hachiwanzi kuitika kuvana vadiki asi kuvanhu vava kumakore apfuura makumi maviri zvakawanda. Tinoona kuti vanhu ava vanhu vechidiki vasingadi zvinhu zvakaita sokungosurasura. Ndoosaka tati timbotarisa nyaya kuti pane chingaitwa here.
Kunetsa kwazvo:
Kana uri munhukadzi kusura zvinohwikwa nevamwe kunosvodesa kupfuura kana uri munhurume. Munhukadzi anoita mabasa akawanda mumba. Mamwe acho haaenderani nokusura. Sokuti uri mukicheni uri kubika zvinodyiwa nemhuri, Hazvidi kuti uku uri kusura miniti imwe neimwe, uku uri kubika. Kana vacho vanozodya zvawabika havangafari nazvo. Kusiri kuti pane chinoitika pazvokudya asi kungoti fungwa dzavanhu hadzienderani nazvo. Kusura mufungwa ndekwemutoireti, kwete mukicheni.
Pakunovata, hazviiti kuti uku murume ari kuzama kuita zvinonakira muviri, uku iwe uri kungosura pese pese. Kana ange ane zemo, rinongobva rapera rega. Hino ukazodaro mwedzi wese murume akangomirira bodo hazvifambi. Vakawanda verudzi gwedu hautombosuri murume wako achizvihwa. Unoita seusina unhu. Pane kusura kwechitubu kunoitika dzimwe nguva muchirhojana, Vakawanda verudzi gwedu vanosvodeswa nazvo. Ko kuzoti kusura kwechisuri chaicho? Pamwe unenge usingatozivi kuti zvichanhuhwa here kana kwete. Asi kazhinji kuvanhu vane chigwere ichi hazviwanzi zvakanhuhwa hazvo. Asi kuti wopidiguka kuti ufongorere murume wobva watanga kufongora nokutosura ipapo hazvinakidzi mese.
Kana uri murume kana mukadzi kusura zvako hachisi chinhu chakanaka kana pane vanhu.
Kuti uzviregese kusura futi kunokuitisa mudumbu. Kana zvichikwanisika sunga shure yako uende kutoireti wonosurira ikoko. Zviri nani. Zvikuru kana uchipota uchisura zvakanyorova uchisvibisa bhurugwa.
Pane firimu randakamboona raiva nomunhukadzi ane chigwere ichi. Zvino imbwa yevamwewo vaiva nembwa ndokutanga kufembedza magaro emukadzi uya ivo vasangana pazhe pemagirosa. Zvinosvodesa nokuti vanhu vese vanoziva kuti imbwa pane chayanhuwidza pamagaro ipapa.
Zvinorapwa sei?
Kana uri kumusha unohwa vakuru vachiti unofanira kumwa mushonga wengubhani. Asi tikazvitarisa tinoona kuti mushonga uyu haurapi zvese zvigwere zvinohi ngubhani zvacho. Hachisi chigwere chimwe chete sokuona kwataita.
Saka panodiwa kuti uende kuchipatara wovaudza kuti uri kubudisa mweya wakawandisa. Vanokubvunza kuti zvinogwadza here. Taura mahwire aunoita. Vanokwanisa kukupa mapiritsi uye kugara newe pasi motaura nyaya yezvokudya zvako.
Unokwanisazve kutogwa samburi yetsvina kuti vaone kuti une chigwere chipi. Unokwanisazve kupinzwa chioniso shure kuti vatarise mukati kuti ganda remo rine zvimaronda here.
Chikuru ndechokuti unotarigwa uudzwe kuti muviri wako wakamira sei. Zvimwe zvavangakuudza hazvirapiki asi zvinogona kuderedzwa maitire azvo.
Unokwanisa kurerukigwa nemusengwa uyu.
Tiri kuenderera mberi
Kana pane ane dambudziko iri ngaafane kutinyorera mwadhi achitsanangura kuti zvinofamba sei
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Muchikaranga munhu anogarosura anohi ane NGUBHANI. Muchirudzi chedu, Ngubhani dzese dzakafanana saka hatina basa nezvokutaura kuti iyi ingubhani ipi. Asi kungoti une ngubhani.
Unoziva sei kuti une chigwere ichi?
Hazviiti kuti uve nechigwere ichi ugotadza kuziva kuti unacho. Unongohwa wega kuti uri kugarosura uye hapana zvaunokwanisa kuita kuti usasura. Zvinotovhundusa iwe muridzi uye vanhu vaunogara navo. Kazhinhi hazviiti kuti uwane nguva okumhanya kuchimbuzi kundosurirako. Ipapo pauri ndipo paunoitira. Chero muri pakudya chaipo hauregi kusura.
Unokwanisa kupedzisira usisasviki pana vanhu iri ngari yokusvodeswa nezvaunoita. Kuti uzvigamuchire zvinonetsa nokuti idambudziko rine manyadzi mukati. Kuti usazvigamuchira zvinonetsazve nokuti vaunogara navo kana kushanda navo zvinovanetsa kuzvigamuchira. Kana wakaroorana noumwe munhu zvinoshungurudza mese uye zvinogumburisa umwe wako. Kana uri munhukadzi zvinobvisa chimiro zvachose uye murume wako anoona zvisinganakidzi kusvika pakuparadzana pokuvata.
Saka apa tiri kuti kana une dambudziko iri unotoziva chete kuti unaro. Hazvikutoreri nguva.
Zvinokonzegwa nei?
1 Kune zvigwere zvinohi ma ALERGY zvokuti kana ukabata chimwe chinhu chakaita semamwe mabundo unokwanisa kuzvimba ganda kwekanguva. Ukarumwa nesvosve unokwanisa kuzvimba muviri wese. Apa ukadya zvimwe zvokudya unoita mweya wakawandisa mudumbu wobva wangotanga kusura. Vamwe vedu tinoti tikadya zvakaita semazai akabhoriwa tinoita mweya mudumbu asi unongoita kamaawa matatu zvobva zvapera.
Vanhu vane ALERGY anokwanisa kuita vhiki yese achingosuriswa nemazai aakadya pa Weekend. Iyi yakafanana hayo ne ALERGY asi kana yava pane zvokudya inopiwa zita rokuti INTOLERANCE. Kureva kuti muviri wako haukwanisi kugaya zvokudya izvi pasina nyaya nyaya. Saka apa tiri kuti pane chimwe chokudya chiri kukutangisa kusura uku asi wozoshaya kuti zvopera sei.
Pane zvokudya zvinowanzotangisa vakawanda zvinoti:
a) Mazai
b) Bhinzi
c) Mukaka
d) Chizi
e) Muriwo
f) Maputi.
Kune zvimwe zvakawanda zvinoitisa chigwere ichi. Kana uchiziva kuti chokudya chokuti chinokukonzera kutanga kusura asi zvichizononoka kupera, dai wambosiyana nechokudya ichocho.
2 Kune chigwere chinohi pachirungu IBS. chinoita kuti kana pakusura kwacho munhu anokwanisa kuzviitira svina zvoreva kuti zvinokutyisa kuti usure asi futi zvinokunetsa kuti usasura. Upenyu hwokuremera. Kuti ugare wakaisa LINER kwese kumberi nokushure idambudziko guru kumunhukadzi. Chigwere ichi chinonetsa zve kuchirapa. Chinoitiswa nezvokudya futi asi chinokuvadza kuzasi kweura uko kune ura ukuru.
3 Dzimwe nguva madyire aunoita kana uchidya zvokudya kana zvipi hazvo, anoita kuti umedze mhepo yakawanda nezvokudya. Vanoziva vanoti kushama muromo zvakawanda uye kusatsenga zvokudya zvakakwana kunoita uve nemheya mudumbu. Kana mweya wapinda mudumbu, unofanira kuti ubude, asi usati wabuda, unokuitisa mudumbu kugwadza uyezve haubudi nguva imwe chete saka uchasura wasurazve.
Zvokumedza mweya uchidya zvinowanzoitika kuvanhu vanemumhu mukuru nokuti vanhu vanodya zvakawanda asi nguva yavatora kuzvidya yakangofanana neinoita vanodya zvishoma avo vane munhu mutete.
Saka apa zvinoita sokuti zvikonzero zvechigwere ichi zvishoma. Zvimwe zvazvo hazvizikamwi.
Zera revanazvo:
Chigwere ichi hachiwanzi kuitika kuvana vadiki asi kuvanhu vava kumakore apfuura makumi maviri zvakawanda. Tinoona kuti vanhu ava vanhu vechidiki vasingadi zvinhu zvakaita sokungosurasura. Ndoosaka tati timbotarisa nyaya kuti pane chingaitwa here.
Kunetsa kwazvo:
Kana uri munhukadzi kusura zvinohwikwa nevamwe kunosvodesa kupfuura kana uri munhurume. Munhukadzi anoita mabasa akawanda mumba. Mamwe acho haaenderani nokusura. Sokuti uri mukicheni uri kubika zvinodyiwa nemhuri, Hazvidi kuti uku uri kusura miniti imwe neimwe, uku uri kubika. Kana vacho vanozodya zvawabika havangafari nazvo. Kusiri kuti pane chinoitika pazvokudya asi kungoti fungwa dzavanhu hadzienderani nazvo. Kusura mufungwa ndekwemutoireti, kwete mukicheni.
Pakunovata, hazviiti kuti uku murume ari kuzama kuita zvinonakira muviri, uku iwe uri kungosura pese pese. Kana ange ane zemo, rinongobva rapera rega. Hino ukazodaro mwedzi wese murume akangomirira bodo hazvifambi. Vakawanda verudzi gwedu hautombosuri murume wako achizvihwa. Unoita seusina unhu. Pane kusura kwechitubu kunoitika dzimwe nguva muchirhojana, Vakawanda verudzi gwedu vanosvodeswa nazvo. Ko kuzoti kusura kwechisuri chaicho? Pamwe unenge usingatozivi kuti zvichanhuhwa here kana kwete. Asi kazhinji kuvanhu vane chigwere ichi hazviwanzi zvakanhuhwa hazvo. Asi kuti wopidiguka kuti ufongorere murume wobva watanga kufongora nokutosura ipapo hazvinakidzi mese.
Kana uri murume kana mukadzi kusura zvako hachisi chinhu chakanaka kana pane vanhu.
Kuti uzviregese kusura futi kunokuitisa mudumbu. Kana zvichikwanisika sunga shure yako uende kutoireti wonosurira ikoko. Zviri nani. Zvikuru kana uchipota uchisura zvakanyorova uchisvibisa bhurugwa.
Pane firimu randakamboona raiva nomunhukadzi ane chigwere ichi. Zvino imbwa yevamwewo vaiva nembwa ndokutanga kufembedza magaro emukadzi uya ivo vasangana pazhe pemagirosa. Zvinosvodesa nokuti vanhu vese vanoziva kuti imbwa pane chayanhuwidza pamagaro ipapa.
Zvinorapwa sei?
Kana uri kumusha unohwa vakuru vachiti unofanira kumwa mushonga wengubhani. Asi tikazvitarisa tinoona kuti mushonga uyu haurapi zvese zvigwere zvinohi ngubhani zvacho. Hachisi chigwere chimwe chete sokuona kwataita.
Saka panodiwa kuti uende kuchipatara wovaudza kuti uri kubudisa mweya wakawandisa. Vanokubvunza kuti zvinogwadza here. Taura mahwire aunoita. Vanokwanisa kukupa mapiritsi uye kugara newe pasi motaura nyaya yezvokudya zvako.
Unokwanisazve kutogwa samburi yetsvina kuti vaone kuti une chigwere chipi. Unokwanisazve kupinzwa chioniso shure kuti vatarise mukati kuti ganda remo rine zvimaronda here.
Chikuru ndechokuti unotarigwa uudzwe kuti muviri wako wakamira sei. Zvimwe zvavangakuudza hazvirapiki asi zvinogona kuderedzwa maitire azvo.
Unokwanisa kurerukigwa nemusengwa uyu.
Tiri kuenderera mberi
Kana pane ane dambudziko iri ngaafane kutinyorera mwadhi achitsanangura kuti zvinofamba sei
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Mibvunzo nemhinduro 4
Takabva kumibvunzo nemhinduro 1, 2, and 3, saka tava pano nhasi pa 4. Kana une mubvunzo tanga wanotarisa kwese uku kwatakabva kuti hakuna here mhinduro yakapiwa kare pamubvunzo wako. Zvadaro chitumira mubvunzo wako ugotarisa mhinduro pano.
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Monday, 10 August 2015
Munhukadzi Kuzvidzidzisa Kutunda Pakurhojewa
Uyu mubvunzo wabvunzwa asi nokuti mhinduro yacho ihombe ndati zviri nani ndise zvese mumbvunzo nemhinduro pazvo zvega pane kuzvinyora pamibvunzo nemhinduro.
Muvunzo:
Nhai Mai Chibwe, ndine dambudziko rokuti handina kumbotundawo pakuvata nomurume. Ndinohwa vamwe vachiti vanotunda asi ini handizivi kuti zvinoitika sei uye kuti ndingazviitawo sei. Ndinoda chose kuvata nomurume wangu uye ndinonakirwa nazvo asi handina kumbotunda pazviri.
Imwezve nyaya ndeyokuti ndikakwira murume, ndinoti ndikaita chikapa ndinokasira kuneta zvokuti ndobva ndangorega murume oita ega.
Ndingaitawo sei.?
Mhinduro?
Kutunda ZveFAKE:
Chiyambiro:
Asi hwisisa kuti varume vakawanda vechiZImba vanotya bhinzi. Vanofunga kuti ine zvainazvo zvinokuvadza murume. Zvokuti kana yako iri hombe, murume wako anokwanisa kutyiswa nayo. Kana uchida kuvhundusa murume wako iti paya mapedza kuisana wotora UNDERWEAR yake wozvipukuta nayo. Kana murume wako akakurira mumhuri yaiita zvemishonga anokasira kukufungira uroyi, izvo iwe wanga wangokangamwa kugadzirira tawero.
Murume wechiZimba anonetseka panyaya dzese dzinowanikwa bhinzi yemukadzi. Kutoita vekudzidzisa tega isu varidzi. Unohwa murume mukuru achiudza shamwari dzake kuti mwana ari kugwara nokuti pakuzvagwa akagunzva bhinzi yamai vake.
Kusatoziva kuti kushamwaridzana nebhinzi yomukadzi wako mumba ndicho chinhu chikuru.
Udzai vamwe!!!!!
Muvunzo:
Nhai Mai Chibwe, ndine dambudziko rokuti handina kumbotundawo pakuvata nomurume. Ndinohwa vamwe vachiti vanotunda asi ini handizivi kuti zvinoitika sei uye kuti ndingazviitawo sei. Ndinoda chose kuvata nomurume wangu uye ndinonakirwa nazvo asi handina kumbotunda pazviri.
Imwezve nyaya ndeyokuti ndikakwira murume, ndinoti ndikaita chikapa ndinokasira kuneta zvokuti ndobva ndangorega murume oita ega.
Ndingaitawo sei.?
Mhinduro?
Kunakigwa nokuiswa kuri mufungwa yomukadzi, kwete pazviito zvomurume
Munhu wese anonakigwa nezvaakadzidzra kunakigwa nazvo, Vanhu vakawandisa 85% yevanhukadzi vese vanozvagwa mupasi rese vanohwisisa chose nyaya yokuzvibatabata namaoko kusvika wazvitundisa wega pasina kana murume. Maitire awa anokudzidzisa zvinokunakira nezvisinganyanyi kunaka. Vakawanda havapinzi chinhu mukati mechitubu asi kungozvikwizirira bhinzi nematinji kusvika watunda.
Munhu wese paanozowana murume anenge ava kuziva zvinokwanisa kumunakira obva azama kuita zvimwezvo nomurume. Chinonetsa ndechokuti munhukadzi anoda zvinokwiza bhinzi. Munhurume anoda zvokupinza chombo, saka kuti muenzanise zvonetsa. Imwezve nyaya inonetsa ndeyokuti vanhurume pakuvatana vanototi vatunde urume chero zvodii. Vashomanana vanotadza kutunda urume asi chinenge chichitori chigwere. Vanhukadzi vanotanga kutunda (ORGASM) vari vanana (below 20) vashoma. Vakawanda vanozotangira kumakore ari kuma 27 zvichikwira. Hazvirevi kuti unenge usinganakigwi. Unonakigwa chose asi hausviki pachinhanho chokutunda. Unongozoti umwe musi zvoitika wotozogaroita asi kwete mazuva ese. Unokwanisa kuita kaviri kana katatu pavhiki.
Kumadziro okumusoro uri mukati mechitubu pane panodarika dzimwe zvimbo kuzvimba kana waita zemo. Panhu apa panonaka kukwiziwa kupfuura dzimwe nzvimbo. Panonakazve kuti murume apinze chigumwe agokwenyerera. Kana usina kumbozviitwa udza murume akuite kwete nhasi chete asi mangwana nakusweramangwana kusvika wawana makwenyere anonaka. Panonakazve kana murume achinogofapo nechombo pakukoirana kwenyu. Panhu apa panohi nechirungu G-SPOT. Bhinzi neipapa ndizvo zvinonaka kupfuura pamwe pese saka kana uchizama kutunda pabasa wanza atteNTIon panzvimbo mbiri idzi.
Kumadziro okumusoro uri mukati mechitubu pane panodarika dzimwe zvimbo kuzvimba kana waita zemo. Panhu apa panonaka kukwiziwa kupfuura dzimwe nzvimbo. Panonakazve kuti murume apinze chigumwe agokwenyerera. Kana usina kumbozviitwa udza murume akuite kwete nhasi chete asi mangwana nakusweramangwana kusvika wawana makwenyere anonaka. Panonakazve kana murume achinogofapo nechombo pakukoirana kwenyu. Panhu apa panohi nechirungu G-SPOT. Bhinzi neipapa ndizvo zvinonaka kupfuura pamwe pese saka kana uchizama kutunda pabasa wanza atteNTIon panzvimbo mbiri idzi.
Apa kutunda kwatiri kutaura ndekwekusvika pa ORGASM kete kuti pane mvura kana chimwe chinobuda. Wega unohwa muviri wese kutenderedzwa kuita sewoda kufa kuri kunakigwa. Unotadza kuwana CONTROL yomuviri wako kweminuti imwe kana mbiri, sezvinoita murume achikutundira. Koitazve vamwe vashomanana vanototunda zvokubudisa mvura asi isiri weti panguva iyoyo.
Kana uchida kudzidzira kutunda (kwete zvokubudisa mvura) tanga nokuhwisisa kuti bhinzi yako ine mudzi unopatsanuka woti umwe uku umwe uku buri rechitubu ropinda napakati. Ndizvo uchiona kuti kukoigwa nomurume kunoita ukwiziwe madziro echitubu mukati zvokunakira izvo chombo chomurume chiri kukwizirira mudzi webhinzi.
Chihwisisazve kuti mudzi uyu unotanga uri umwe chete pabhinzi chaipo, wosangana neburi rechitubu wotsemuka yoita midzi miviri. Ukatonona une zemo, ukapinza chigumwe muchitubu mako ukatsvanzadzira mukati kumadziro ekumusoro kuri DIRECT pasi pebhinzi unohwa pakazvimbirira ipapo. Kana ukapakwenyerera ipapo unokwanisa kukasira kutunnda. Zvino toti uri kuiswa nomurume, kana ukamufongorera asi usina kunatsokotama chombo chinopfuura chichikwiza panzwimbo iyi panenge pakazvimbirira kuita bundu. Unokwanisa kukasira kutunda.
Kana uchida kuti murume agofe ipapo chaipo nechombo. Vata nedumbu woisa piro pasi pechiuno kusimudzira chiuno. Murume wokukwira achibva shure wokutanyanga wopinza chombo. Ukasimudzira zvakanaka chombo chinonogofa chaipo pakati pemidzi yebhinzi zvokuti akasakukasirira haunonoki kutunda kana uri munhu anokwanisa kutunda. Hatisi tese vanhukadzi tinogona kutunda, vamwe vanononoka kutanga toti kumakore apfuura 30.
Totizve kana wakapakicha makumbo ako pamafudzi emurume, Kana ukasimudzira chiuno zvinokwanisika kuti murume pakukoira andotofonya pabundu iri zvinonaka chose zvokuti unokwanisa kutunda.
Totizve iye murume kana ari munhu anofarira kukusveta bhinzi, akati uku ari kukusveta bhinzi uku ari kukukwenya pabhundu iri mukati mechitubu, Haunonoki kutunda.
Chihwisisazve kuti mudzi uyu unotanga uri umwe chete pabhinzi chaipo, wosangana neburi rechitubu wotsemuka yoita midzi miviri. Ukatonona une zemo, ukapinza chigumwe muchitubu mako ukatsvanzadzira mukati kumadziro ekumusoro kuri DIRECT pasi pebhinzi unohwa pakazvimbirira ipapo. Kana ukapakwenyerera ipapo unokwanisa kukasira kutunnda. Zvino toti uri kuiswa nomurume, kana ukamufongorera asi usina kunatsokotama chombo chinopfuura chichikwiza panzwimbo iyi panenge pakazvimbirira kuita bundu. Unokwanisa kukasira kutunda.
Kana uchida kuti murume agofe ipapo chaipo nechombo. Vata nedumbu woisa piro pasi pechiuno kusimudzira chiuno. Murume wokukwira achibva shure wokutanyanga wopinza chombo. Ukasimudzira zvakanaka chombo chinonogofa chaipo pakati pemidzi yebhinzi zvokuti akasakukasirira haunonoki kutunda kana uri munhu anokwanisa kutunda. Hatisi tese vanhukadzi tinogona kutunda, vamwe vanononoka kutanga toti kumakore apfuura 30.
Totizve kana wakapakicha makumbo ako pamafudzi emurume, Kana ukasimudzira chiuno zvinokwanisika kuti murume pakukoira andotofonya pabundu iri zvinonaka chose zvokuti unokwanisa kutunda.
Totizve iye murume kana ari munhu anofarira kukusveta bhinzi, akati uku ari kukusveta bhinzi uku ari kukukwenya pabhundu iri mukati mechitubu, Haunonoki kutunda.
Totizve uri pamusoro pemurume wakatanyanga murume unokwanisa kuti ukakoira murume ukaneta zvawataura unokwanisa kuita sowogara murume asi wakasimudzira chiuno kuti pave ne GAP pakati pako nechiuno chemurume kuti akwanise kukukoira. Ukaita sekurerekera shure murume anonogofa pabundu riya wohwa kuwedzera kunaka. Saka unopota uchiti ukarerekera mberi ukareregera shure, ukati twi, uku murume achigofa pakasiyanasiyana mukati mako.
Nyaya chaiyo inoita kuiswa kunyayonaka kurerusa muviri (RELAX) kuti uite zvaunoda pakuiswa. Ukuwo murume okunonokera kukutundira, Ukuwo iwe woisa fungwa yese pekutevera chombo nezvachiri kuita. Davira kuti uri kuiswa nomurume waunoda kwete kuomesa muviri. Rega muviri unakigwe nazvo. Kana zvichinaka, usaruma mazino kuti usaita ruzha rega ruzha guitike. Munhukadzi wese anochemerera nokuti zvinonaka. Saka iwe unodirei kunyarara.
Nyaya chaiyo inoita kuiswa kunyayonaka kurerusa muviri (RELAX) kuti uite zvaunoda pakuiswa. Ukuwo murume okunonokera kukutundira, Ukuwo iwe woisa fungwa yese pekutevera chombo nezvachiri kuita. Davira kuti uri kuiswa nomurume waunoda kwete kuomesa muviri. Rega muviri unakigwe nazvo. Kana zvichinaka, usaruma mazino kuti usaita ruzha rega ruzha guitike. Munhukadzi wese anochemerera nokuti zvinonaka. Saka iwe unodirei kunyarara.
Imwe nyaya dzidza kushinya chombo. Kana chitubu chanyorova chombo chero chezaizi ipi chinokwana asi madziro echitubu anoita COLLAPSE pachombo zvokuti pakupinda chombo chinovhura chitubu, pakubuda chitubu chinovharika shure kwechombo. Ndizvo zvinoita kuti kukwizirana muchikoirana kunake. Zvino munhukadzi akadzidza kushandisa masuru yechitubu, anokwanisa kushinya chombo zvokuti murume pakukoira anotadza kungoita zvaanoda. Ukahwa achimhanyisa woshinya chombo kuti aderedza sipidhi yake, Ukahwa achinonoka woregedzera kuti awedzere sipidhi.
Ukaziva kuti oda kutunda, iwe uchida kuti atunde wotanga kupomba chombo Paanonotanga kutunda chaipo womuti chombo kwiii zvokuti haakwanisi kukoira. Kana uri pamusoro wonatsogara zvokuti chombo chese chinopinda womushinya kuti asakwanisa kuita chimwe chinhu. Anokusiira urume hwese hwaanahwo.
Vanhukadzi vakawanda vanodzidza kuzvinakira pakudhonza matinji. Unopedzisira waziva kuti zvinhu izvi zvinonaka kuzvibata wobva wajaira kugarotamba nazvo wega.
Saka apa tiri kuti unofanira kudzidza wega kutunda wozozama kuita uchiiswa nomurume. Zvokuneta zvawataura kuti unoneteswa nokukoira murume kana uri pamusoro, kusajaira kukoira murume. Purakitiza mazuva akawanda. kana kutoudza murume kuti kumukwira kunonaka kuti agogaroda kuti umukwire. Varume vakawanda vanofarira kuziva kuti mukadzi ari kuda kumukwira nokuti zvinoratidza kuti iye, mukadzi anonakigwawo nazvo.
Vanhukadzi vakawanda vanodzidza kuzvinakira pakudhonza matinji. Unopedzisira waziva kuti zvinhu izvi zvinonaka kuzvibata wobva wajaira kugarotamba nazvo wega.
Saka apa tiri kuti unofanira kudzidza wega kutunda wozozama kuita uchiiswa nomurume. Zvokuneta zvawataura kuti unoneteswa nokukoira murume kana uri pamusoro, kusajaira kukoira murume. Purakitiza mazuva akawanda. kana kutoudza murume kuti kumukwira kunonaka kuti agogaroda kuti umukwire. Varume vakawanda vanofarira kuziva kuti mukadzi ari kuda kumukwira nokuti zvinoratidza kuti iye, mukadzi anonakigwawo nazvo.
Ichi chidzidzo chikuru pamunhukadzi nokuti pamwe tinogunun'una pakusanakigwa nokuvata nomurume asi dambudziko risira pamurume ega. Iwe munhukadzi ziva zvinokunakira ugodzidzsa murume kuita zvaunomboita uri wega. Varume hazvivanetsi nokuti kana murume ari ega anongozvikoira maoko obva atotunda urume. Kana azova nomukadzi akapinza chombo mumukadzi anongokoirazve semaitire aanoita maoko ake. siyano yemaitire ishoma. Chakangosiyana kuti mukadzi anodziya muviri zvinowedzera kumira kwechombo uye kuti mukadzi anochemererawo kuratidza kunakigwa, zvinova zvinopa murume zemo rakawedzera.
Isu ndisu tine zvakasiyana pakushandisa maoko nokushandisa chombo. Saka zvinonetsa kuenzanisa kana wava pachombo. Asi kana murume ari pamusoro mukadzi anokwanisa kuti uku murume ari kumukoira uku iye ari kuzvikwizirira bhinzi kuti akasire kutunda. Murumewo akazvibata kuti kukwiza bhinzi kunokutundisa, anokwanisa kudzidza maitire acho opota achikubatsira.
Murume haakwanisi kuita zvaasingazivi. Vanhukadzi havana kufanana saka chero akamboroora umwe mukadzi, usafunga kuti anoziva zvinonakira iwe. Vakadzi vanotundiswa nokurhojewa nechombo vashomanana vasingasviki 30% mupasi rese.
Kune vamwe vakadzi vanoti kana akaona kuti murume ari kukoira zvinobhowa, Sokuti murume anongoita zvimwezvo zuva nezuva, mukadzi anongopedzisira ongonyebera kuti anakigwa akatunda kuti murume akasire kupedza zvokubhowekkana zvipere. Zvinohi mahure emari uye aya anohi maSMALL HOUSE inyanzvi pakunyebera kutundiswa nomurume, zvinova zvinopa murume manyawi kufunga kuti anogona kurhoja asi iye asingagoni.
Iwe mukadzi wemumba zama kuhwisisa kuti ukatanga nyaya yeFAKE iyi watozviisa pakaoma nokuti muru haachinei nokunakigwa kwako nokuti uri kutaridza kunakigwa kusipo. Iye haangazivi kuti uri kunyebera uye haana chingamufungisa kuti uri kunyebera. Kana usina njere uye uri munhu asingagoni kuvaka musha, ita hako zvekunyebera kutunda izvi. Ndiwe uchaita dambudziko nazvo.
Iwe mukadzi wemumba zama kuhwisisa kuti ukatanga nyaya yeFAKE iyi watozviisa pakaoma nokuti muru haachinei nokunakigwa kwako nokuti uri kutaridza kunakigwa kusipo. Iye haangazivi kuti uri kunyebera uye haana chingamufungisa kuti uri kunyebera. Kana usina njere uye uri munhu asingagoni kuvaka musha, ita hako zvekunyebera kutunda izvi. Ndiwe uchaita dambudziko nazvo.
Zvinoitigwa kuti murume afunge kuti ishasha pabasa. Ko kungomukurudzira kuita shasha chaiyo pabasa zvakaipei. Chinonetsa vamwe vedu panyaya iyi ndechokuti tinosvoda kutaura nyaya sezvairi nomurume. Dzidza kuti kana muri vaviri nomurume wako unogona kutaira mashoko anosvodesa kana une vamwe vanhu. Sununguka kutaura nokubata murume nhengo dzese dzomuviri wake, nokumuudza kuti uri kuda kuiswa izvosi kana kuti kana apedza zvaari kuita ngaauye muisane. Usangomirira murume.
Kana zvichikunetsa tanga nezviroto. Udza murume kuti warota achikuita izvi neizvo. Wochiisa detail yacho. Mava kunovata wochimuudza kuti unoda mumboita zvakarota. Unokwanisazve kutanga nyaya dzinosvodesa pa WhatsApp nomurume ari kubasa. Mutumire mwadhi inomisa chombo. Varume havanetsi kumisa chombo. Akangofunga zvokukurhoja otomira chombo. Kana akakupindura muudze kuti ngaapfuure achitenga TAKE away mugodya mugokasira kundovata nhasi nokuti panhu pari kuvava nokumirira. Zvadaro chigara uchitaura nyaya uchimutsanangurira zvaunoda.
Zvokunyebera kutunda hazvina kwazvinoenda. Siyana nazvo.
Asi hwisisa kuti varume vakawanda vechiZImba vanotya bhinzi. Vanofunga kuti ine zvainazvo zvinokuvadza murume. Zvokuti kana yako iri hombe, murume wako anokwanisa kutyiswa nayo. Kana uchida kuvhundusa murume wako iti paya mapedza kuisana wotora UNDERWEAR yake wozvipukuta nayo. Kana murume wako akakurira mumhuri yaiita zvemishonga anokasira kukufungira uroyi, izvo iwe wanga wangokangamwa kugadzirira tawero.
Murume wechiZimba anonetseka panyaya dzese dzinowanikwa bhinzi yemukadzi. Kutoita vekudzidzisa tega isu varidzi. Unohwa murume mukuru achiudza shamwari dzake kuti mwana ari kugwara nokuti pakuzvagwa akagunzva bhinzi yamai vake.
Kusatoziva kuti kushamwaridzana nebhinzi yomukadzi wako mumba ndicho chinhu chikuru.
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Mutongi gava maenzanise
Kare-kare pasi pachakarohwa nenyundo, madongi achinenyanga, munyika yaMusikamhuka, zitateguru remhuka pakaita pongozozo. Veduwe-e tsisti dzinotsitsirira, munhu akachiona chitsvu akayeuka bako mvura yagasa. Akapepuka ava mungwavaira tateguru renhamo.
Ingwe ichivhima zvayo semazuva ose yakaerekana yapinda muchizarira. Yakaedza mazano ose nemitowo yose kuti ibude naparuzhowa, zvikakona n’anga murapwa achida. Yakafa neshungu kwazvo, ikaumburuka nokunjeesa meno. Zvino mumwe murume wakanga aine tiye nyoro zvikuru, wakapfuura napo. Ingwe ndokumudana, ichiti, “Nhaiwe munhu, shamwari yangu munhu, memwe wangu wemoyo munyoro, dondizarurira pano ndibude.” Iye ndokupindurai nounyoro, achiti, “Kwete kwete shamwari, ndikakuvhurira kana wabuda uchandiruma, kundiuraya nokundidya.” Ikati, “Aiwa, kwete, bodo, tsvo! Ndingagouraya wandiraramisa here? Kuuraya mununuri, wakarurama sebota rinoraramisa rusvava. Asi kana muchinditendera ndingazova muranda wenyu vupenyu hwangu hwose, ndichitenda unyoro hwenyu.” Murume akadzungudza musoro.
ingwe muchizariraIpapo ingwe yakaridza mapika nokupfikaira nokuchema misodzi, kusvikira yanzwirwa tsitsi. Akaizarurira, kamwe yabuda ichimwenuka, ichiti, “Hekaniwaro! Zvino ndingarega kukudya here? Ndava nemazuva mazhinji ndakazarirwa, handisina simba rokuvhima, nzara yava kundi n’en’ena n’ena zvikuru. Ndinofanira kukudya.” Munhu akanyengetera kuti irege kumuruma asi kukumbira kwake kwakashaya basa. Akazoti, “Nditendere kuti ndimbobvunza vamwe ndinzwe kuti vanotii pamusoro peshoko iri. Ndichakumbira pavatatu vokutanga vatinosangana navo kuti vatonge mhaka iyi.” Ingwe ikatenda ichiti, “Bvunza zvako vatatu vokutanga vaunoona, asi ziva kuti uri nyama iwe, unofanira kudyiwa.” Vaviri vakafamba chinyararire nesango vachitsvaga vatongi.
Munhu akatanga kubvunza muti womushuku kuti zvakanaka here kuti ingwe imuuraye iye mununuri wayo. Muzhanje ndokuti,”Munonyunyutirei? Chero ini ndinovigira vanhu vana vangu, uye mumumvuri mangu munogara vanopfuura kana vaneta nokufamba muzuva. Asi hakuna anonditenda. Munongonditema namabwe muchikuvadza gumbo rangu, muchindizunza-zunza. Saka iwe usazeza, tsunga hako.” Munhu akafa neshungu ndokuenderera mberi zvake. Akaona mhou yemombe inosisungwa pabadza nedzimwe mombe, ndokubvunza zvekare. Mhou yakati nechomumoyo, nhasi zvaiwana ngwarati ndokusheedzera ichiti, “Usaita sedatanana uchitsvaka kuvongwa nezvakarurama panyika. Hapana nyaya apa. Ona ini, munondikama mukaka wangu kuzadza hamiro nehamiro muchipedzera mhuru yangu. Pedzezvo kana ndarumura munondisunga pabadza pamwechete nenzombe. Rudzi rwangu rwapera kudyiwa nemi vanhu, nhasi njana nderako, uchagotyei kunhuna iwe wakasasikwa.
Murume akaita seachaputika neshungu, akazviona kuti ainge azvigokera moto muziso. Kuzvipinza panyanga dzanyanga dzamupere nemoyochena wake. Akati e-e regai zvangu ndibvunze nzira. Iyo ndokuti, “Shamwari, usatarira kuti uchaitirwa zvakanaka pano panyika. Unoita sefuza sei. Ini ndinobatsira, kunyangwe zvakadaro vose, vafumi navarombo, vakuru navaduku, vanongonditsika vachindirasira mateko emichero oga namasvisvinwa epwa. Hapana anehanya neni. Dyiwa zvipere, midzimi namusikavanhu vakakumirira kunyikadzimu.”
gavaMunhu akadzokera achisuwa zvikuru, pake painge pamuperera. Panzira, vaviri vakasangana negava. Rikavachingamidza richiti, “Makadii hama dzangu. Ko munhu unonzweiko? Asi warwara?” Murume uye ndokuritaurira zvose zvainge zvaitika. Munhu akati apedza kudenengura nyaya yake, gava rikati, “A, izvi zvinokangaidza kwazo! Chipamhai muchidudzira, nokuti zvose handichazvinzwisisi izvi.” Murume ndokupamhidza zvekare. Gava rakadzungudza musoro, rikafeya upenzi bwokusanzwisisa rikati, “Hazvinzwikwi! Nyaya yenyu inonzwisa musoro iyi, zvirinani tiende payapazvakaitikira. Zvimwe tiripo ndingagona kuzviona nokunzwa, ndigoziva kutonga mhaka iyi.” Murume, ingwe negava ndokutekaidzana
zvakananga kuchizarira. Ingwe yaiti fambe fambe yorodza meno nenzara dzayo, ichigadzirira chirairo chainge chawira mutswanda. Vasvika, yakavomba nehasha, ikati, “Nguva yafamba kurimudza kutsangura nyaya titange hedu kusvusvura.” Munhu akadavidza nokuhuta, achiti, “Ndipei kanguva, tenzi, kokududzira mashoko iya kunagava.” Munhu ndokupamhidza achirondedzera nyaya yose. Gava rakataridza kuoma musoro sechigogodza rikati, “Yowe, musoro wangu! Unenge wakaoma. Regai ndione, ” Wait iwe munhu, ndiwe wanga uri muchizarira, ingwe ndokupfuuura? …” Ingwe ikamudimbudzira ichiti, “Sva, gava, uri benzi iwe, dununu chairo. Inzwai. Ini ndanga ndiri muchizarira.” Gava ndokunyepera kungwenda nokutya, richiti, “Hon’o, heya, zvino ndanzwa. Ndini ndaiva muchizarira … Kweteba! Maiwe, maiwe! Murangariro wangu waita sei! Nokuti ndanga ndisipo. Regai ndichiidzazve. Ingwe yaiva mumunhu, chizarira chichipfuvura nenzira … bodo, ndatadzazve. Asi chiregai henyu, kurinani kuti uchitanga kudya hako nokuti handichatongoinzwisisi nyaya yenyu iyi.
Ingwe yakatsamwiswa zvikuru noupenzi hwegava, ikati, “Urichikwinya iwe, tarira pano! Chinzwai. Ini ndichakurondedzera kwazvo ndomene. Ona, ini, ndiri ingwe!” Yakadzro ichizvibata. Gava rikati, “Ishe” Ingwe ndokupfuura ichiti, “Uyu, ndimunhu!” ichibata murume uye. Gava ndokudavira richiti, “Mambo wangu.” Ingwe ndokuti, “Ichi chizarira.” Gava ndokugutsurira musoro richiti, “Ishe wangu.” Ingwe ikasimbisa mashoko ayo ikati, “Uye iye ini, ndanga ndiri muchizarira ichi. Wazvinzwa?” Gava ndokuti, “Handizinwi kwazo. Mundiitirewo moyo murefu, ishe.” Ingwe ikati, “Gava, zvousinganzwisisi ndezvipiko?” Iro rikati, “Asi mambo, mainge mambochipinda sei chizarira ichi?” Ingwe yainge yaneta nokudonhedza rute uyezve nokutsanangudza ndokupindura noukasha, “Kupinda! Ndakaita sezvatinosiita nguva dzose-dzose!” Gava rikati richihuta, “Nhasi zvangu! Ndotanga kunzwe dzungu ndichigomerwa namashoko makobvu akadai. Musanditsamwira henyu, mambo. Donditaurira kuti mutowo womunosipinda nawo ndoupi?” Zvino ingwe yakaneta, ndokukwakukira muchizarira, ichiti, “O, ndichidaika! Wazvinzwa zvino here?” Gava ndokukasira, kamwe ndokuipfigiramo, rikangomwekurira richiti, “Ndazvinzwa kwazvo! Ndizvo hazvo. Ko iwe munhu wanga uripapi?” “Ndaifamba zvangu nenzira ndichienda kwandaienda”, murume akapindura. Gava ndokuti, “Mhanya kunzira usandipedzere nguva. Zvino ngatichisiyai zvose zvakadaro sepakare. Mumwe nomumwe achiita zvaaita.” Ndokubva zvaro rapfuurirawo richienda kwaraienda.
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Tinshe Muchuri anopinda matare naCrymio Kutyauripo
mubhuku Museve usingapotse rakatsikiswa mugore ra2014, neCollege Press
Mapeji 134
ISBN 9781779006189
Museve usingapotse inyaya yaKaringe mwanakomana waMambo Chakaingesu uyo airwira nyika yake yainge yabvutwa nemuzukuru wake Pondai. Munyaya iyi munobuda hudzamu hwedzidziso yeupenyu yemunhu mutema kusati kwazouya dzizdiso iriyo mukore uno.
Musoro webhuku ‘Museve usingapotse’ chirevo chinoudzamu ukuru. Kana vanhu vachigara vakarongedzera mhuri dzavo mune ramangwana havangapotse pakufamba kwavo muhupenyu. Izvi zvinoonekwa munyika yaMambo Chakaingesu umo maidzidziswa vana mabasa ekubata namaoko avo. Vakomana navasikana vaidzidziswa zvekubata namaoko panzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana navadzidzisi vakasiyana-siyana. Dzidziso yacho yaibva mumatare akasiyana-siyana seiro raNyahwedekwe apo panonzi naKutyauripo paipakurirwa vakomana mabasa akasiyana ane chekuita nehupenyu hwavo.
“Padare raNyehwedekwe ndipowo paitandarira vakomana manheru oga oga vachiita ngano, zvirahwe, tsumo nemadimikira. Vakomana vaiungana padare apa votanga kurondedzerwa nekudzidziswa magariro emunyika yavo nemagariro aiitwa nemadzitateguru avo navanasekuru vakanga vakwegura vaiva vana chipangamazano.”
Mukore uno kwaita dambudziko rekuti nyika yaomerwa haichina mabasa ekubata. Munguva iyo nyika iri kuita hurongwa hwekurongedzwa patsva kwedzidzo yenyika. Iyo inodaidzwa kuti Curriculum Review pachiRungu, vanamazvikokota varikukurudzira dzidzo inosimbisa mibato yamaoko. Munyori anotaridza nyika kukosha kwedzidziso yaiveyo makare-kare inova iyowo yaive nechekuita nemabasa amaoko achiti;
“Panguva yamasikati padare ndipo paidzidziswa vakomana kupfura matemo, miseve, matemo, nemapadza. Kwozoti vaiveza mipinyi yemakano, mapadza nematemo ndevamwewo zvekare vainge vari padare apa. Iye Nyahwedekwe ndiye aidzidzisa mauto echidiki kuposhera miseve nemapfumo avaigadzira.”
Imwe nyaya yakakosha inobatwa naKutyauripo ndeyewanano. Matare edzimhosva azara nenyaya dzevanhu vari kudambura michato. Makare vanhu vaidzidziswa kuti chinonzi kuvaka musha chii uye kuti zvakakosherei. Iye nhasi matare ekudzidzisa vasati vapinda musvitsa hakuchina. Musvitsa mopindwa navanhu vasina kukwanira. Munyori anoburitsa pachena kukosha kwekudzidziswa kwevaduku vave pazera rekupinda musvitsa kuti vasazobudamo kana vapinda. Dzidziso iyi yaibva kuvatana vemunyika yaMambo Chakaingesu vakaita saNyahwedekwe sekutaura kweKutyauripo apo anonyora achiti;
“Paaigara pose ainge asingasiyane nevakomana vava kuda kubuda mugota achivadzidzisa chinonzi kubva zera, kupfimbana nekuwanana. Aiongorora maitirwo etsika nekuona kana paine ainge ari kudzityora pane vose vaiva vachiri kukura. Aiziva kuchengetedza tsika namagariro emumuzinda. “
Kutyauripo anotinongedzerawo kudzidziso yakakosha inochekuita netsika yekukudzana uye kushandisa muromo. Zvinonzi muromo kapako kekuhwanda nako kune vanogona kukashandisa asizve ndimandurayise kune vasingagoni kuushandisa. Vakuru vanogara vachichema-chema nenyaya yekuti vana havachavaremekedza, asi kuvabvunza kuti rukudzo rwacho runobva kupi unoona vongoti boi-boi semukwambo awanikwa achichachura rongo raambuya. Kukudza vakuru hakudonhi mumuti semuchero waibvisa kana kunaya semvura, kunodzidziswa vana sezvaiitwa naNyahwedekwe achiraira vaduku vemunyika yaMambo Chakaingesu sekunongedzera kwaKutyauripo achiti Nyahwedekwe aiti;
‘Matove zvigondora vazukuru, midzimu yapasi inonzwa, kudza midzimu yako uchikudzawo vakuru kwauri. Mambo vako vanoremekedzwa nekuti ndivo jinda guru remidzimu yedu. Tsigisa hana semunhurume nguva dzose uchirangarira kuti muromo ndimandiurayise…Ziva kuti hunhu kugara uchikudza vedunhu rako, muchigarisana zvakanaka.’
Museve usingapotse rinoburitsawo zvakare kukosha kwehukama. Nhasi uno vana vazhinji havachaziva kukosha kwehukama. Makuna-kuna awanda nekuti hukama hahucharevi chinhu kumunhu wanhasi. Asi munyika yaMambo Chakaingesu zvinoratidza kuti mairemekedzwa nyaya yehukama iyi, mutana ainzi Nyahwedekwe anonzi aitaurawo kumhuri achiti, ‘mwana wose achangorumurwa pazamu ngaabve atotanga kurerwa nemadzikoma, madzibabamunini, madzitete, uye nedzina rese. Izvi zvinobatsira kuti kana munhu anoda kumutuma pamadiro haazorambi sezvo anenge ave kuziva hukama pakati pedu.’
Zvimwe zvitendero zvaveyo nhasi zvisati zvaveko, vanhu vainamata kuna Musikavanhu kubudikidza nemidzimu yavo. Kupira vachishandisa doro nebute ndiyo yaiva nzira yamanamatire avo. Munyori anopa jekeso yemanamatire akare achiti, “kupira zvirimwa vachishandisa doro nezvimwe zvipo kwaive kuratidza ukama nekudyidzana pakati pavo nevenyikadzimu.”
Munyori anitudzawo kuti makare-kare munhu aizogara humambo kana anotungamirira nyika asisipo aisaitwa zvefemera-fembera zvoitwa mukore uno. Humambo hwaigarwa nevana veimba yehumambo. Wacho anenge achifanira kugara pachigaro chamambo aitanga kudzidziswa zvehumambo, mambo vachi vapenyu. Mambo vaitoinda naye kunzvimbo dzinoera sezvaiita Mambo Chakaingesu kuenda naKaringe mwanakomana wavo kuninga uko kwaiva nehukoshwa hwenyika yavo. Kutyauripo anoti Mambo Chakaingesu vanokokorodza makurukota avo avataurira zano ravo vachiti, “Ndinofanira kupota ndichienda naye kuninga kuti achiona zvinoitwa nokuti kufa kunongouya chero musi iye asingazive kuti zvinoitwa sei.” Izvi zvinoreva kuti munhu aizova mambo aisazonetseka kutungamirira nyika sekuti zvose anenge ava kuzviziva.
Kuuya kwakaita zvitendero zvitsva zvimwe zvacho zvinorambidza vatenderi vazvo kuti vadaidzwe nemutupo, vazhinji vemunyika yeZimbabwe havachagoni kudetemba mitupo yavo. Vazhinji vacho vava kuziva kunamata nenzira itsva idzi. Vanhu vazhinji unonzwa vofonera kune avo vavanofunga kuti vanoziva zvetsika namagariro zviya kana mwana apihwa basa rekunoitira kumba kubva kuchikoro nemudzidzisi wake. Asi Kutyauripo anobetsera vanhu vakaita saivava nekuti anoratidza manamatirwe aiitwa nemunhu mutema kuna Musikavanhu kubudikidza nekutura mitoro yese kumidzimu yake.
Minamato iyi yaikosheswa zvikuru zvekuti tete Matose vanoudza muzukuru wavo Karinge kuti, “Muzukuru, muteuro uri kutaurwa pano ndewekuremekedza vari nyikadzimu nokuti havasi vokujairira sehope dzinongoitwa madirativhange navakuru navadiki. Chinhu chikuru chakakosha pamiteuro yedu ndechekuti hama yemutupo ndiyo inoteura kwete mutorwa. Muteuro wevari kumhepo une mutauro wakaisvodzama mutsika namagariro edu isu vanhu nokuti venyikadzimu ndivo vane marembesanwa etsika nemagariro akaisvodzama. Uroyi upombwe haudikanwi pakuteura.”
Nguva zhinji vashanyi kunzvimbo dzinoera vanonyangarika vasisazoonekwazve. Kana hama dzikanzi dzitevedze tsika namagariro anoita kuti hama dzavo dzidzoke unonzwa vachiramba nekuti havatevedzi chivanhu pamwe nekuchikoshesa. Tete Matose vanoroveredza Karinge vachiti, “Kune zvinhu zvizhinji zvatinofanira kukoshesa, kutevedzera, kuchengetedza, nekusazoita zvisakaitwa pasi pezuva rino. Takazviwana zviripo uye tinosungirwa kusiya tagamuchidza vanotevera kuitira unhu hwedu hurambe huchimiminwa sesurudzo rehundi. Nzvimbo dzinoera ngadziereswe. Mhuka dzinoremekedzwa ngadziremekedzwe. Wirirano inodikanwa chose paukama hwemunhu nemhuka, miti, uswa uye pamusoro pazvo kukudza vari nyikadzimu.”
Kutyauripo anoratidza kukposha kweruzivo rwechikare. Munyika yaMambo Chakaingesu maiva navanhu vakatesva utosvo zvokuti vaiziva kuti mushure mamaguta kunouyawo nzara. Kana nzara yaita yaifanira kuvawana vakagadzirira. Iye zvino tava namatura eGrain Makerting Board (GMB) asi ivo vaichengetera zviyo zvavo mumapako. “Zviyo zvaigara muninga kuitira mwaka yenzara.” Mambo Chakaingesu vanodaro vachiudza mwanakomana wavo karinge..
Kutyauripo anotiratidza kuti makare yaisava tsika yavarume kuti vashungurudze madzimai nenzira yemhirizhonga dzemudzimba seapo anotaura nezvenyaya yaNyamaropa. Kunyange zvazvo vaiveyowo vamwe varume vairova madzimai avo, havasi vose varume vairova madzimai avo. Nyamaropa aitozivikanwa kuti airemekedza madzimai ake kupfuura vamwe varume vemunyika yaMambo Mupambi. ‘Aizivawo kuti kurova hakusiriko kunogadzirisa dambudziko remumba asi kuti murume nemukadzi vanofanira kuziva kupedza dambudziko nekutaurirana vari mukati memba yavo. “
Pane zvakanaka hapashaikwi chakaipa. Nyaya yaKutyauripo ine zvemende zvayo zvinoiremera. Chimende chekutanga ndechekuti panoverengwa nyaya dzinechekuita namararamire akare zvinoita sekuti muverengi ari kuverenga nyaya imwechete. Zvinoita sekuti vanhu venguva iyi vaisambovawo nenguva yekudanana, kuita mitambo yekufara nekuti nyaya dzacho zhinji dzine chekuita nehondo dzehumambo bedzi. Hapana anodawo kungotipa nyaya isina chekuita nehondo dzehumambo idzi. Timboonawo kutsvetsvana kwavo kwavaiita, timboonawo kufara kwavaiita. Timboonawo kana kupemberera kwavaiita kana vachinge vagona kusika moto, kugadzira banga, demo kana kuveza chaiko.
Panewo zvimwe zviri munyaya iyi zvinoratidza kuti munyori haana kunge aitawo tsvakurudzo yakakwana seapo anoti paifamba Pondai musango aidya “michero yakaita setsarangidza, shumha, matufu nemazhanje.” Kazhinji michero inoreva mwaka yakasiyana yegore. Mazhanje anoibva kupera kwaMbudzi achizozuka kutanga kwaNdira. Shumha dzinowanikwa kupera kwaChikunguru kusvika kupera kwaGunyana. Zvinoreva kuti michero iyi haiwanikwi nguva imwe kunze kwekuti kana wava mufushwa. Asizve muverengi angangoda kuziva kuti sei michero iyi yawanikwa mumwaka mumwe iyo iri michero yemwaka miviri yakasiyana.
Chimwe chisingatendeseki ndecheapo munyori anotaura nezvaMarizani achiti, “Akauregedzera museve ukanoti muziso zete uchinobuda nekune rimwe ziso.” Ziso rairehwa raive rerovambira zvinopa mubvunzo wekuti iro rovambira racho raimbova rakakura zvakadini uye kuti maziso aro anodondana here. Munyori haana kupajekesa ipapa. Munyori anoenderera mberi achiudza muverengi kuti Marizani wakere akaregedzera umwe museve wetatu wakasvikoti muziso, “zete!” zvinoita kuti muverengi ape kubvuza kuti rovambira rinamaziso mangani sezvo umwe museve waive watombobaya maziso maviri uchiita zvekubovesera nekune rimwe racho. Mafambire ezviitiko anondoti pesei zvinosiya muverengi ane mibvunzo mizhinji kwazvo.
Panotaurwa zvekurumwa kwaMurambiwa nezinyoka raigara muninga yamadzishe umo maiva makahwanda Mambo Chakaingesu iyo yainzi mhungu zvinosiya muverengi achikahadzika kuti mhungu yakura zvakadii zvokusvika pakumedza munhu mukuru akaita saMurambiwa umwe weuto raMambo Mupambi ainge auya kuzorwisa Mambo Chakaingesu nedivi rechekuninga. Zvichida dai yaiva shato zvainzwikwa. Uyewo iyo mhungu haiwanikwi kumakomo asi kumapani. Hama yayo rovambira ndiro rinowanikwa kumakomo seiro rakaruma Kunjerekunjere.
Ko, iye muroyi nen’anga zvine musiyano here? Munyori anofananidza n’anga nemuroyi apo anotaura nezvaKandishaya nemudzimai wake. Izvi zvinoita kuti muverengi asare ane havi yekuda kuziva kuti munyori akamboita tsvakurudzo yekuda kuzivawo here musiyano wemuroyi nen’nga.
Pane pamwe pekuti munyori akadzikisira rimwe boka ravanhu vanowanikwa pakati pedu. Apo Karinge anoti kuvamwe vake, “Ngatisaita setsvimborume kana ngomwa machinda, kana tikadaro tinenge taguta upenyu.” Mashoko aya anonyomba avo vasina vana uye mhuri. Vamwe vacho vonogona kunge isiri sarudzo yavo kusava nemhuri kana vana. Kunyangova iri sarudzo yavo, neimwe nzira zvinenge zvinoreva kuti tsvimborume kana ngomwa hadzina chekuraramira. Vanorarama vose vanoraramira kuzvarana here kana kuti vanodawo upenyu?
Koitawo imwe inodzikisira avo vanotaura vashishandisa zviratidzo apo munyori anoti, “Zvakapedzesera zvave kutyisa Chikwirandaombera zvekuti kana kugara pasi akatadza achiona murume mukuru uya achitadza kutaura sechimumumu.” Zvatinoti zvimumumu kana zvichiona isu tisingagoni kutaura nemutauro wazvo wezviratidzo zvinoti tinotadza. Kutaura nemutauro wezviratidzo hakusi kutadza kutaura. Sign Language umwe wemimwe mitauro gumi nemitanhatu inotenderwa kushandiswa munyika yeZimbabwe nebumbiro renyika. Vashandi vanobata neveruzhinji vakaita semapurisa, vana mukoti namachiremba varikukurudzirwa kudzidzira mutauro iwoyu wezviratidzo kuti vagogona kushanda neveruzhinji zvisina dambudziko.
Pane zvakati kuti zvinodawo kuona kwemunyori kuti nyaya yake inyatsotendeseka. Zvakadaro hazvo iri ibhuku rinofanira kushandiswa nevaya vanoda kuziva zvemadzinza avo uye kuti vangapira midzimu yavo sei neavo vanoda kuva neruzivo rwetsika namagariro emunhu mutema wanezuro uyewo ruzivo rwake.


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What Zim men want in relationships – Havadi beche rakadhamba rinobuda mazimvura!
1) Varume havadi vakadzi vanotaurisa. Kumba kwacho kunenge kusingagarike vamwe vakadzi vanotaurisa somunhu anenge akutofara arikunze hatingatizwe pasina zvikonzero gadzirisai ipapo. Kuti murume agare pamba hunge pachigarika girlfriend inokubata bho zvekuti kana akasura unonzi sorry dady hamuna kukuvara manje kumba unotukwa
2) Bonde rinonakidza kana vakadzi tichiitawo action unonzwa mamwe madzimai achiti ko haupedzi here ndavakuda kurara apa pamwe zvaanodaro haana futi matinji murume anoita sekunge ari kurova bonyora and yet munhu asina matinji plus hamuna respect vamwe venyu
3) Havazi vose varume vanorasa rudo nekuda kwema girlfriends kana nemafaro. Mukadzi anoitirwa zvose uchipihwa love yose then anenge akuti akafonerwa otiza nephone kunodairira panze. Panguva yebonde vachiita romance unonzwa mukadzi akuridza ngonono asi manga muchitotaura nyaya akukurasa maoko. Ukada kutamba naye zvonzi handizi chidhori chako. Ukamusekerera zvonzi urikuzhinyei asi hapana chamagumburisana Akamutsiudza hunhu hwakaipa hunoita kuti imba yenyu itadze kumira mushe makufonera hama dzenyu kuti murikushungurudzwa. Vamwe ndivo vanomhanya ku Musasa Project kwamunosvika muchiidzwa zvisizvo. kuda hauudi zvepano enda zvako kumba kwenyu zvonzi ndinofira pano
4) Varume havadi vakadzi vanongotaura zvima problems pese. Mukadzi anenge achingotaura zvima problems hemukoma wako hehanzvadzi yako hesekuru varikuda mombe iye yakasara pakuroora varikuvhunza unouya nayo rinhi hemama vati hemwana wako ange achiita nhingirikina aiskana kana bhora reChelsea neManchester United ringazonakidza here kubhawa neshamwari inenge iri yeeeee goal kugirlfriend mira ndikucheke nzara dzarebesa imbo ndipawo french kiss. Saka murume unowandira kupi zuva rese.
5) Vakadzi tererai iwo muchigeza mudzimba umu ndokuti tisasiiwe vamwe tiri mareferees totaura twunyanya twusina kana musoro panguva yaunoona kuti yavenguva yebonde zvinoita kuti baba vashaye appettite yekuda kurova zvinhu. Sometimes vakadzi ndisutinotuma varume chihure. Vazhinji venyu pamakarorwa hamuna kurairwa nana tete. Makangoenda musina kuudzwa kuti varume vanobatwa sei, thats why you see madivorce arikuwanda. Kana tasiyiwa nevamurume totanga kuti hee heee men are dogs, i have never heard men saying crap about their women.


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Skweya
Muchidzidzo chePimanyika (Geometry), skweya (Square) chiumbwa chine mativi mana ose akaenzana negonya ina dzose dzakaenzana. Skweya riri mumupanda wegonyaina.
Pimamuganhu neNharaunda[chinja | edit source]
Pimamuganhu yeskweya rine mativi akareba nhambwe K inowanikwa netsazaniso inoti:
Pimamuganhu, P = 4.K,
uye Nharaunda yeSkweya inowanikwa netsazaniso inoti:
Nharaunda, A = K2
Zvifaniro zveSkweya[chinja | edit source]
Skweya iri mumupanda wegonyaina tsazamativi neruramamakonyo, saka zvinoreva kuti ine zvose zvifaniro (properties) zviumbwa zviviri izvi; sokuti:
- Guramakonya mbiri dzinochekana negonya re 90o uye dzinochekana kuita zvikamu zviviri zvakaenzana.
- Guramakonya dzeSkweya dzinocheka makonya muzvikamu zviviri zvakaenzana.
- Mativi akatarisana eSkweya akaenzana uye akati sambamba.
- Guramakonya mbiri dzeSkweya dzakaenzana
- Makonya ose ari mana eSkweya akaenza ari 90o


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Monday, 23 February 2015
Mushonga wevarume kuvakadzi
Pano toda kumbotaura nezvemushonga wekuti varume vakunyenge, vagokuda, vagoita zvaunoda kuti vaite. Kana uri musikana unokwanisa kugarofunga umwe mukomana uye kurota uchivata naye asi zvokuti utsvake mushonga wekuti avate newe zvinoitwa navashomanana. Vakawanda vanoda mushonga werudo, kuti mukomana anohi nhingi andide agondisarudza kubva pakati pevamwe vese vaanoona, agondinyenga, agozondiroora. Saka pese apa pane mishonga inotsvakwa ndeyokuti imwe neimwe nhanho ifambire mberi.
Kune vakadzi vakuru vakawandisa vanobatsira vechidiki kuwana mishonga iyi. Kozoitazve vakawanda vanoita yokutenga, navamwe vanoudzwa zvokuita kuzvigadzirira mishonga iyi. Mudzimba dzakawanda mune mishonga yakachengetwa inoshanda kuti murume agare zvakanaka nomukadzi.
Mushonga wekuonekwa nevarume
Mushonga uyu unoita kuti musikana aonekwe nevakomana kupfuura zvinoita vamwe vasikana. Zvinoreva kuti musikana anonyengwa nevakomana vakawanda kupfuura vanonyenga vamwe vasikana.
Mushonga wekubvisa munyama kana wanonoka kunyengwa
Uyu ndiwo mushonga unozikamwa nevasikana vakawanda chose. Musikana akaona asvika makore ari pamusoro pe 25 asina amukumbira kumuroora, yave nguva yokutsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune vamwe. Kuti munhukadzi akadai atangezve kunyengwa anotanga abvisa munyama, zvoreva kuti vakomana vanotangazve kumunyenga. Mushona wemunyama kazhinji unoiswa mumvura yokugeza. Musikana akageza nemvura iyi kwenguva munyama unopera obva atanga kunyengwa. Nyaya yake yofambira mberi. Pane imwe nguva vabereki chaivo vanotora mwana wavo voenda naye kunopia mushonga wekubvisa munyama.
Mushonga wekuchengetedza mukomana
Kune vanoti akanyengwa haakwanisi kugara nomukomana wake kwenguva asina kurambwa. Pakadai panodiwa mushonga wekuchengetedza mukomana, unova mushonga werudo. Kune vasikana vanonyengwa nevakomana vakawandisa asi kunongopera kanguva kadikidiki obva arambwa. Kutya kuramba chinhu chikuru chose kuvasikana, zvikuru kana musikana ava munhu mukuru uye kana ane tsika yokuti akadanana nomukomana ogaromuvhurira makumbo. Pakurambwa anofunga zvvakawanda pamusoro pezvinozikamwa nomukomana uyu.
Kana musikana ari mhandara zviri nani pakurambwa. Zvinogwadza moyo asi hazvifanani nokurambwa nomukomana wawapa zvese. Ndipo vasikana vachizoda kuwana mushonga wekuchengetedza mukomana kusvika pakuroorana.
Mushonga wekuroogwa
Mushonga wekuroogwa mazuuvano wawanda chose nokuti vakomana vemukore uno vane meso meso, zvokuti musikana akapusa anotoregwa mukomana neavo vakasvinura kumupfuura. Mushonga wekuti mukomana akuroore wakakosha chose uye une zvakawanda mauri. Kana mukomana akabvuma kuvambuka zambuko iri.
Mushonga wekuroogwa unokosha chose zvokuti unoona vasikana vava pazera nechinhanho ichi votanga kuwirirana nevakadzi vedzimba kugovana mushonga uyu kuti zvinhu zvifambe. Inguva yokufunganya kuvasikana vakawanda, zvikuru kana wange uchiziva kuti mukomana wako ane vamwe vasikana.
Vazhinji vanozoita zvokutsvaka mimba kumukomana kuti vabatsire nyaya yokuroogwa. Asi unoona kuti vamwe vasina mishonga chero akaita mimba mukomana anongomuramba zvakadaro. Vakadzi vakawanda vane dzimba nevarume vanoraira vasikana vane vakomana kuti zvinoitwa sei.
Mushonga wekuti murume asaita meso meso
Kana mava mumba vasikana vanoziva kuti murume anokwanisa kufinhwa newe zvokuti anotanga kuona vamwe vasikana. Zvoitazve kuti vasikana vakawanda vanoda murume ane mukadzi nechekare, nokuti anoonekwa somunhu akatsiga. Iwe muridzi wemurume ukabvunza vamwe vakadzi unokwanisa kuuudzwa kuti tsvaka mushonga wekuti newekuti.
Nyaya iyi inokura kana wava nemima nokuti ndiyo nguva inoonekwa sokuti murume anowedzera kuhura. Varume verudzi gwedu kana mukadzi akaita mimba ikakura kupfuura mwedzi mitanhatu havachadi kuvata newe. Pane nyaya yokuti varume vanotya kugofa mwana nechombo. Uku kusaziva BIOLOGY yemunhukadzi. Zvinoitisa kuti munhu kadzi anoziva kkuti murume wake munhu anofarira chose kuvata naye afunge kuti murume ari kuana zvinhu kune umwe mukadzi. Inguva inotyisa saka mishonga inowanda mumba.
Mushonga wekuti murume adzoke kana wekuchengetedza watadza kushanda
Kana wamborambwa nomurume iri ngari yokuti paita umwe mukadzi kana hure remuraini chairo, unokwanisa kuudzwa kuti tsvaka mushonga. Zvozoitikazve kuti tinoziva kuti murume wese anoda kuvata nomukadzi waakambovata naye. Wako iyeye akakuona uri wega ukamusekerera anokwanisa kuda kuvata newe zvisinei kuti akakuramba.
Saka apa unokwanisa kukwezva murume kuti avate newe iwe womuisira mushonga wekuti adzoke kwauri. Mishonga yeizvi inowanzoiswa mubhurugwa romukadzi kana kuti paya mukashandisa kondomu semazuvano emakondhomu, iwe unotora urumwe hwake wohushandisa nomushonga kuti adzoke. Kare vaishandisa zvitawero zvokupukutisa murume kana mapedza kuisana. Ihwohwo urume ushoma huripo patawero hunoshandiswa kugadzira murume. Varume vazhinji vanofunga nechombo panyaya dzevakadzi saka hazvinetsi kuhwisisa kuti nyaya iri papi.
Kushanda kwemishonga iyi:
Chokutanga ndechokuti varume vanotya mishonga yese iri pano zvokuti akaziva chete kuti unawo anokuramba ipapo nyaya yako yobva yatopera woudzwa kuti uri muroi. Varume vanoona sokuti ndivo maVIctim emishonga iyi saka vakadzi ndivo varoi. Havahwisisi dambudziko ro mukadzi rinomudya moyo kusvika ada kunotsva mushonga wekubatsira nyaya yake.
Hama dzemurume hadzidi muroora anotsvakira mwana wavo mushonga. Kana mai vakapa baba vemukomana mushonga havadi kuti mwana wavo apiwewo mushonga.
Kune vakadzi vakuru vakawandisa vanobatsira vechidiki kuwana mishonga iyi. Kozoitazve vakawanda vanoita yokutenga, navamwe vanoudzwa zvokuita kuzvigadzirira mishonga iyi. Mudzimba dzakawanda mune mishonga yakachengetwa inoshanda kuti murume agare zvakanaka nomukadzi.
Mushonga wekuonekwa nevarume
Mushonga uyu unoita kuti musikana aonekwe nevakomana kupfuura zvinoita vamwe vasikana. Zvinoreva kuti musikana anonyengwa nevakomana vakawanda kupfuura vanonyenga vamwe vasikana.
Mushonga wekubvisa munyama kana wanonoka kunyengwa
Uyu ndiwo mushonga unozikamwa nevasikana vakawanda chose. Musikana akaona asvika makore ari pamusoro pe 25 asina amukumbira kumuroora, yave nguva yokutsvaka rubatsiro kubva kune vamwe. Kuti munhukadzi akadai atangezve kunyengwa anotanga abvisa munyama, zvoreva kuti vakomana vanotangazve kumunyenga. Mushona wemunyama kazhinji unoiswa mumvura yokugeza. Musikana akageza nemvura iyi kwenguva munyama unopera obva atanga kunyengwa. Nyaya yake yofambira mberi. Pane imwe nguva vabereki chaivo vanotora mwana wavo voenda naye kunopia mushonga wekubvisa munyama.
Mushonga wekuchengetedza mukomana
Kune vanoti akanyengwa haakwanisi kugara nomukomana wake kwenguva asina kurambwa. Pakadai panodiwa mushonga wekuchengetedza mukomana, unova mushonga werudo. Kune vasikana vanonyengwa nevakomana vakawandisa asi kunongopera kanguva kadikidiki obva arambwa. Kutya kuramba chinhu chikuru chose kuvasikana, zvikuru kana musikana ava munhu mukuru uye kana ane tsika yokuti akadanana nomukomana ogaromuvhurira makumbo. Pakurambwa anofunga zvvakawanda pamusoro pezvinozikamwa nomukomana uyu.
Kana musikana ari mhandara zviri nani pakurambwa. Zvinogwadza moyo asi hazvifanani nokurambwa nomukomana wawapa zvese. Ndipo vasikana vachizoda kuwana mushonga wekuchengetedza mukomana kusvika pakuroorana.
Mushonga wekuroogwa
Mushonga wekuroogwa mazuuvano wawanda chose nokuti vakomana vemukore uno vane meso meso, zvokuti musikana akapusa anotoregwa mukomana neavo vakasvinura kumupfuura. Mushonga wekuti mukomana akuroore wakakosha chose uye une zvakawanda mauri. Kana mukomana akabvuma kuvambuka zambuko iri.
Mushonga wekuroogwa unokosha chose zvokuti unoona vasikana vava pazera nechinhanho ichi votanga kuwirirana nevakadzi vedzimba kugovana mushonga uyu kuti zvinhu zvifambe. Inguva yokufunganya kuvasikana vakawanda, zvikuru kana wange uchiziva kuti mukomana wako ane vamwe vasikana.
Vazhinji vanozoita zvokutsvaka mimba kumukomana kuti vabatsire nyaya yokuroogwa. Asi unoona kuti vamwe vasina mishonga chero akaita mimba mukomana anongomuramba zvakadaro. Vakadzi vakawanda vane dzimba nevarume vanoraira vasikana vane vakomana kuti zvinoitwa sei.
Mushonga wekuti murume asaita meso meso
Kana mava mumba vasikana vanoziva kuti murume anokwanisa kufinhwa newe zvokuti anotanga kuona vamwe vasikana. Zvoitazve kuti vasikana vakawanda vanoda murume ane mukadzi nechekare, nokuti anoonekwa somunhu akatsiga. Iwe muridzi wemurume ukabvunza vamwe vakadzi unokwanisa kuuudzwa kuti tsvaka mushonga wekuti newekuti.
Nyaya iyi inokura kana wava nemima nokuti ndiyo nguva inoonekwa sokuti murume anowedzera kuhura. Varume verudzi gwedu kana mukadzi akaita mimba ikakura kupfuura mwedzi mitanhatu havachadi kuvata newe. Pane nyaya yokuti varume vanotya kugofa mwana nechombo. Uku kusaziva BIOLOGY yemunhukadzi. Zvinoitisa kuti munhu kadzi anoziva kkuti murume wake munhu anofarira chose kuvata naye afunge kuti murume ari kuana zvinhu kune umwe mukadzi. Inguva inotyisa saka mishonga inowanda mumba.
Mushonga wekuti murume adzoke kana wekuchengetedza watadza kushanda
Kana wamborambwa nomurume iri ngari yokuti paita umwe mukadzi kana hure remuraini chairo, unokwanisa kuudzwa kuti tsvaka mushonga. Zvozoitikazve kuti tinoziva kuti murume wese anoda kuvata nomukadzi waakambovata naye. Wako iyeye akakuona uri wega ukamusekerera anokwanisa kuda kuvata newe zvisinei kuti akakuramba.
Saka apa unokwanisa kukwezva murume kuti avate newe iwe womuisira mushonga wekuti adzoke kwauri. Mishonga yeizvi inowanzoiswa mubhurugwa romukadzi kana kuti paya mukashandisa kondomu semazuvano emakondhomu, iwe unotora urumwe hwake wohushandisa nomushonga kuti adzoke. Kare vaishandisa zvitawero zvokupukutisa murume kana mapedza kuisana. Ihwohwo urume ushoma huripo patawero hunoshandiswa kugadzira murume. Varume vazhinji vanofunga nechombo panyaya dzevakadzi saka hazvinetsi kuhwisisa kuti nyaya iri papi.
Kushanda kwemishonga iyi:
Chokutanga ndechokuti varume vanotya mishonga yese iri pano zvokuti akaziva chete kuti unawo anokuramba ipapo nyaya yako yobva yatopera woudzwa kuti uri muroi. Varume vanoona sokuti ndivo maVIctim emishonga iyi saka vakadzi ndivo varoi. Havahwisisi dambudziko ro mukadzi rinomudya moyo kusvika ada kunotsva mushonga wekubatsira nyaya yake.
Hama dzemurume hadzidi muroora anotsvakira mwana wavo mushonga. Kana mai vakapa baba vemukomana mushonga havadi kuti mwana wavo apiwewo mushonga.
Posted by Mai E Chibwe at 11:52 8 comments:
Mushonga wevakadzi kuvarume.
Mushonga wevakadzi unopiwa varume kuti vagodiwa nevakadzi kana kuti vagokwanisa kuvata nevakadzi vese vavanoda. Zvese zviviri izvi zvinhu zvinodiwa nevarume vakawanda chose. Varume vakawanda vanotsvaka mukana wekuti vakadzi vavade zvokuti chero murume ane mukadzi mumba anoda kudiwa nevamwe vakadzi. Izvi zviri kunyika dzese saka havasi vedu chete vakadaro. Munu wese murume kana mukadzi anofadzwa nokuziva kuti vamwe vanhu vanomuda uye vanoona ari munhu anoti vakamuona vofunga nenyaya dzerudo. Asi ngatichitarisa nyaya mbiri idzi imwe neimwe.
Mushonga wekudiwa nevakadzi:
Kudiwa nevamwe vanhu kuri paviri. Kunoti kukwezva vamwe vanhu koti kupiwa rudo nevamwe vanhu. Izvi zvinhu zvakatosiyana pakuti kana ukasangana noumwe munhu unomuona ari munhu anokukwezva (ATTRACTION) kozoti mataurirana ukaona kuti munhu akakodzera kumupa rudo womupa rudo. Hino parudzi gwedu varume ndivo vanonyanga vakadzi, saka murume kuti angonyenga mukadzi waasangana naye zvinobva pakuti murume afungire kuti mukadzi iyeye angangomuda. Kana ari murume anokwezva vanhukadzi, anenge achitoziva kuti akatanga kutaura nemukadzi, mukadzi uya achati kudii pazviri. Kunyenga kune unyanzvi hwako zvokuti vamwe varume vanozvigona kupfuura vamwe, saka tingati mushonga unouya papi?
Tikatarisa munyika dzakawanda tinoona kuti mukomana anoda kunyenga anodawo kuonekwa ari munhu akasiyana nevamwe vakomana uye akasvinura pamaitire ake. Hazviiti kuti mukomana asina chaanacho akwanise kunyenga musikana ane zvese kumhuri yake. Kazhinji mukomana anonyenga munhu ari paLEVEL yake kana kuti ari pasi pe LEVEL yake pakpuonekwa mumamirire akaita mhuri dzavo. Asi variko vakomana vanobva kumhuri dzisina ufumi vane unyanzvi hwekunyenga vanokwanisa kundonyenga musikana ane mhuri iri pamusoro. Asi iyi inyaya younyanzvi kwete yomushonga. Pano toda kumbotarisa panoshanda mushonga.
Kudiwa nevakadzi chinhu chinokwanisika kuitigwa mushonga. Mushonga uyu inotengwa kuChemist unohi Pheromone wakangoita se perfume yechirume. Unoti kana murume akaupfapfaidza pamuviri wake vanhukadzi vanounhuwidzira kurekure asi zvinoita kuti vade kuva pedo nomurume anawo. Saka toti mushonga wekukwezva vanhukadzi. Asi kungowedzera kukwezva. Kana murume agara ari munhu asina shumo zvinonetsa kuti akwanise kukwezva vakadzi chero akazvipfapfaidza nemushonga uyu hapana chinoitika. Vasikana vanodawo munhu akatsvangamuka anoratidza kuti vakaroorana anokwanisa kuriritira mhuri.
Tikatarisa munyika dzakawanda tinoona kuti mukomana anoda kunyenga anodawo kuonekwa ari munhu akasiyana nevamwe vakomana uye akasvinura pamaitire ake. Hazviiti kuti mukomana asina chaanacho akwanise kunyenga musikana ane zvese kumhuri yake. Kazhinji mukomana anonyenga munhu ari paLEVEL yake kana kuti ari pasi pe LEVEL yake pakpuonekwa mumamirire akaita mhuri dzavo. Asi variko vakomana vanobva kumhuri dzisina ufumi vane unyanzvi hwekunyenga vanokwanisa kundonyenga musikana ane mhuri iri pamusoro. Asi iyi inyaya younyanzvi kwete yomushonga. Pano toda kumbotarisa panoshanda mushonga.
Kudiwa nevakadzi chinhu chinokwanisika kuitigwa mushonga. Mushonga uyu inotengwa kuChemist unohi Pheromone wakangoita se perfume yechirume. Unoti kana murume akaupfapfaidza pamuviri wake vanhukadzi vanounhuwidzira kurekure asi zvinoita kuti vade kuva pedo nomurume anawo. Saka toti mushonga wekukwezva vanhukadzi. Asi kungowedzera kukwezva. Kana murume agara ari munhu asina shumo zvinonetsa kuti akwanise kukwezva vakadzi chero akazvipfapfaidza nemushonga uyu hapana chinoitika. Vasikana vanodawo munhu akatsvangamuka anoratidza kuti vakaroorana anokwanisa kuriritira mhuri.
Saka apa tiri kuti pane mushonga unokwanisa kuti ukapiwa mukamana akaushandisa, paanosvika pavasikana vakawanda vavo vakanhuwidza mushonga uyi vanohwa kukwezvwa naye, zvoreva kuti unoshanda. Kuti titi unoshanda tinoona uri mushonga unohi unoshanda kunyika dzese.
ma Scientist vari kuzama kunatsogadzira mushonga uyu kuti vawane mari pakuutengesa.
ma Scientist vari kuzama kunatsogadzira mushonga uyu kuti vawane mari pakuutengesa.
Mushonga wekuvata navakadzi vese vese:
Uyu ndiwo mushonga unohi mubobobo unoti kana murume akautenga akaita zvarebwa nen’anga, anokwanisa kuti akaona mukadzi waanoda kuvata naye, anongovata naye chero mukadzi wacho asingazivi kuti avatiwa naye. Zvinohi murume akadai anokwanisa kupfuura napaimba pemukadzi uyu usiku, mukadzi avete hope nomurume wake, nyamushonga agopinda mumba agorhoja mukadzi uya zvokutomusiya ane urume muchitubu make asi vese murume nomukadzi vasina kumuka kuhope.
Kutizve kana masikati chaiwo anokwanisa kukusvikira agokurhoja iwe uchihwa kuti uri kurhojewa asi pasina zvaunokwanisa kuita zvazviri. Kwahi zvinoitikira chero mukadzi waada, chero hazvanzi yake chero mai vake chero ani zvake. Tikatarisa mushonga uyu tinoona zvakawanda pauri zvokuti:
Uyu ndiwo mushonga unohi mubobobo unoti kana murume akautenga akaita zvarebwa nen’anga, anokwanisa kuti akaona mukadzi waanoda kuvata naye, anongovata naye chero mukadzi wacho asingazivi kuti avatiwa naye. Zvinohi murume akadai anokwanisa kupfuura napaimba pemukadzi uyu usiku, mukadzi avete hope nomurume wake, nyamushonga agopinda mumba agorhoja mukadzi uya zvokutomusiya ane urume muchitubu make asi vese murume nomukadzi vasina kumuka kuhope.
Kutizve kana masikati chaiwo anokwanisa kukusvikira agokurhoja iwe uchihwa kuti uri kurhojewa asi pasina zvaunokwanisa kuita zvazviri. Kwahi zvinoitikira chero mukadzi waada, chero hazvanzi yake chero mai vake chero ani zvake. Tikatarisa mushonga uyu tinoona zvakawanda pauri zvokuti:
1 Hazvina kusiyana nokubata munhu chibharo. Zvinoreva kuti munhu akadaro anofanira kusungwa.
2 munhu waanorhoja wacho pamwe haatombozivi kuti ndiani amurhoja saka hazvina musoro
3 Zvigwere zvechihure zvinozara muraini kubva pamunhu umwe chete
4 Vana vanozvagwa muraini vanenge vari vevarume vashomanana.
5 Chivanhu muraini chinoita sokuti charaswa.
6 Vese mutengesi wemushonga naiye nyakutenga vanokwanisa kutosunwa
Tichitarisa pakadai tinoona kuti pane nyaya dzakawandisa dzinokanganisika dai mushonga uyu uriko uye uchishanda sezvinorebwa. Titizve hakuna hurumende yenyika ingangoti zii ichiziva kuti kune mishonga yakadai inoshandiswa munyika. Saka sei munyika yedu hurumende yemo isina zvairi kuita pazviri?
Uriko here mushonga wakadai?
Chokutanga kubvunza kuti mushonga wakadai uriko here kana kuti inyaya dzevarume vedoro dzinongozoti dzatanga dzonakidza vanhu kusvika vangoramba vachidzitaura asi nyaya chaiyo pasina. Kune murume angakwanisa here kurhoja mukadzi, mukadzi agohwa achirhojewa asi asingaoni kuti ndiani ari kumurhoja? Sokuti vese vari mubhazi rine vamwe vanhu zvoitika izvi? Chero tikati kune mishonga yemasaramusi, zvinoitika sei?
Tichitarisa varume vakawanda nemaitire avo tinoona kuti vangada mushonga wekuti akangoona mukadzi chero okwanisa kuvata naye, chero pasina kutaurirana. Varume zemo ravo guru rinobva pakuona. Saka fungwa dzavo dzokuvata nevakadzi dzinotangira pakuona. Hazvishamisi kuti umwe wavo anotanga kufunga kuti dai kune mushonga wekuti akaona munhu waanoda obva atovata naye. Zvadaro oudza vamwe vake nyaya yemushonga wakadai, vamwe vaya voonawo iri nyaya ingafadza varume vakawanda, vobva vaendawo vachiudza shamwari dzavo. Pasina nguva nyika yese yotofunga kuti kune mushonga wekuti murume akwanise kurebesa chombo zvokuti ari mubhazi anotokwanisa kurhoja mukadzi akagara kusiti riri mberi uko iye ari kumashure kwebhazi.
Kozoitawo vamwe varume vanongoonekwa vane vakadzi vemuraini, vamwe vari vevanhu, zvoita sokuti vakadzi vari kutadza kumuramba, kana kuyeuka kuti vane varume kumba. Vamwe vopedzisira voti murume uyu ane mushonga wekukwezva nokurhoja chero mukadzi waada.
Kune varumezve vanozikamwa paunyanzvi hwavo panyaya dzekurhoja mukadzi. Zvikabuda kuti nhingi anogona basa, vamwe vakadzi vasina unhu vanotsvaka mukana wekuravira. Hazvinetsi mukadzi kunyenga murume. saka napo napo unoona mukadzi uya avatwa naye. Hazvirevi kuti murume ndiye anyenga mukadzi wemunhu asi kuti anoratidzwa kuti akamunyenga mukadzi anobvuma.
Chokutanga kubvunza kuti mushonga wakadai uriko here kana kuti inyaya dzevarume vedoro dzinongozoti dzatanga dzonakidza vanhu kusvika vangoramba vachidzitaura asi nyaya chaiyo pasina. Kune murume angakwanisa here kurhoja mukadzi, mukadzi agohwa achirhojewa asi asingaoni kuti ndiani ari kumurhoja? Sokuti vese vari mubhazi rine vamwe vanhu zvoitika izvi? Chero tikati kune mishonga yemasaramusi, zvinoitika sei?
Tichitarisa varume vakawanda nemaitire avo tinoona kuti vangada mushonga wekuti akangoona mukadzi chero okwanisa kuvata naye, chero pasina kutaurirana. Varume zemo ravo guru rinobva pakuona. Saka fungwa dzavo dzokuvata nevakadzi dzinotangira pakuona. Hazvishamisi kuti umwe wavo anotanga kufunga kuti dai kune mushonga wekuti akaona munhu waanoda obva atovata naye. Zvadaro oudza vamwe vake nyaya yemushonga wakadai, vamwe vaya voonawo iri nyaya ingafadza varume vakawanda, vobva vaendawo vachiudza shamwari dzavo. Pasina nguva nyika yese yotofunga kuti kune mushonga wekuti murume akwanise kurebesa chombo zvokuti ari mubhazi anotokwanisa kurhoja mukadzi akagara kusiti riri mberi uko iye ari kumashure kwebhazi.
Kozoitawo vamwe varume vanongoonekwa vane vakadzi vemuraini, vamwe vari vevanhu, zvoita sokuti vakadzi vari kutadza kumuramba, kana kuyeuka kuti vane varume kumba. Vamwe vopedzisira voti murume uyu ane mushonga wekukwezva nokurhoja chero mukadzi waada.
Kune varumezve vanozikamwa paunyanzvi hwavo panyaya dzekurhoja mukadzi. Zvikabuda kuti nhingi anogona basa, vamwe vakadzi vasina unhu vanotsvaka mukana wekuravira. Hazvinetsi mukadzi kunyenga murume. saka napo napo unoona mukadzi uya avatwa naye. Hazvirevi kuti murume ndiye anyenga mukadzi wemunhu asi kuti anoratidzwa kuti akamunyenga mukadzi anobvuma.
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Mwari
Mwari izita rinoshandiswa kutaura uyo akasika nyika nezvose zviri mairi uye chadenga nezvose zviri muchadenga. Iye Mwari ndiye akasika zvose zvinoonekwa pamwe nezvisingaonekwe. Vanhu vazhinji vanotenda kuti kuna Mwari. Hakuna munhu akamboona Mwari saka hakuna anoziva kuti chimiro chake chakaita sei. Marongerwo nemaitirwo akafanirwa kuita hukama pakati paMwari nevanhu zvinotsanangurwa zvakanakisa pamitemo gumi yaMwari.
Kuna Mwari mumwechete, musiki wezvese zvakasikwa, wakarurama zvisina magumo, ane hupenyu husingaperi, achizviratidza muhutatu; Mwari Baba, Mwari Mwanakomana, neMweya Mutsvene.
Zvinotendwa nemaKristu[chinja | edit source]
- Mwari mweya hakuna munhu akamboona chimiro chaMwari.
- Mwari haana mavambo, Mwari haana magumo.
- Jesu akazvarwa nemhandara yainzi Maria, uye Jesu mwana waMwari akazvarwa nesimba raMwari kwete remunhurume nemukadzi.
- Jesu akafa akamuka nezuva retatu.
- Jesu akakwira kudenga uko agere kurudyi kwechigaro choushe chaMwari.
- Mwari vakatumira Mweya Mutsvene wavo kune vanotenda, kuti Mweya wavo udzidzise vanotenda Shoko ravo, nokuvarangaridza shoko ravo.
Mazita aMwari[chinja | edit source]
Mwari vane mazita anosanganisira:
- Musiki weDenga naPasi;
- Mwari Samasimba;
- Mwari weHondo;
- Mwari Vanopa;
- Mwari Vanorapa;
- Wokutanga neWekupedzesera.
- Mwari Wenyasha
- Musiki
- Samasimba
Mamwe Mazwi[chinja | edit source]
Kususukidza (to give up, to yield).