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Friday, 5 April 2013
Kuudza umwe wako kuti wabata siki kuzhe
Tinnoona kuti kune vanhu vakawanda vanoti murume ofa vhiki ino, mukadzi osarawo achitevera mwedzi usina kupera, iri nyaya yokuti pakubata zvigwere hatisi kuudzana mudzimba umu. Pakadai vana vanosara dzava nherera vabereki vese vaenda. Riyawo hure kana chikomba kwakabatwa siki pamwe rakatofawo kare. Kana dai risina kufa, haumbooni richizouya kuzorera vana vako. Mubvunzo wandinawo ndewekuti munhu anoita zvivindhi zvokuvata nehure/chikomba angashaya chivindhi chokuudza umwe wake kuti abata siki here? Mubvunzi uyu unokwanisa kudavigwa neavo vakambozviwana vari panyaya yakadai.
Ukabvunza munhu kana ogwara vanhu vese vava kuziva kuti upenyu hapachina, unohwa nyaya dzakawanda. Ndakambobvunza imwewo hama yandakawana yapera muviri pandakaenda kumusha kuti'
"Nhai babamunini, shuwa mange marambigwa namaininini here kuzosvika pakuda zvemahure?" zvikahi,
"Maiguru mubvunzu wenyu wataridza kuti hamuhwisisi nyaya iyi, nokuti kana wazvipira kuhura, hauna nguva yokufunga nezvekuti siki inobatwa. Ukatokwanisa kuzvifunga, unosimuka woenda kumba kwako usina kuvata nehure racho. Kana wako asipo, zvinonetsa kuti wawasangana naye akanyemwerera iwe woramba. Unohwa sokuti hausi murume."
Saka varume vese vanongovata here nomunhu wavasangana naye nokuti anyemwerera kana kuti pane imwe CHEMISTRY inonetsa varume vedu kungosiya pasina zvaaita. Ko kana afunga kuita, ko kushandisawo kondomu zvinodiiko? Iyi yese mibvunzo yedu tichitarisa tiri kuzhe kwenyaya. Vaya vaviri vari kuzviita vanozobvunza mibvunzo yese iyi vapedza kuvatana, hana yorova kuti pamwe nda bata chigwere.
Ndinoona nemwadhi dzandinowana kubva kuvanhu vakawanda varume nevakadzi, kuti izvo nyaya yokuti moda kuvatana, musingazivani, kuti umwe wenyu ataure kuti NGATISHANDISE KONDOMU, zvinoremera vakawanda izvozvo. Kunyengana nokubvisana mabhurugwa hazvinetsi, asi kuzotaura nezvekondomu zvinonetsa. Kuti sei zvichinetsa ndeimwewo nyaya iyi.
RESULT yacho ndeyokuti mapedza munhu anoenda kumba atova nesiki, iyi kana iyo. Adaro anonovata nowake siki iya isina kurapwa kuna kutombozikamwa kuti anayo. Pamutemo wemazuvano, wekuzhe kana wamuda, chishandisa kondomu. Kana zvatadza, chirega kunovata nowemumba usati wahwisisa kuti une siki here kana kwete.
Toti wavata nehure/chikomba asi wekumba ariko. Wosvika kumba wemumba achidawo zvinhu zvake, unofanira kuita sei kuti azive kuti hauzivi kuti une chigwere here kana kwete? Ukamuudza kuti wambovata noumwewo munhu, watotanga mago zvawo ange akazvivatira. Ukanyarara, unokwanisa kumupa siki. Saka wodii?
Kana wako asiko, unokwanisa kuwana nguva yokunovhenekwa kuti une chigwere here kana kwete, wozosangana newako wava kuziva, uye wawana nguva yokufunga zvokuita nenyaya yako. Kana uchitya kutaura asizve usingadi kupawako chigwere, unokwanisa kukumbira shamwari yako kukuperekedza kumba, monoitirana hasha pane anokwanisa kukununura.
Ngatitange neyaya yokunhu anohura asi mukadzi/murume wake aripo pamba uye asingamurambiri, zvinoreva kuti haana mukana wekuramba kwenguva inotendera kunoonekwa nevarapi. Saka chasara ndechokuti audze umwe wake kana kunyarara wovata naye akadaro.
Munhu kana afunga zvokuhura, pakuhura kwake haafungi nezvevana uye haana pikicha mumusoro wake yokuona upenyu hwevana, kukura kwavo, kupinda chikoro, kuendawo ku University, kuzotsvaka mabasa, vabereki vari vapenyu vachipawo mazano. Haana fungwa yokuda kuona vazukuru vake. Ane fungwa imwe chete yokuda kurhojana nouyu wekuzhe chete. Chero shamwari dzake dzikada kumutsiura, anotoona sokuti ndivo vasingawhisisi zvinhu zvakanaka paupenyu. Zvokufunga zvakanaka zvinozouya mumusoro munhu atohura, ndipo pamunoona munu otanga kuchema misodzi kwahi seiko musina kunditsiura, ndimi makarega ndichibata chigwere hino nhasi ndofa. Kana umwe wake ava nechigwerewo munoona kuti pamusha pashaika mufaro.
Saka mubvunzo uripo ndewekuti unoudza umwe wako sei kuti "Ngatimbomira kuvatana nokuti ndahura nhasi." Kana uri murume/mukadzi mumba imbofunga kuti unodii kana mukadzi/murume wako akauya kumba akakuudza kuti ahura uye haana shuwa kuti ane siki here kana kuti haana saka dai mambomira kuvatana kusvika adzoka kuTEST. Unokwanisa kuurawa musi wakadai. Kana une shamwari dzokubasa, kuCHURCH, kubhora, kuCLUB, dzese dzinonoudza wofumugwa woonekwa sokuti hauhwisisi asi ipapo ndiwe watoita musoro wekudzivirira umwe wako kubata chigwere.
Ini sokuona kwangu pane nyaya mbiri apa, yokutanga ndeyemaonero emunhu ahura. Ahura hake asi azofunga mhuri yake saka kukuudza kwaari kuita kuda kuti uhwisise kuti hazvichaiti kuti tivate tese saka ngatimbomira titaure kana uchida kutaura. Kana usingadi kutaura chingobvuma tisavata tese.
Munhu anohura haanetseki pakureva nhema. Anozosvika pamba atova neSTORY yake zvokuti anokwanisa kutaurira umwe nhema dzinobvumuka. Zvodaro kusvika pakuti iwe wobvuma nhasi, Mangwana wobvuma, Asi kuti uzoramba wongobvuma hazvizoiti. Toti ipapo nyakuhura aenda kunovhenekwa owanikwa ane chigwere, paanozouya kumba anofanira kuchibuda pachena. Kana asingadi kupa umwe wake chigwere zveshuwa anofanira kutaura chokwadi.
Kutaura chokwadi kana wava pakadai zviri nani kungotaura sezvazviri. Wana nguva yokutaura vana vasipo Kutanga nyaya yakadai pane vana zvinokwanisa kukanganisa SECURITY yevana. Zviri nani kutanga nyaya vana vaenda kunovata kumba kweshamwari kana kwambuya. Zvadaro wana mukana wekutanga nyaya yako kumunhu asina kana fungwa yokuti pane chaitika. Gara une fungwa yokuti achaita SHOCK. Ndipo pandati kana zvichikunetsa kutaura wega, wana shamwari yokuvapo paunotanga nyaya, kana kutoudza shamwari kuti itange nyaya iwe ugozorondedzera. Kana yangotanga hazvizonyanyi kunetsa kuitaura. Ndakabatsira vatatu kutaura nyaya dzavo After ndambotaura navo kwenguva kuti zviri nani vaudze umwe wavo. Ndipo pandakahwisisa kuti inyaya inonetsa kutaurira munhu waunoziva kuti anokuda asi anofanira kuziva zvandaita. Kana yatotaugwa ikabuda mumuromo, haichakwanisi kumiswa saka watopedza panonetsa.
Nyaya yechipiri ndeya Nyakuudzwa. Zvakaoma kuhwa munhu waunoda achikuudza kuti ahura uye ane siki. Unoona munhu achiterera nyaya yakadai achiita seimba yadhirika, dziri shungu uye kusahwisisa kuti zvaitika sei. Munhurume kazhinji anotanga kuterera omboita nguva zvisina kunyatsopinda mumusoro, ozoita hasha zvokukwanisa kukuvadzi mukadzi. Kana uri mukadzi wemunhu, ona kuti pane umwe munhu paunoudza murume wako. Kana uri murume mukadzi wako akaita hasha, unokwanisa kumubata zvichibva nokuti munhu akaita sei. Kana waudzwa ukahwa muviri wako uchiita Depression kuita sewafigwa, hapana chakaipa. Inyaya inogumbura saka gumbuka hako asi terera kuti umwe wako anoti kudii nokuti kana usina kuterera uchashaya INFORMATION yokukubatsira kufunga zvokuita. Nyakuudzwa anokwanisa kuita makore ari munhu asina mufaro, zvichibva nokuti wabata nyaya yako sei. Zvikuru kana uchida umwe wako.
Kana waudzwa, chokutanga hwisisa kuti umwe wako akanganisa upenyu hwenyu mese asi apa ari kuda kuti kukanganisa kwake kusawedzera. Dai anyarara aikupa siki. Kukutaurira kwaaita kutsvaka mukana wekuchengeta muhuri yenyu. Ita hako hasha nokupopota asi iye atozvipopotera kare saka anohwisisa zvese zvauri kutaura.
Wana nguva yokuongorora zvaitika muupenyu hwako. Wana nguva yokubvunza umwe wako maitikire azvo. Kana hure/chikomba ari munhu anokwanisika kutaura naye, enda unotaura naye uhwisise kuti anofungei noumwe wako. Varume kazhinji vanongovata nomukadzi wemunhu kuti vagobhosita kuti akakwira mukadzi wemunhu asi pasina RELATIONSHIP. Vakadzi pakuita chikomba kazhinji kutsaga rudo, kuri kushaya rudo mumba. Kakuziva kuti wahurigwa, zvibvunzewo kana iwe uri munhu asina kubata umwe wako zvakakodzera. Tisiri kuti kuhura kwese kune rhizeni inobva mumba asi kuti iwe nyakuudzwa zvibvunze mibvunzo yese kuti ukwanise kuregerera kana kusaregerera.
Kana waregerera, chigara naye pasi muronge program yokutangazve patsva upenyu hwenyu. Ukaona murume/mukadzi anokuudza kuti aita siki kuzhe saka haadi kuvata newe kusvika yapera, munhu anoziva RESPONSIBILITY yake kwauri. Vashoma vanhu vakadai saka ipa RESPONSE yako wambowana nguva yokufunga zvakakwana.
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Mazuvano chihure hachichanetsi nokuti varume nevakadzi vese vari kuchitsvaka, iri ngari yokuti vanhu vakaroorana vanokwanisa kugara kwakasiyana asi vese vachida kuvatana nomunhu. Nyaya yefoni dzomuhombodo iyi yakawedzera chihure nokuti ikozvino unokwanisa kunyenga mukadzi/murume neTEXT zvinova zvisingasvodesi. Wadaro motoronga yokusangana mese muchitoziva kuti muri kusanganira chihure.
Varume nevakadzizve vanoshanda vese pamakambani akawanda vanoswera vese vachiita nyaya saka kuhura hakuvanetsi. Vanhu vakawandisa vanorhojerana kumabasa avo vozoenda kumba kumukadzi/murume vatogutira kubasa. Siki hadzinetsi kubata, zvikuru kune mapenzi asingadi makondomu.
Taurai tihwe vane mashoko.
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- Anonymous said...
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Ko if I had contracted the STD from a toilet seat or from an injection, i.e. in circumstances where I am not to blame... would the same question arise? How would I break it out to my wife?
Arima twake ndihombarume.... I would just inform her, hard as it is. Chances are she will be angry etc, but when the dust settles, she will be most grateful for my honesty and courage
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Saturday, 16 June 2012
Zvokuita kana uri kumwedzi Murume achida Rhoji
Toti majaira kuwana rhoji zuva nezuva iwe woenda kumwedzi. Zvinoreva kuti muchaita mazuva mana kana mashanu musina rhoji. Panonetsa ipapo nokuti kuruza ropa kunoitisa zemo. Ukuwo murume anoita shungu nokuti haasi kukwanisa. Kumukadzi zvinokwanisika kumirira. murume anonetsa. Ini ndoona sokuti dzimwe nguva anofanigwa kubatsigwa kutapudza unga. Zvino zvinoitwa sei?
Maoko:
Unokwanisa kushandisa maoko ako kuti murume arhoje maoko. kana wafunga kudaro udza murume kuti unoda kushandisa maoko, wadaro geza maoko nemvura inodziya, woisa mafuta akaita se baby oil mumaoko woona kuti maoko ari kudziya uye ari kusvedzerera, wochimashandisa pamurume kusvika adiridzira. Terera zvaanotaura kuti uzive zvokuita. Unoona zvinhu zvochinja kana oda kudiridzira. Chenjera ipapo nokuti anokwanisa kubudisa zvinosvika kure. Zvinokunetsa kupukuta machira.Urume hunoshamisa kuona huchibida. Kana usina kumbozviona imboita murume wako nemaoko uone. Ndiko ugozoziva kuti kana ari muchitubu anokuiteimo.
Kana apedza, muudzewo kuti kuona zvichibuda kunokufadza. Kana pane zvaabudisa usatya kuzvibata nokutamba nazvo. Muudze maonero ako iwe uye EXCITEMENT yawaita pakuzviona. Next time uri kumwedzi anokuudza maitire aanoda.
Mazamu:
Kana une mazamu makuru unokwanisa kuti murume aise chombo pakati iwe wokwiza chombo nemazamu kusvika adiridzira. Asi futi tanga wazora mafuta pamazamu. Chinongonetsa pakudai maitire acho asi kana ukavata nomusana, murume wokutanyanga pachifuva makatarisana, anobva akwanisa kusvitsa chombo pakati pemazamu. Pakudiridzira unosara une zvese zvabuda paari pachifuva nechirebvu chako asi hazvina basa. Taridza kuda (appreciation) zvabuda mumurume wako. Kana uchipukuta murume, usapukuta wakanyarara, taura nokukurudzira nokutaridza rudo.
Kana une mazamu madiki usazama mutowo uyu. Haushandi kuvanhu vane mazamu madiki nokuti havakwanisi kuputira chombo nemazamu.
Makumbo:
Kana usinganyanyi kuvhinza, unokwanisa kuti murume aise chombo pakati pemakumbo. Zvichibva nokuti uri mutete zvakadii, kana ukaisa makumbo pamwe chete wakavata nedumbu, murume akavata kumusana kwako akadzikira zvishoma pane zvaanochiita kana achikupinza nokumashure, anokwanisa kuisa chombo pane nyama dzakapfava pfava (very soft skin) anokwanisa kutambapo kusvika adiridza. Pese paanoita pasiri pachitubu panoda kutanga waisa mafuta.
Maitire enyu ndeenyu asi chandinongoda kutaura ndechokuti usarega murume achibuda mumba azere unga. Pota uchitapudza. Uyezve taridza kufarira kuti murume ari kupihwa twake. Ukajaira kumirira kuti akumbire unenge usingaiti basa rako zvakanaka. Murume ndewekutozivisa kuti zvokungovata pasina chaitwa hazvisizvo. Unongobvunza kuti "Tongovata here nhai baba Chimwana? " Kana akada kuti ngativate muudze kuti, "Handina hope, chindipawoka hope ndigovata zvakanaka."
Murume ngaagare ane tariro yeRhoji chero paadira. Iwewo mukadzi ita konifidhenzi yokuziva kuti ukada rhoji unoiwana chete. Mwana asingachemi anofira mumbereko. Kwawakabva sadza raivako, saka hauna kuvinga sadza pano. Chiita zvawakavinga wakasununguka. Nyaya ndeyako numurume wako chete muripo vaviri. Jaira kuti murume atapudzwe urume hwakazara maari. Hazvinetsi kuita uye zvinotonakawo kwauri kupfuura kumurume wako.
Chitubu:
Pamwewo murume anoita zemo rokuti anokuti chero uri kumwedzi rega ndipinze. Munokwanisa kuti apfeke kondhomu moita zvichibva nokuti uri kuvhinza zvakadii. Kana wange wava pedo kupedza, zvinokwanisika asi kana uri pakati hazviiti.
Dzimwewo
Regai ndigumire pano Panyaya dzandinoziva asi kune dzimwe nyaya dzinoitwa navamwe. Kune vasikana vamazuvano vanoti kana akasangana nomurume anongoda kuvata naye asi asingapinzwi muchitubu kuitira kuti musi waanoroogwa agohi imhandara. Vanoita zvokupinzwa kumashure chete. Handingakutsananguriri kuti zvinodii pakunaka kwazvo asi Pane umwe wandaimbotamba naye aiti zvinonaka. Ini CONCEPT yacho handisati ndawirirana nayo mumusoro mangu nokuda kwemaBACTERIA ariko uku. Kuti chombo chimwecho chambopinzwako chigozopinzwa kumberi bodo. Ndinomirira hangu three days yacho ipere nditangwe zvakanaka. Maoko ndinawo okubatsira murume.
Asi ndakuudzawo for completeness chete.
Pane zvese zvanyogwa, chinokosha ndechokuti "Kana murume achida" Dzimwe nguva haadiwo hake kusvika wadzoka kubva kumwedzi. Unofanira kugara uri pa Standby kuona kuti zvinodiwa nomurume wako zvaitwa, sezvaanoitawo iye pauri.
Kurega murume achibuda mumba mune mukadzi wake zvinoratidza kuti hauna hanya nomurume wako. Munhu ratidzawo kuti unohwisisa muviri wemurume wako uye unomupa zvakakodzera. Ngatisaitigwa SERVICE pavarume vedu nevanhu vatisingazivi. Murume ndewekuzvichengetera uyezve mukadzi ndiye MANAGER wezvese mumba. Ona kuti murume anogarotapudzwa urume pauviri hwenyu kwete kurega murume achibuda mumba pasina zvaaitwa uchiti nokuti uri kumwedzi.
Maoko unawo.
Udzai Vamwe!!!!!!
Maoko:
Unokwanisa kushandisa maoko ako kuti murume arhoje maoko. kana wafunga kudaro udza murume kuti unoda kushandisa maoko, wadaro geza maoko nemvura inodziya, woisa mafuta akaita se baby oil mumaoko woona kuti maoko ari kudziya uye ari kusvedzerera, wochimashandisa pamurume kusvika adiridzira. Terera zvaanotaura kuti uzive zvokuita. Unoona zvinhu zvochinja kana oda kudiridzira. Chenjera ipapo nokuti anokwanisa kubudisa zvinosvika kure. Zvinokunetsa kupukuta machira.Urume hunoshamisa kuona huchibida. Kana usina kumbozviona imboita murume wako nemaoko uone. Ndiko ugozoziva kuti kana ari muchitubu anokuiteimo.
Kana apedza, muudzewo kuti kuona zvichibuda kunokufadza. Kana pane zvaabudisa usatya kuzvibata nokutamba nazvo. Muudze maonero ako iwe uye EXCITEMENT yawaita pakuzviona. Next time uri kumwedzi anokuudza maitire aanoda.
Mazamu:
Kana une mazamu makuru unokwanisa kuti murume aise chombo pakati iwe wokwiza chombo nemazamu kusvika adiridzira. Asi futi tanga wazora mafuta pamazamu. Chinongonetsa pakudai maitire acho asi kana ukavata nomusana, murume wokutanyanga pachifuva makatarisana, anobva akwanisa kusvitsa chombo pakati pemazamu. Pakudiridzira unosara une zvese zvabuda paari pachifuva nechirebvu chako asi hazvina basa. Taridza kuda (appreciation) zvabuda mumurume wako. Kana uchipukuta murume, usapukuta wakanyarara, taura nokukurudzira nokutaridza rudo.
Kana une mazamu madiki usazama mutowo uyu. Haushandi kuvanhu vane mazamu madiki nokuti havakwanisi kuputira chombo nemazamu.
Makumbo:
Kana usinganyanyi kuvhinza, unokwanisa kuti murume aise chombo pakati pemakumbo. Zvichibva nokuti uri mutete zvakadii, kana ukaisa makumbo pamwe chete wakavata nedumbu, murume akavata kumusana kwako akadzikira zvishoma pane zvaanochiita kana achikupinza nokumashure, anokwanisa kuisa chombo pane nyama dzakapfava pfava (very soft skin) anokwanisa kutambapo kusvika adiridza. Pese paanoita pasiri pachitubu panoda kutanga waisa mafuta.
Maitire enyu ndeenyu asi chandinongoda kutaura ndechokuti usarega murume achibuda mumba azere unga. Pota uchitapudza. Uyezve taridza kufarira kuti murume ari kupihwa twake. Ukajaira kumirira kuti akumbire unenge usingaiti basa rako zvakanaka. Murume ndewekutozivisa kuti zvokungovata pasina chaitwa hazvisizvo. Unongobvunza kuti "Tongovata here nhai baba Chimwana? " Kana akada kuti ngativate muudze kuti, "Handina hope, chindipawoka hope ndigovata zvakanaka."
Murume ngaagare ane tariro yeRhoji chero paadira. Iwewo mukadzi ita konifidhenzi yokuziva kuti ukada rhoji unoiwana chete. Mwana asingachemi anofira mumbereko. Kwawakabva sadza raivako, saka hauna kuvinga sadza pano. Chiita zvawakavinga wakasununguka. Nyaya ndeyako numurume wako chete muripo vaviri. Jaira kuti murume atapudzwe urume hwakazara maari. Hazvinetsi kuita uye zvinotonakawo kwauri kupfuura kumurume wako.
Chitubu:
Pamwewo murume anoita zemo rokuti anokuti chero uri kumwedzi rega ndipinze. Munokwanisa kuti apfeke kondhomu moita zvichibva nokuti uri kuvhinza zvakadii. Kana wange wava pedo kupedza, zvinokwanisika asi kana uri pakati hazviiti.
Dzimwewo
Regai ndigumire pano Panyaya dzandinoziva asi kune dzimwe nyaya dzinoitwa navamwe. Kune vasikana vamazuvano vanoti kana akasangana nomurume anongoda kuvata naye asi asingapinzwi muchitubu kuitira kuti musi waanoroogwa agohi imhandara. Vanoita zvokupinzwa kumashure chete. Handingakutsananguriri kuti zvinodii pakunaka kwazvo asi Pane umwe wandaimbotamba naye aiti zvinonaka. Ini CONCEPT yacho handisati ndawirirana nayo mumusoro mangu nokuda kwemaBACTERIA ariko uku. Kuti chombo chimwecho chambopinzwako chigozopinzwa kumberi bodo. Ndinomirira hangu three days yacho ipere nditangwe zvakanaka. Maoko ndinawo okubatsira murume.
Asi ndakuudzawo for completeness chete.
Pane zvese zvanyogwa, chinokosha ndechokuti "Kana murume achida" Dzimwe nguva haadiwo hake kusvika wadzoka kubva kumwedzi. Unofanira kugara uri pa Standby kuona kuti zvinodiwa nomurume wako zvaitwa, sezvaanoitawo iye pauri.
Kurega murume achibuda mumba mune mukadzi wake zvinoratidza kuti hauna hanya nomurume wako. Munhu ratidzawo kuti unohwisisa muviri wemurume wako uye unomupa zvakakodzera. Ngatisaitigwa SERVICE pavarume vedu nevanhu vatisingazivi. Murume ndewekuzvichengetera uyezve mukadzi ndiye MANAGER wezvese mumba. Ona kuti murume anogarotapudzwa urume pauviri hwenyu kwete kurega murume achibuda mumba pasina zvaaitwa uchiti nokuti uri kumwedzi.
Maoko unawo.
Udzai Vamwe!!!!!!
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Wednesday, 31 August 2016
Pano ngatiudzane zvinotiitisa zemo
Pane zvinhu zvakasiyana siyana zvinounza fungwa yokuda kuvata noumwe wako. Kana ukawana nguva, nyora List yacho pafoni yako utumire murume/mukadzi wako ugomuudza kuti asadzima MESSAGE iyoyo.
Chinhu chakanaka kuti agare achiziva kuti zvinokumutsa zemo zvii.
Hwisisazve kuti munhukadzi zemo rake rinosiyana siyana nenguva yemwedzi. Mazuva akukandira zai munhukadzi anowanza zemo zvokuti imi varume dzidzaiwo nguva dzevakadzi venyu mowedzerawo basa panuva iyi. Hwisisaizve kuti vakadzi vakawanda vanohurira varume vavo vanowedzera kuhura panguva iyi. Kana uri murume uchihura nomukadzi asiri wako, hwisisa nyaya iyi nokuti ndipo paanokwanisa kukuitira mima iwe usingamudi. Zemo kana rikabata munhu chero murume chero mukadzi, zvokurhizena zvinombosiiwa munhu ozoti pepu atopedza kuvatana nomunhu asina kukodzerana naye. Ndipo unohwa vamwe voti ane mushonga. Bodo mushonga kazhinji hwema hunobva pamberi kana wava nezemo. Kuti umwe arambe iye ambobvuma kubatwabatwa zvinonetsa.
Ini chinhu chakambondiitisa zemo zvokuti, kufamba nengoro nomurume tiri kumusha. Zvange zvisingaiti kuudza murume nokuti mungoro maiva nevamwe vanhu asi kubva musi uyu ndikangofunga ipapo ndohwa zemo. Tiudzewo zvako zvinokuitisa zemo. Tichaona kuti umwe noumwe munhu, zemo rake rinoitika nokuda kweEXPERIENCE yake youpenyu.
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50 comments:
- Anonymous said...
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Munhukadzi:
Kuzvizora sipo muviri wese kunondinyorovesa.
- 31 August 2016 at 15:44
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi:
Kukisana nomukomana kana kuona vamwe vachikisana.
- 1 September 2016 at 11:16
- Anonymous said...
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Kubatwa magaro nomurume
- 1 September 2016 at 12:24
- Anonymous said...
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Murume:
Swing yeshure yemukadzi inomisa misa nokunzwisa.
- 2 September 2016 at 07:30
- Anonymous said...
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Ndikangofunga kus***wa, ndotonyorova Kuzasi. Asi ndoshamisika kuti pamwe ndowana bhurugwa rakanyorova ndisina kumbofunga zvokusv***a.
- 3 September 2016 at 05:25
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Kuverenga nyaya dzakarerekera kune zvekurara nemurume. Kunzwa vamwe vachiitana.
- 3 September 2016 at 05:31
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Kuona murume akanaka achitarisa tarisa mazamu angu. Zvinofadza.
- 4 September 2016 at 04:02
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi wemunhu zvikuru maiguru mukadzi wa mukoma.
- 4 September 2016 at 09:57
- Anonymous said...
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Ndiri kuma Flats. Tosheya Sower. Kunzwa mukomana we next room ari mushawa, ndofunga kuti haana kupfeka. Ndomuda mukomana uyu but iye kunge asingandioni.
- 4 September 2016 at 10:00
- Anonymous said...
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Ndakarambana nomurume After andipa STI. Ndoita zemo kuseniseni kuma 5.30 nokuti ndipo pataichimuka toita tisati taenda kubasa. I don't miss him but I miss the sex.
- 4 September 2016 at 11:12
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Kutaura nomurume pafoni achitaura kuti anoda kundis***a.
- 4 September 2016 at 13:02
- Anonymous said...
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Murume: Kuona mukadzi akafongora kana kutotama chero achisuka ndiro, achiwacha, achikorobha, zvondimisa mb**o.
- 4 September 2016 at 13:06
- Anonymous said...
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Ndikambopinza zvigumwe mumukadzi tichiri kutamba, Hours later ndikanhuwidza maoko ndoita zemo instantly ne smell yemhe**e yemukadzi.
- 4 September 2016 at 13:12
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Murume anofarira kuyamwa mazamu.
- 4 September 2016 at 13:18
- Anonymous said...
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Murume: Kuziva kuti mukadzi haana bhurugwa.
- 4 September 2016 at 13:27
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Mirror mu Bedroom. Kuona chiuno chemurume mu mirror achindikwira.
- 4 September 2016 at 13:31
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi ane mazamu akamira iye ari mutete.
- 5 September 2016 at 06:31
- Anonymous said...
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Kunzwa mukadzi wangu achindiudza kuti anoda kuiswa
- 6 September 2016 at 06:08
- Anonymous said...
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Kugeza tese nomurume mubhavhu.
- 6 September 2016 at 10:47
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Kufonerwa nomukomana wangu kunzi uya ku flat ndizokusv***a. kuudzwa pachina zvaari kuda kuita neni.
- 6 September 2016 at 10:50
- Anonymous said...
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Kuona zvidya zvemunhukadzi zvikuru asina kugara mushe pachair kana bench. Ndobva ndatofunga pakati.
- 6 September 2016 at 11:10
- Anonymous said...
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Kubata mb**o yakagwinya mumaoko nokuziva kuti ndava pedyo nokusv**wa uye kuti yamirira ini zvinofadza.
- 7 September 2016 at 10:57
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Murume wangu kuita time achindibayabaya pamberi nemb**o. and rubbing matinji nayo teasing me when I am dying to have him inside me. EXCITING.
- 7 September 2016 at 11:03
- Anonymous said...
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Every Friday my husband anouya kubva kubasa kwake 200 km. Anticipation yacho, handikwanisi kugara pasi. Ndofanogeza, ndobika, then I wait looking forward to the night. Weekends are happy times.
- 7 September 2016 at 11:08
- Anonymous said...
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Murume: Inini kubva pa makore 14, ndine zemo chete chete. Izvozvi ndave nemakore 26 asi zemo chete chete any time, anywhere. Mukadzi ndakaroora last year but haazvikwanisi ega. Ndotoda kana vamwe two but zvebarika handidi hangu. Kutishinga naiyeyu umwe chete. Pamwe ndomunzwira tsitsi nokuti ndongoda chete kumukwira day and night. Kuti chikonzero chezemo chii, ahh, its a silly question.
- 8 September 2016 at 11:59
- Anonymous said...
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Murume ari kuJoburg 3 year. Ndopota ndichisv***wa na Phenias. I know its wrong but Phenias anos**ra zvisingatauriki. Ane mukadzi wake nevana three but anondibatsira nguva nenguva.
- 10 September 2016 at 12:55
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Kuona mukadzi achizvi bonyora uku ndichiyamwa nekupuruzira mazamu.
- 10 September 2016 at 14:36
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi wangu kundibata nhengo achiitambisa ndichiziva kuti ari kuda kusv**wa. Then kufanofongora kuti ndimusv**e. Ndotanga ndamutambisa magaro, ndomuronga kuti anatse kufongora. Kuona be**e rakangoti n'ena zvishomanana ndichiona pink yemukati, kumirira inini chete. Izvozvo nhengo yatomira nokungozvifunga. Haa vakadzi fongorai please.
- 11 September 2016 at 06:38
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Mukadzi: Kuflat kwangu ndonzwa ma neighbours vachikwirana day in day out. I cannot get used to it. Kungoanzwa chete neniwo ndotoda. Wish I had a man.
- 11 September 2016 at 13:03
- Anonymous said...
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Kwandiri hapana chinhu chinodarika kudya pamberi pemudzimai wangu. Apa akanyatsobvisa mavhere chitubu chakaita seruware. Ndotanga nekubhedhenura matinji kuita sendiri kuvhura bhuku, ndosiya bhinzi iri pamhene. Ndozoikwiza zvangu nerurimi apa uona mudzimai achisimudza magaro ake kuuya kumuromo wangu. Ndobata magaro acho nemaoko angu ndozofambisa ruoko rwangu pamutsetse uri pakati pechitubu nekumashure. Mudzimai anenge obowa semombe apa ini handichagoni ndinongonzwa ndava kubudisa urume ndisati ndapinza chombo...
- 12 September 2016 at 00:16
- Anonymous said...
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Ndikangofunga mukadzi wangu akafongora yotomira.
- 12 September 2016 at 12:04
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Guys, ndakakwira bhazi re Intercape. noumwe musikana akati anonzi Tariro musi wa 12 August, From Pak Station to Masvingo. Takataura nyaya asi handina kumuudza kuti akarurama zvakadii. From that day ndikamufunga chete kurara kunetsa. Tariro wana mukana tisangane.
- 13 September 2016 at 10:10
- Mai E Chibwe said...
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Mukadzi: Kuona vamwe vachikisana. Ndodawo kukiswa veduwee.
- 13 September 2016 at 11:47
- Anonymous said...
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Ndingataura sei? Not sure, but Ndinowedzera zemo kana ndikafunga murume wangu achinditundira urume. Fungwa yekupiwa urume inondipa zemo. Ndini ndega here kana kuti takawanda? Kusv**wa ndiko hako asi paanotunda ndonzwa kuti dai aramba achinditundira mukati chete. Ndonzwa muviri wese kubatwabatwa nokuda kutundirwa urume. Ndiudzeiwo kana muchizviitawo.
- 13 September 2016 at 13:03
- Anonymous said...
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Kuona magaro emukadzi wangu asina bhurugwa kana kungoziva kuti haana bhurugwa ari kufurwa nemhepo.
- 14 September 2016 at 14:35
- Anonymous said...
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Murume wangu anogaroisa ruoko rwake muhurugwa make akagara achiona TV. Ndikamuona akadaro ndofunga Zvekubatawo chaakabata.
- 14 September 2016 at 14:37
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Ndakashamisika pandakaona vakadzi vaviri (hure nemurume) vachirwira murume. Kuona vakadzi vachirwa zvakandimisa nhengo zvisingaiti. Hameno kuti sei. Ndofunga kuone zvidya zvavo vachiumburudzana.
- 17 September 2016 at 08:35
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi wangu anogaronditi ndikwenye pamberi. Ndikangofunga kumukwenya ndototanga zvimwe. Izvozvindatova nezemo.
- 19 September 2016 at 02:00
- Anonymous said...
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Ndinofarira beche rinechoya. Rakagegwa handiridi. Kana chichiyerera nemuzvidja ndizvo zvandinotoda. Pandinoriwona munhu akagara beya ndinobva ndaita havi inotyisa.
- 19 September 2016 at 04:49
- Anonymous said...
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Mazamu emukadzi ndizvo.
- 19 September 2016 at 16:14
- Anonymous said...
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Mazamu emukadzi ndizvo.
- 19 September 2016 at 16:16
- T.P Apache said...
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ini kungomuwona asina kupfeka achifamba famba mumba zvinondipa zemo uyezve kutsvodana sterek
- 20 September 2016 at 05:00
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi upi zvake akatama jaivhi iya inonzi twerk, yechiuno iya, handiiti one secod ndisina kumira.
- 20 September 2016 at 14:26
- Anonymous said...
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Ndotarisa zviminyamutundo pamakumbo evasikana.
- 20 September 2016 at 14:28
- Anonymous said...
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Mukadzi: Ndoda kukiswa zvinyoronyoro, kupiwa hug yakagwinya kunzwa kuti murume ane simba uyu. Kuti tichikisana ndichinzwa mubhurugwa make kufakanyika. Ndobva ndawedzera kubatirira kuti arambe achindikisa.
- 20 September 2016 at 14:31
- Anonymous said...
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Ndikangobata chinhu chemurume mumaoko kana kungomupurudzira ndikaziva kuti amira ndotonzwa kuzvimba nokunyorova kuda kusvi**a chaizvo zvine simba. Ndoda murume aite zvesimba. Iye anotoziva kuti ndonakirwa nezvekubatwa nesimba ndosvi**a zvine simba.
- 20 September 2016 at 15:30
- Anonymous said...
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Murume kuona mukadzi ane mazigaro mboro inoita kuti twiii kumira
- 27 September 2016 at 13:19
- Anonymous said...
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In mukadzi wangu akanaka zvokuti ndikangoona ane smile chete ndotonzwa havi yokuda kumusv**a. Ndine picture yake paphone pangu. Ndikangomuona paphone ndotoita havi paari. Ndomuda mukadzi wangu.
- 27 September 2016 at 13:51
- Anonymous said...
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Ini ndinotoshaya hope chaidzo pakati pevhiki murume wangu asipo. Ndikamufunga ndoita zemo usiku hwese. Hameno kuti vamwe munozvifambisa sei.
- 29 September 2016 at 13:47
- Anonymous said...
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Please musanyora Zita.
Ndakas**wa kaviri nomurume wekuraini kwedu murume wangu asipo. Anoshanda kuHwange isu togara kuMazvingo. Murume uyu maitire ake haatauriki. Kana ndikangomufunga ndonetseka nazvo. Kuhura handidi asi murume uyu ndoda kuvata naye. Ane pfupi, hobvu uye anogutsa. Please musandituka.
- 4 October 2016 at 14:48


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Tuesday, 23 June 2015
Kukwereta mari murume/mukadzi wako asingazivi
Nyaya yokukwereta mari umwe wako asingazivi inokonzera chiiko? Ndohwa vamwe vachitoshushikana nayo zvokuti vanotsamwisana kusvika pakuda kuputsa musha. Inyaya yakakosha zvakadii pauviri hwenyu.
Kana uchigara munyika dzisinei nokuchengera mari dzevanhu vanogaramo, uchaona kuti zvinokwanisika kuti murume nomukadzi vaite mari dzavo pakasiyana pokuichenetera. Umwe anoita ACCOUNT kunerimwe bhangi umwe ari kune rimwe. Zvinoreva kuti kana vaya vokubhangi vachiona uchigaroisa mari mubhangi, vanofunga kuti uri munhu anogona kuchengetedza mari vobva vakukwezva kuti ukwerete mari.
Nyaya yemari mumba inopopotedzanisa mhuri dzakawanda chose zvokuti munokwanisa kurambana nokuda kwekusahwisisana kwatangira panyaya yemari. Nyaya iyi inotangira pane zvakawanda zvinoti:
Mari haikwani pane zvamunoda kuita nayo mumba.
Hama dzinokumbira mari imi musina yokudzipa
Umwe pakati penyu haazi munhu anovaka,
Umwe anoshanda umwe haashandi
Hamusi vanhu vagere zvakanaka pamusha penyu
Kutaurirana zviri pachena kunokunetsai zvikuru murume
Muri vanhu vemazera akasiyana
Hamuna kudzidza zvakada kufanana.
Kana mune chimwe cheizvi nyaya yemari inogaromuka mumba menyu. Chimwe chinomutsa nyaya ndechokuzikamwa kuti wakakwereta mari kuBhangi kana kuti kune umwe munhu ukasaudza umwe wako. Kusaudza umwe zvoita sokuti pane chawanga uchida kuvanza saka pobuda mubvunzo wekuti wanga uchiidii mari yawakwereta.
Kuwereta kubhangi kuri nani pane kukwereta kumunhu nokuti zvokumunhu zvinofumura umwe wako kuita sokuti hamugoni BUDGET pamba penyu. Kana wakwereta kubhangi zvinozikamwa kuti ukatadza kuzibhadhara munokwanisa kutiregwa fuma yamunayo. Saka kusaudza umwe wako zvichikwanisa kuzomuitisa munhu asina musha kana watadza kubhadhara ndizvo zvinotsamwisa.
Chikuru chinokonzera munhu kuti asvike pakuvanza chikwereti chemari, ihama. Hama dzatinadzi mazuvano hadzifungi kuti pauviri hwenyu mugere sei pamba penyu. Dziomukadzi dzinoramba dzichiunza zvichemo kumukadzi. Dzomurumewo dzichiunza zvichemo kumurume. Saka iwe kana waudzwa nyaya wega, unoziva wega kuti ukaudza murume/mukadzi wako mumba anoti kudii pazviri. Unoziva kuti mari mumba hamuna. Kuti ugoudza uya wakumbira kuti mari hapana, unoziva kuti haabvumi kuti shuwa hauna.
Ndicho chimwe chikonzero chokuti ukwerete mari umwe wako asingazivi wopa munhu uya wakumira. Munhu weukama anokumbira mari ari kukuratidza kuti haakwanisi kukudzorera chero zvodii. Kana wamupa chiziva kuti wamupa. Ukuzve ziva kuti painoperera achadzoka achida imwe.
Murudzi gwedu gwevanhu vatema mune vakawandisa vakangomirira kupiwa mari nevamwe vanhu. Kuti vafunge kuzvishandira vega havagoni. Kana ukavagadzirira mabasa okuita vanotokuudza kuti mari inodiwa yawedzera.
toti wamutengera imba yokurhendesa. Anokuudza kuti mawhindho akaputswa saka anoda magirazi matsva. Iwe womutumira mari. Ukamutengera mota dzebasa anokuudza kuti yafa iwe womutumira mari. Hapana chaunokwanisa kuita kuti asakukumbira mari munhu akadai.
Saka muchizoona munhu achiramba achikwereta mari achitumira hama dzake mukadzi/murume asingazvizivi.
Musi wazvinobuda kuti ndizvo zviri kuitika, munokwanisa kutukana. Chero iwe une chikweretiwo chakadaro unongotuka umwe wako chete nokuti ndizvo zvatiri vanhu. Unohwa munhu achikubvunza kuti sei usingadi kundiregerera pamhosva yandaita iyi asi iwe ndakakuregerera pawakaita yakadaro. Kureva kuti paakakuregerera hapana chaakadzidza pazviri kuti zvakaipa sei.
Chimwe chinoita kuti munhu akwerete mari, kuda kuisa mari pamabhizimisi kumusha iwe usipo. Munhu anokuudza pafoni kuti paita mukana wekuita bhizimisi rokuti nerokuti, iwe wofunga kuti anoziva zvaari kutaura. Hakuna bhizimisi rinobudirira iwe muridzi waro usipo. Ukapa munhu mari yaasina kushandira haambofi akaishandisa zvinokufambira iwe. Zvinoreva kuti ukakwereta mari ukaikandira munhu anokunyebera kuti anoda kuchengeta huku haufi wakaionazve, kureva kuti uchaibhadhara wega kwauri ikoko uko yatopera kudyiwa.
Kana uri munhu anoda zvinhu asi mari usina, unokwanisa kukwereta mari kutenga zvinhu. Zvinoreva kuti hauna kugadzira mukana wekugadzira mari nawo kuti ukwanise kudzosera mari iya. Kushanda hachisi chinhu chinoenderana nokukwereta mari. Munhu anokwereta mari munhu anokwanisa kushandisa mari yaakwereta kugadzira imwe mari.
Toti wakwereta mari iya waudzwa kuti uibhadhare pamakore matatu. Unoita sei kana wadzingwa basa pamakore matatu iwawo. Kuvanhu vakawanda vakadzidza hazvinetsi kuwana rimwe basa, asi kana usina kudzidza zvinonetsa. Ko chii chinokwanisa kuitika kana umwe wako akaziva kuti wakakwereta mari asi hauchina mari yacho.
Patiri kutaura pano kuti mhuri dzakawanda chose dziri padambudziko irori rokuti umwe akakwereta mari ndokuzodzingwa basa mari iya isina kubhadhagwa. Munozvifamisa sei? Kana musina imba zvinoreva kuti hapana chamunoruza. Kana mune imba munokwanisa kutoregwa imba. Kana mune mota, ndidzo dzinotanga kuenda. Hachisi chinhu chakanaka kungoona vanhu vezvikwereti vosvika pamba vachikutorerai moota ipapo iwe wanga usingazivi kuti mukadzi/murume wako ane chikwereti.
kana ukaona uchienda kunokwereta mari usina kuudza umwe wako zvinoreva kuti mese hamuhwisisani. Zvaifanira kuti utange wazama kutsanangurira umwe wako kuti paita nyaya inoda kuti muatsirane kufunga. Ukahwa achikupopotera iwe wamuudza, ziva kuti hamuhwisisani. Hama dzako ndedzakewo saka dzikakumira mari mese munoonorora kuti moita sei. Ukasadaro muchasvika pakupokana chete.
Kana mapokana panyaya dzemari, muchapokana panyaya dzokuvatana futi, mugopokana panyaya dzokutererana nokutsanangurirana zviitiko zvomumba. Muchaitirana makuhwa kushamwari, mugoudzanazve kuti anoshanda mari iyi ndiani kureva kuti matopokana zvechokwadi.
Mumba mukadzi ndiye munhu anofanira kuhwisisa nyaya dzemari kuti murume wake agare achiziva kuti pana manager mumba anochengeta mari uye anovaka musha. Zvadaro chirega kuonekwa uchitambisa mari, uchipa vanhu mari murume asingazivi, uchisarudza hama dzako dzake usina kupa mari. Mukadzi ndiye anovaka musha. Kuti murume ahwisise kuti mava kuda imba huru, mukadzi ndiye anoudza murume kuti avake imba.
Mukadzi asingahwisisi BUDGET mukadzi achanetseka muupenyu hwake.
Mari yechimbadzo:
Kune vamwe vanoona kuti mari yomumba haikwani votsvaka mazano okuwedzera mari. Vamwe vanofunga kuti kuita zvokutambirisana kunowedzera mari mumba. Kutambirisana kunohi chimbadzo. Chimbadzio chinofamba chichidai. Vanhu vanoshanda vanoungana vari boka rinoita vashanu kana gumi. Zvadaro vanobvumirana kuti votambirisana marii pamwedzi. Umwe noumwe anobvisa mari toti USD 100. Pamwedzi umwe noumwe mari yese yabviswa inoenda kumungu umwe chete, vopota vachichinjana kuita munhu umwe chete iyeye. Zvinoonekwa sokuti munhu uyu anowana nguva yokushandisa mari pane chimwe chinhu chikuru chaanoda kutenga. Toti vanhu vashanu zvoreva kuti wekutanga anowana 500 mwedzi wekutanga, achizoiwanazve mwedzi wegumi. Ipapo mwedzi umwe noumwe anenge abvisawo mari 100 kuti vamwe vaiwane.
Chimbadzo hachibatsiri munhu akangwara kuwedzera mari asi chinobatsira kukwereta mari uchizoibvisa mwedzi umwe noumwe. Unokwereta nhasi woidzorera pamwedzi mina, wechishanu woipiwazve.
Kana ukaita boka revanhu vasiri mbavha unokwanisa kutenga zvinhu zvakawanda, asi kana ukaita munyama unobigwa mari. Kana ukazvigona, chimbadzo chiri nani pakukwereta mari kubhangi nokuti hapana INTEREST. Asi chinopopotedzanisa vanhu veboka.
Makasi
vashoma chose vanokwanisa kutama makasi. Kana watanga kutamba makasi chiziva kuti upenyu hwako nemhuri yako hwapera. Hapana chinhu chinovaka chauchazokwanisa kuita kusvika wafa.
Kuwedzera kushanda:
Pamwe unoona mumba mari isingakwani wofunga zvokuwedzera maawa aunoshanda kubasa kana kutsvaka rimwe basa raunoshanda maawa mashoma pamusoro pebasa remazuva ese. Zvinowedzera mari asi zvinokwanisa kukushaisa nguva nemhuri yako, zvinova zvinounza mamwe matambudziko mumba.
Kukweretesa mari
Imwezve nyaya ndeyokuti kana une mari isingazikamwi noumwe wako, chinhu chinobvunzisa mibvunzo kana zvikazikamwa kuti wakakweretesa umwe munhu mari. Zvikuru kana munhu iyeye ari murume iwe uri mukadzi kana kuti ari mukadzi iwe uri murume. Unoona murume ane mhuri ohi akakweretesa chirikadzi kana kuti mhandara mari yokutenga ichi neicho mukadzi wake wemumba asingazvizivi. Chero pasina chinoitika pakati pavo, zvinoita sokuti chiripo. Kufungirana kunowanda.
Vakawanda mudzimba umu havana basa nokuziva mari dzinotambigwa vevarume/vakadzi vavo. Ukabvunza murume wangu kuti ndinotambira marii kubasa, handifungi kuti anoziva. Iniwo handizivi kuti anotambira marii. Ndinongova ne IDEA yokuti imarii asi handinei nokuziva chaizvo. Saka tese tinokwanisa kukweretesa umwe munhu mari zvisingazikamwi. Asi hachisi chinhu chakanaka kujaira. Uya kumba uudze umwe wako kuti wapa nhingi mari nokuti ...... Wadaro kana zvikazokunetsa kudzosegwa mari iya munobatsirana kufunga zvokuita uye hapana chinofungisa umwe zvakaipa.
Vanhukadziwo vakawanda zvinozikamwa kuti akakwereta mari kumunhurume, anokwanisa kuibhadhara zvisiri zvemari. Vakadzi tinohwisisa kuti ukabvisira murume bhurugwa anokangamwa zvakawanda. Chirikadzi ikakwereta mari kumurume ane mhuri ikamubvisira bhurugwa zvinokwanisa kuitika kuti mari iya haizobhadhagwi zvachose asi kuti murume uya watowana mukana wekukavira mhodzi mugombo risiri rake. Nyaya dzotokuwandirai.
Koitazve vakadzi vevanhu vanoti muma mukashaikwa chokuti nechokuti vanonokwereta mari kwanhingi mukadzi wake asingazvizivi. Bodo handizvo. Enda undokurukura nhamo yako nomukadzi wemhuri iyo iyo azopira nyaya yako kumurume wake, mari yobuda zviri pachena.
Vakamboiita taurai tihwe.
Kana uchigara munyika dzisinei nokuchengera mari dzevanhu vanogaramo, uchaona kuti zvinokwanisika kuti murume nomukadzi vaite mari dzavo pakasiyana pokuichenetera. Umwe anoita ACCOUNT kunerimwe bhangi umwe ari kune rimwe. Zvinoreva kuti kana vaya vokubhangi vachiona uchigaroisa mari mubhangi, vanofunga kuti uri munhu anogona kuchengetedza mari vobva vakukwezva kuti ukwerete mari.
Nyaya yemari mumba inopopotedzanisa mhuri dzakawanda chose zvokuti munokwanisa kurambana nokuda kwekusahwisisana kwatangira panyaya yemari. Nyaya iyi inotangira pane zvakawanda zvinoti:
Mari haikwani pane zvamunoda kuita nayo mumba.
Hama dzinokumbira mari imi musina yokudzipa
Umwe pakati penyu haazi munhu anovaka,
Umwe anoshanda umwe haashandi
Hamusi vanhu vagere zvakanaka pamusha penyu
Kutaurirana zviri pachena kunokunetsai zvikuru murume
Muri vanhu vemazera akasiyana
Hamuna kudzidza zvakada kufanana.
Kana mune chimwe cheizvi nyaya yemari inogaromuka mumba menyu. Chimwe chinomutsa nyaya ndechokuzikamwa kuti wakakwereta mari kuBhangi kana kuti kune umwe munhu ukasaudza umwe wako. Kusaudza umwe zvoita sokuti pane chawanga uchida kuvanza saka pobuda mubvunzo wekuti wanga uchiidii mari yawakwereta.
Kuwereta kubhangi kuri nani pane kukwereta kumunhu nokuti zvokumunhu zvinofumura umwe wako kuita sokuti hamugoni BUDGET pamba penyu. Kana wakwereta kubhangi zvinozikamwa kuti ukatadza kuzibhadhara munokwanisa kutiregwa fuma yamunayo. Saka kusaudza umwe wako zvichikwanisa kuzomuitisa munhu asina musha kana watadza kubhadhara ndizvo zvinotsamwisa.
Chikuru chinokonzera munhu kuti asvike pakuvanza chikwereti chemari, ihama. Hama dzatinadzi mazuvano hadzifungi kuti pauviri hwenyu mugere sei pamba penyu. Dziomukadzi dzinoramba dzichiunza zvichemo kumukadzi. Dzomurumewo dzichiunza zvichemo kumurume. Saka iwe kana waudzwa nyaya wega, unoziva wega kuti ukaudza murume/mukadzi wako mumba anoti kudii pazviri. Unoziva kuti mari mumba hamuna. Kuti ugoudza uya wakumbira kuti mari hapana, unoziva kuti haabvumi kuti shuwa hauna.
Ndicho chimwe chikonzero chokuti ukwerete mari umwe wako asingazivi wopa munhu uya wakumira. Munhu weukama anokumbira mari ari kukuratidza kuti haakwanisi kukudzorera chero zvodii. Kana wamupa chiziva kuti wamupa. Ukuzve ziva kuti painoperera achadzoka achida imwe.
Murudzi gwedu gwevanhu vatema mune vakawandisa vakangomirira kupiwa mari nevamwe vanhu. Kuti vafunge kuzvishandira vega havagoni. Kana ukavagadzirira mabasa okuita vanotokuudza kuti mari inodiwa yawedzera.
toti wamutengera imba yokurhendesa. Anokuudza kuti mawhindho akaputswa saka anoda magirazi matsva. Iwe womutumira mari. Ukamutengera mota dzebasa anokuudza kuti yafa iwe womutumira mari. Hapana chaunokwanisa kuita kuti asakukumbira mari munhu akadai.
Saka muchizoona munhu achiramba achikwereta mari achitumira hama dzake mukadzi/murume asingazvizivi.
Musi wazvinobuda kuti ndizvo zviri kuitika, munokwanisa kutukana. Chero iwe une chikweretiwo chakadaro unongotuka umwe wako chete nokuti ndizvo zvatiri vanhu. Unohwa munhu achikubvunza kuti sei usingadi kundiregerera pamhosva yandaita iyi asi iwe ndakakuregerera pawakaita yakadaro. Kureva kuti paakakuregerera hapana chaakadzidza pazviri kuti zvakaipa sei.
Chimwe chinoita kuti munhu akwerete mari, kuda kuisa mari pamabhizimisi kumusha iwe usipo. Munhu anokuudza pafoni kuti paita mukana wekuita bhizimisi rokuti nerokuti, iwe wofunga kuti anoziva zvaari kutaura. Hakuna bhizimisi rinobudirira iwe muridzi waro usipo. Ukapa munhu mari yaasina kushandira haambofi akaishandisa zvinokufambira iwe. Zvinoreva kuti ukakwereta mari ukaikandira munhu anokunyebera kuti anoda kuchengeta huku haufi wakaionazve, kureva kuti uchaibhadhara wega kwauri ikoko uko yatopera kudyiwa.
Kana uri munhu anoda zvinhu asi mari usina, unokwanisa kukwereta mari kutenga zvinhu. Zvinoreva kuti hauna kugadzira mukana wekugadzira mari nawo kuti ukwanise kudzosera mari iya. Kushanda hachisi chinhu chinoenderana nokukwereta mari. Munhu anokwereta mari munhu anokwanisa kushandisa mari yaakwereta kugadzira imwe mari.
Toti wakwereta mari iya waudzwa kuti uibhadhare pamakore matatu. Unoita sei kana wadzingwa basa pamakore matatu iwawo. Kuvanhu vakawanda vakadzidza hazvinetsi kuwana rimwe basa, asi kana usina kudzidza zvinonetsa. Ko chii chinokwanisa kuitika kana umwe wako akaziva kuti wakakwereta mari asi hauchina mari yacho.
Patiri kutaura pano kuti mhuri dzakawanda chose dziri padambudziko irori rokuti umwe akakwereta mari ndokuzodzingwa basa mari iya isina kubhadhagwa. Munozvifamisa sei? Kana musina imba zvinoreva kuti hapana chamunoruza. Kana mune imba munokwanisa kutoregwa imba. Kana mune mota, ndidzo dzinotanga kuenda. Hachisi chinhu chakanaka kungoona vanhu vezvikwereti vosvika pamba vachikutorerai moota ipapo iwe wanga usingazivi kuti mukadzi/murume wako ane chikwereti.
kana ukaona uchienda kunokwereta mari usina kuudza umwe wako zvinoreva kuti mese hamuhwisisani. Zvaifanira kuti utange wazama kutsanangurira umwe wako kuti paita nyaya inoda kuti muatsirane kufunga. Ukahwa achikupopotera iwe wamuudza, ziva kuti hamuhwisisani. Hama dzako ndedzakewo saka dzikakumira mari mese munoonorora kuti moita sei. Ukasadaro muchasvika pakupokana chete.
Kana mapokana panyaya dzemari, muchapokana panyaya dzokuvatana futi, mugopokana panyaya dzokutererana nokutsanangurirana zviitiko zvomumba. Muchaitirana makuhwa kushamwari, mugoudzanazve kuti anoshanda mari iyi ndiani kureva kuti matopokana zvechokwadi.
Mumba mukadzi ndiye munhu anofanira kuhwisisa nyaya dzemari kuti murume wake agare achiziva kuti pana manager mumba anochengeta mari uye anovaka musha. Zvadaro chirega kuonekwa uchitambisa mari, uchipa vanhu mari murume asingazivi, uchisarudza hama dzako dzake usina kupa mari. Mukadzi ndiye anovaka musha. Kuti murume ahwisise kuti mava kuda imba huru, mukadzi ndiye anoudza murume kuti avake imba.
Mukadzi asingahwisisi BUDGET mukadzi achanetseka muupenyu hwake.
Mari yechimbadzo:
Kune vamwe vanoona kuti mari yomumba haikwani votsvaka mazano okuwedzera mari. Vamwe vanofunga kuti kuita zvokutambirisana kunowedzera mari mumba. Kutambirisana kunohi chimbadzo. Chimbadzio chinofamba chichidai. Vanhu vanoshanda vanoungana vari boka rinoita vashanu kana gumi. Zvadaro vanobvumirana kuti votambirisana marii pamwedzi. Umwe noumwe anobvisa mari toti USD 100. Pamwedzi umwe noumwe mari yese yabviswa inoenda kumungu umwe chete, vopota vachichinjana kuita munhu umwe chete iyeye. Zvinoonekwa sokuti munhu uyu anowana nguva yokushandisa mari pane chimwe chinhu chikuru chaanoda kutenga. Toti vanhu vashanu zvoreva kuti wekutanga anowana 500 mwedzi wekutanga, achizoiwanazve mwedzi wegumi. Ipapo mwedzi umwe noumwe anenge abvisawo mari 100 kuti vamwe vaiwane.
Chimbadzo hachibatsiri munhu akangwara kuwedzera mari asi chinobatsira kukwereta mari uchizoibvisa mwedzi umwe noumwe. Unokwereta nhasi woidzorera pamwedzi mina, wechishanu woipiwazve.
Kana ukaita boka revanhu vasiri mbavha unokwanisa kutenga zvinhu zvakawanda, asi kana ukaita munyama unobigwa mari. Kana ukazvigona, chimbadzo chiri nani pakukwereta mari kubhangi nokuti hapana INTEREST. Asi chinopopotedzanisa vanhu veboka.
Makasi
vashoma chose vanokwanisa kutama makasi. Kana watanga kutamba makasi chiziva kuti upenyu hwako nemhuri yako hwapera. Hapana chinhu chinovaka chauchazokwanisa kuita kusvika wafa.
Kuwedzera kushanda:
Pamwe unoona mumba mari isingakwani wofunga zvokuwedzera maawa aunoshanda kubasa kana kutsvaka rimwe basa raunoshanda maawa mashoma pamusoro pebasa remazuva ese. Zvinowedzera mari asi zvinokwanisa kukushaisa nguva nemhuri yako, zvinova zvinounza mamwe matambudziko mumba.
Kukweretesa mari
Imwezve nyaya ndeyokuti kana une mari isingazikamwi noumwe wako, chinhu chinobvunzisa mibvunzo kana zvikazikamwa kuti wakakweretesa umwe munhu mari. Zvikuru kana munhu iyeye ari murume iwe uri mukadzi kana kuti ari mukadzi iwe uri murume. Unoona murume ane mhuri ohi akakweretesa chirikadzi kana kuti mhandara mari yokutenga ichi neicho mukadzi wake wemumba asingazvizivi. Chero pasina chinoitika pakati pavo, zvinoita sokuti chiripo. Kufungirana kunowanda.
Vakawanda mudzimba umu havana basa nokuziva mari dzinotambigwa vevarume/vakadzi vavo. Ukabvunza murume wangu kuti ndinotambira marii kubasa, handifungi kuti anoziva. Iniwo handizivi kuti anotambira marii. Ndinongova ne IDEA yokuti imarii asi handinei nokuziva chaizvo. Saka tese tinokwanisa kukweretesa umwe munhu mari zvisingazikamwi. Asi hachisi chinhu chakanaka kujaira. Uya kumba uudze umwe wako kuti wapa nhingi mari nokuti ...... Wadaro kana zvikazokunetsa kudzosegwa mari iya munobatsirana kufunga zvokuita uye hapana chinofungisa umwe zvakaipa.
Vanhukadziwo vakawanda zvinozikamwa kuti akakwereta mari kumunhurume, anokwanisa kuibhadhara zvisiri zvemari. Vakadzi tinohwisisa kuti ukabvisira murume bhurugwa anokangamwa zvakawanda. Chirikadzi ikakwereta mari kumurume ane mhuri ikamubvisira bhurugwa zvinokwanisa kuitika kuti mari iya haizobhadhagwi zvachose asi kuti murume uya watowana mukana wekukavira mhodzi mugombo risiri rake. Nyaya dzotokuwandirai.
Koitazve vakadzi vevanhu vanoti muma mukashaikwa chokuti nechokuti vanonokwereta mari kwanhingi mukadzi wake asingazvizivi. Bodo handizvo. Enda undokurukura nhamo yako nomukadzi wemhuri iyo iyo azopira nyaya yako kumurume wake, mari yobuda zviri pachena.
Vakamboiita taurai tihwe.
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Mukorezana
Shoko rokuti mukorezana (century in English) rinoreva kuverengwa kwemakore zana (100) zvichibva pagore rechi(xx01) panotangira zana racho kusvika pagore rechi(x100) parinoperera. Somuenzaniso mukorezana we19 chakatanga mugore 1801 chikapera mugore 1900; mukorezana we13 chakatanga mugore 1301 chikapera mugore 1400.
Pari zvino tiri muchizana 21 chakatanga mugore 2001 uye chinotarisirwa kupera mugore 2100.
Vanhu vekuEurope vakapamba Africa munguva yomukorezana we19; pakazopera mukorezana 20 Africa yose yanga yawana rusununguko. Ghana ndiyo yakatanga kuwana rusununguko mugore ra1957 , Namibia ndiyo yakapedzisira mugore ra1990.
Nokumwe kutaura tingaturikira tichiti mwaka wechizana.


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Chisipiti
Muchidzidzo chetaranyika, chisipiti kana chinyuko (spring - permanent) zvinoreva panzvimbo panobuda mvura ichitubuka yega kubva pasi. Kana chisipiti chichibuda kubva pasi pedombo chinonzi dombore.
Panonaya mvura, imwe mvura inosinina ichipinda pasi pevhu. Yave pasi, mvura iyi inotevedza pane ivhu kana mhande yematombo anobvinina (layer of permeable soil or rock). Mvura iyi inokwezvewa kuenda kunzvimbo dziri pakaderera kuburikidza negunganidzo re Earth. Nokuda kwegunganidzo, mvura yemuvhu inoda kuwungana ichigadzikana pasi ipapo kudzamara pamusoro payo pave muchechetere. Iwoyu muchechetere wemvura unodanwa kunzi tafura yemvura - water table kuEnglish.
Imwe nguva mhande chematombo anobvinina chinosvika pachinobudikira pachinosangana nepane nhika pauso hwenyika. Ipapo kana tafura yemvura iri pakakwirira kudarika nhika iyi, mvura inotubuka kubuda muchiwarikwa chematombo ichizoonekwa sechisipiti.
Mune dzimwe nzvimbo mvura iyoyi inokwanisa kunge yayerera ichibatana nemuzera wedombo rinopisa zvokuti inotubuka panyika yave kudziya kuita chisipiti chinopisa - Hot springs.
Mamwe Mazwi[chinja | edit source]
- Chitubu - (eye of spring, source).
- Mbiruviru (Seasonal or permanent spring of water) apa kureva chitubu chinobvinina mvura gore rose kana nemwaka mumwe.
- Chinyamudubwi (Seasonal spring of water) kureva chitubu chinotubuka nemimwe mwaka yegore.


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Kuneta Zvokutadza Rhoji.
Ndinowana mwadhi
dzakawanda dzichitaura nenyaya yokuti mukadzi/murume anoramba kuvata
nomurume/mukadzi wake iri ngari yokuneta, zvikuru pakati pevhiki basa
rakawanda. Kozoitazve mukadzi asingashandi anoudza murume anoshanda kuti
akaneta . Zvoita sokuti ari kushandisa nyaya yokuneta kuti arambe kuvata
nomurume chete. Nyaya idzi dzinokwanisa kukanganisa magarire evanhu mudzimba
asi kuri kusangohwisisana chete.
Zvinonetesa
Kune zvinhu zvakawanda pamusha zvinonetesa munhu kusvika
pakutadza kuvata noumwe wake. Zvizhinji zvacho hazvihwisiswi nomunhu asina
nguva nazvo, ndizvo tichizohwa oti mukadzi /murume wake kusangoda kuvata naye.
Mukadzi –Mai vemba.
Kana uri mai vemba, pane mabasa aunotarisigwa kuita zuva
nezuva akaita sokuti
Kuwadzira
mubhedha pamunomuka.
Kubika breakfast
Kugadzirira
vana kuti vaende kuchikoro pamwe kutoenda navo
Kusuka ndiro
Kuwacha hembhe
dzokupfeka
Kuaina hembhe
Kuenda kumagirosa
Kunotra vana
kuchikoro
Kuendesa vana
kuma kirabhu okutamba kana kudzidza zvimwe zvevana
Kubika masikati
Kusuka ndiro
Kutsvaira ruvazhe
Kusakurira nokudiridza
muriwo
Kubika zvokudya
zvemanheru
Kugezesa vana
Kuverengera
vana nokubatsira kuita homework yavo
yechikoro.
Kuterera
zvinotaugwa navana nokupindura mibvunzo yavo
Kubatsira vana
kuenda kunovata.
Kusuka ndiro
nepoto
Kugadzira ma
LUNCH Box evana neremurume.
Kugadzira
mvura yokugeza yomurume neyako.
Kugeza
Kuita nyaya
nomurume
Mabasa emunhukadzi pamba haaperi chero uri munhu akagwinya sei hako unngoswera umire uchiita basa chete. Ndiko kuhi mai vemba ikoko. Kana usingazvikwanisi murume anokasira kuona kuti hauzvikwanisi.
Pakunovata.
Apa ndipo paunozoona kuti uri kuda kuiswa chose asi muviri waneta asizve murume
ari kuda. Ndipo unongoona kuti nani kungorega murume akubatebate kusvika
wanyorova apa uchingomupawo hako manyawi asi uchihwa kuti muviri hauna simba.
Zvadaro wongofongora woisa musoro papiro worega murume achizvibatsira kuchiuno
shure uko iwe kungochemerera asi basa chairo hauna rokuita.
Movata henyu mangwana ndizvozvo futi.
Zvechikapa nokukwira murume zvangova zvokuita kamwe chete pavhiki kana vhiki mbiri.
Idambudziko guru chose zvokuti unopota uchizvibvunza kuti ma Smoro hausi aya
ane varume vatatu kana vana vanoti umwe anoisa manheru obva adzokera kumukadzi
wake, umwe woisa usiku ovatapo nokuti mukadzi wake anogara kune imwe Town, umwe
oisawo mangwanani uya weusiku aenda
kubasa, obva adzokera kundodhiraivha chovha yake. Umwe ozoisa masikati vaya
vamwe vachiri kumabasa. Iwe mukadzi wemumba wozvishaya kuti uyu muhure
anozviita sei.
Tikatarisa pakadai tinoona kuti muhure haana mabasa ese awa nokuti
anongozviriritira iye chete. Kungotsvaira Flat riya rinobhadhagwa RENT nevarume
ava. Kana ada kudya anohi enda ku Nandos,
saka ndiro haasuki, kubika haabiki, ma Lunch box anoitwa kudzimba dzevarume
vake saka iye haaiti.
Nhumbi
dzokupfeka anowacha dzake chete kuWashroom uye anomirira dzomboita dutu. Mabhurugwa anogara
asina nengari yokumirira kuiswa. Nhumbi dzevarume vaya dzinowachiwa nevakadzi vavo. Saka
basa chairo haana. Ndizvo achiwana simba rechikapa kuvarume vese ava, iwe
wemumba uchitadza kuitira murume umwe chete nokuneta. Hakusi kuti unenge usingadiwo kumbohwiswa pane moyo nomurume wako. Inyaya yokuwanda kwebasa uye kusahwisisa kwevarume vedu kuti mumba mune mabasa akawanda kudai.
Mukadzi wemba
anozowedzera kuneta kana achishandawo 8-5 sevamwe vemuINDUSTRY. Kubata ma lift
uchienda kubasa nokudzoka manheru uku wambokwizwakwizwa mazamu nemagaro pakupakirana
mudzichovha, zvigevenga zvekukwiza vakadzi zvinenge zvakatomirirawo chovha dzizere kuita musikahwa wazvo. Unosvika kumba wakatosvotwa nechekare, uku mabasa ese aya emumba
akakumirira kana wadzoka. Murume womuhwa achiudza shamwari dzake vachiita nyaya
pakusuka mota neSvondo kuti anoda mukadzi anopepeta murume nechiuno. Unongozviita musi umwe pavhiki. Mamwe mazuva kungofongorera
murume iota zvaanoda movata. Iwe chako hapana. Uyawo murume haachinei nokuti wanakigwa here kana kwete, chero iye akuisira urume kuti awane hope. Ukatoita zemo pazviri unonoka kubatwa nehope iye achitoridza magwiriri. Ndiyo REALITY yokuroorana muchishanda mese iyoyo.
Ukasaita hanya nokuzvigadzirisa munojaira upenyu hwakadai mopedzisira ume wenyu aratidza kusembugwa nemufungo wekuisana zvokuti uya ane simba nazvo anotanga kuona sokuti ari kunyimwa. Obva atsauka zhira yemuchato oita meso meso. Ukatarisa muraini renyu unotoona vamwe vari panyaya yakadai. Zvinohi ne WHO ONE THIRD yevanhu vakura zvokuda kuvata nevamwe vanhu uye vakaroorana noumwe munhu, vari kuhura. Zvoreva vanhu vakawanda.
Ma Arabhu vanoona kuti mukadzi munhu anoenda kumwedzi vhiki yese pamwedzi, uye munhu anoneta nebasa romumba, saka vanoroora vakadzi vakawanda kuti umwe akati akaneta murume oenda kunovata noumwe mukadzi. Chavanozokanganisa ndechokuti havadi kuhwa kuti mukadzi anomurume anogara akaneta aenda kunotsvaka murume ane simba rokuvata naye. Saka inyaya yokudzvanyirira vakadzi chete.
Vakadzi tiri nani hedu pakuti tinogona kungoti rabada murume oisa hake ega. Kana zvakuwandira nhasi, udza murume kuti shamwari ndakaneta asi kana uchida kuisa isa hako asi uri wega nhasi. Murume anoona ega chokuita. Pamwe anoti chivata tozoita kuseni.
Murume- baba
vemba.
Murume
mabasa avo pamba haana kuwanda asi murume anokwanisa kumuka kuchakasviba
ochovha bhasikoro rake achienda kubasa. Oita kana 8-15 km, osvikako oshanda
zuva rese akangomira. Adaro ochovhazve
bhasikoro rake achidzokera kumba. Osvika kwasviba iye abva kuchakasviba. Anosvikowana pamba hapana huni, magetsi
adzima. Okwirazve bhasikoro onanga kumusika kunotenga huni. Odzoka otungidza nyuzipepa kuti aone kutema
huni dziya.
Vana vakanovata mukadzi omuudza kuti Ferdinand
ambopfuura nepo achida mari yake yehuku dzatakatora mwedzi wapera. Ipapo nyama mumba hamuchina asi kunodiwa mari
yenyama yemwedzi wapera. Murume iota STRESS nokutadza kuriritira mhuri yake.
Mari yechikoro inodiwa vhiki inouya, Mununguna wake akafa akamusiira vana vatatu
vanopinda chikoro kumusha. Mari inodiwa hayo asi haina kufanana nemari yevake
vari kuBoarding SCHOOL. Asi Stress
inongoita zvakadaro. Murume umwe chete
hazvifaniri kuti aite vana vashanu vari kuchikoro
Kuzoti ageza
moda kunovata, samba rokurhoja mukadzi wake roita shoma. Munhu aneta nokuswera
akamira kubasa uye kuchovha bhasikoro.
Fungwa yave panhamo dzake dzemari. Uya mukdzi ageza aka zvipfapfaidza
nemafuta anonhuwirira avitarisira kurezvwa nokupiwa rudo, obva afunga kuti
murume akaneta nokuti ari kuhura noumwe mukadzi. Bopoto rodzvagwa ipapo. Musi warinozomera tinohwa mashoko
akawanda.
Murume munhu anotarisigwa kutaridza kuda kurhoja mukadzi wako saka iwe wega ukaita mazuva maviri usina chawamboita. unokwanisa kupa mukadzi wako fungwa dzakaipa. Kana wakaneta taurira mukadzi kuti wakaneta azive zvakunetesa. Wadaro hwisisa kuti kuneta kwako hakupedzi zemo rake saka mukumbire akukwire. Zvadaro iwe chirega akwire iwe wongoongorora maitire ake wakabatirirawo kuratidza kunakigwa. Wosamukoira kuti nguva yake irebewo. Paunozomupa zvinhu anenge aguta. Movata henyu.
Garai muchiziva kuti mese munoda zvokuisana asi dzimwe nguva muviri unokuudza wega kuti nhasi hazviiti. Zvikuru varume vedu ava vatakapiwa nomusiki wedu. Kana akaneta chose kuti amisire mukadzi wake chombo agoita zemo rinogara nguva inonakira mukadzi zvinomunetsa. Iwe mukadzi ndiwe unongozoudza murume kuti ngatichigumbatirana hedu tivate. tozozviona mangwana kwaedza.
Saka todii?
Ngatihwisise
tese kuti upenyu hwemazuvano hwakaoma saka kana taita vana tinofanira kuwana
mazano okuriritira vana vedu. Kana tikaongorora upenyu hwedu tikahwisisa
zvinonetesa tinokwanisa kubatsirana panyaya dzacho kuti pakunovata tinge tine samba
rokurhojana zvinonakira tese.
Toti mukadzi
haashandi murume anoshanda zvinonetesa. Mukadzi ngaaongorore mabasa ake kuti
agadzirenguva yake zvakanaka kuti asawanza kuneta. Anokwanisa kuwacha kaviri
pavhiki pane kuwacha mazuva ese. Anokwanisa dzidzsa vana kuzvigadzirira maLunch
box avo uye kuzvigezesa kana vati kurei.
Gadziridza
nguva dzako uwanewo nguva yokuita makuhwa nevavakidzani vako, ugowanazve nguva
yokutamba nomurume manheru.
Tarisazve
basa romurume wako uone paungakwanisa kumubatsira kuti kana auya kumba
asashanda mabasa akawanda anonetesa.
Usatanga
kufoya murume nenyaya dzokusada kurhojana newe. Ukamupa COMPLEX pazviri anotowedzera
madambudziko aanawo. Murume ndewekurezva nokukurudzira kuti aite. Kana
zvichikunetsa zama amire chombo, wobva wamuvatisa nomusana womukwira iwe
murudzi womushandisira chiuno kusvika apera urume uku chemererawo kuratidza
kunakigwa nazvo. Murume akada kukoira makadaro mudzivise umutaridze kuti
unoziva zvokuita.
Zvadaro tenda murume nokugona basa kwaanoita
kuti mangwana ukadazve kumukwira aone sezano rakanaka.
Kana wakaneta zviri zvokungonetawo zvanhasi, usati warambira murume tanga waongorora kuti iye zemo rake riri papi. Kana rakawanda zvokuti rinoda kutapudzwa, rezva murume kusvika iwe wanyorova. Zvadaru itai maitire asingadi simba rakawanda. Unokwanisa kuvata nedumbu wopatsanisa makumbo zvishoma wosimudzira chiuno. Murume anokutanyanga opinza chombo. Unotohwa kuti nyurududu chichipinda zvakadzika. Chimuudza aite zvisina ganyabvu kana sipidhi yakawanda. Kunaka kwazvo kunokwanisa kukupa simba rokujoinira pakukoigwa. Kana usina simba rega murume aite. Hazviiti kusachemerera nemaitire awa nokuti ukasimudza nokuderedza chiuno unobaiwa nokukwiziwa pausingasikwiziwi zvinova zvinonaka. Chikuru ndechokuti haudi simba rakawanda saka mese munonakigwa asi wakaneta.
Unokwanisazve kufongora murume okuita kusvika apedza iwe wakangofongora usina basa guru rawaita. Unokwanisazve kuvata nedivi wakafuratira murume, wosimudza gumbo murume wopinda. Wadaro wogonya kuti kuti murume anyatse kukoira ari shure. Muudze asamhanyamhanya nazvo aite zvinyoronyoro.
Zvinoreva kuti kana wakaneta unokwanisa kubvisa murume zemo. Asi iye kana akaneta pamwe hapana chaanokuita. Kuvatana mumba mukadzi ndiye MANAGER saka ndiye anoti zvikaipa anokanganisika iye. Varume vakakomboregwa kuti vanoita zvinoda miviri yavo kutipfuura.
Murume
Ukaona
mukadzi wako achingokuudza kuti zvokuvatana haadi nokuti akaneta, ongorora
maswerero ake uone paungamubatsira mabasa omumba. Kana waona pokumubatsira,
zviri nani ushande naye pane kumutorera basa racho zvinoita sokuti wafunga kuti
haasi kugona basa. Pakushanda naye bvunza maitire aanoda kuti basa riitwe. Uchaona kuti mukushanda mese munoita nyaya
mowedzera kushamwaridzana. Ndipo unopotawo uchimbomira basa wombopurudzira
mukadzi wako. Ukawana mukana wombomuudza nyaya dzokuti unomuda uye une rombo
rakanaka kuva nmukadzi akadai.
Uku kutsvaka kupa mukadzi manyawi. Usapopotera mukadzi kuti sei asingadi kuiswa
nokuti zvinodzivaidza fungwa dzake kusvika pakuti anoona sokuti unongomudira
kuisa chete. Akaita fungwa dzakadai unongozoona oti pakunovata ukada
anongovhura makumbo asi hana zvimwe zvaanoita saka zvangofanana nokuti dai
usina kupinza nokuti hauzivi kuti anakigwa here kana kwete.
Kana wakaneta pamwe chombo chinonoka kumira asi kana chamira rega mukadzi wako ashandise abve zemo. Pamwe zemo rinokupa simba wava mukati memukadzi zvokuti unotanga kukoirawo monakigwa mese. Pamwe unorega mukadzi oita basa ega. Chikuru kuwirirana nokuziva kuti muri kubatsirana.
Kuneta nguva dzese.
Ukaona umwe
wako akaneta nguva dzese, hwisisa kuti pamwe ane chigwere. Kune zvigwere
zvinopa kuneta nokushaisa samba. Enda naye andotesitwa aonekwe chikonzero. Pamwe
zvinongoda mapiritsi kuti dambudziko ripere. Pamwe pane maVITAMIN aasiri
kuwana. Nyaya yokuda kuvata naye ndiyo
nyaya inokwanisa kuratidza kuti ane dambudziko rinoda varapi.
Pamwezve
kana ange azvara mwana pasina kupera gore, zvinokwanisika kuti ane Dipression
asi pamwe haina kuwanda zvokuda kuenda kuchipatara. Batsiranai mudzokere
pautano mutanga nyaya dzokuvatana zvishoma nezvishoma mowedzera kusvika pamunogonera
mese.
Kutukanirana
nyaya yokuneta handizvo nokuti dzimwe nguva idambudziko rinotoda kuti
umubatsire kana kuti uende naye kuchipatara.
Ngatihwisisezve kuti kuneta kwemukadzi ane utano hwakakwana kunoitiswa nokusada kuvata nomurume wake iri ngari yokuti murume haasi kumugutsa kana kuti iye mukadzi ane chikomba kana kuti akanetawo zvechokwadi. Mukadzi anohura zvinomunetsa mufungwa kuhura kwake saka anowanzoderedza zemo romumba. Zvikuru kana achimhura murume wake pane chimwe chinhu.
Murumewo kuneta kunokwanisa kuitiswa nokuhura asi kazhinji murume akatanga kuhura anoonekwa nokuwedzera kuda kuvata nomukadzi wemumba, kwete kutanga kuti akaneta. Varume vanokavhira chihure nokuwedzera zviitwa zvemumba kuti mukadzi asafungira kuti pane chiri kuitika.
Maitire edu chihure akasiyana kuvakadzi nokuvarume zvikuru kana tange tisina kupokana zvinozikamwa pakati pedu. Saka usati wafungira umwe wako kuhura tanga wahwisisa kuti nyaya yako iri papi. Varume havanetsi kuziva kuti ari kuhura asi vakadzi vanonetsa. Mukadzi anohura anovanza chihure chake kupfuura murume anohura.
Kuneta mumba chinhu chinofanira kukasira kutaurirana pachiri nokuti chine nyaya dzakawanda dzinoti zviito, basa, chigwere. Usaiginowa munhu anogara akaneta kana kuzviiginowa iwe kana wapedza vhiki mbiri wakaneta.


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10 Mar 2016
Muvhimi mubako
Makare kare pasi pachakarohwa nenyundo, madzitateguru edu achatsika panerino pasi, achirima nenzou nokuvhima neshumba, pasi raiyera. Waikumbira aipiwa aituka nokushora ainyangarika.
Mudunhu ramambo Makuvatsine, masango ainge akati fararira nemhuka, dzinodyiwa nedzinorura. Rimwe zuva vakomana vakandovhima mugomo reRushumbe. Imbwa dzakamusta mbira, idzo dzakatizira mubako zvirizvese nakatsande. Madyo, kemakaro kakateverawo ndokupindawo. Achipinda akashamiswa kushaya kana mbira imwe zvayo, ndokuona gubwe rainge risingatizi kana kuhukurwa nembwa iye ndokuriuraya. Mubako iroro maiva nebwiro bweimwe harabwa.
Mukomana akaremberedza tsuro yake achinyemwerera achifunga matenderwo aaizoita naamai, chaitemura chiye nhasi chosevewo. Akati chiregai ndibude bako rakaiti unoindepo. Mufaro wakapinduka ukava kusuwa misodzi ikati mokoto. Jaya rakachema ririmo, richikoniwa kubuda. Vamwe vakomana vakaidza kumubetsera, zvikakona n’anga murapwa achida. Vakadzokera kumusha kunodana vakuru. Vakuru vakauya vakaidza kumubatsira, zvikakona.
Mumwe mutana ndokuti, “Endai kuvene vebwiro, vazotaura nebwiro bwavo, zvimwe zvingainda nepamwe bwukaregedza mwana wedu.” Vaya vakauya nomumwe mukweguru akastanangura kuti mukoma uyu ainge adarika chiyerwa ndokuti, “Tipei nzombe yemombe chena, uye mbudzi, kuti mwana wenyu agobuda.” Ivo ndokuita zvavakarairwa.
Vakauraya mbudzi vakasasa ropa pabwiro vachidetemba kuvakare vavo. Ipapo mumwe wakadanidzira, achiti, “Chiregedza mwana, abude!” Bako rikazaruka, kamwe Madyo akabuda akakotama asina gubwe riya.
Varidzi vemakuva vakatora nombe yavo, asi mbudzi yakadyiwa ikaperera mugomo. Zvakakosha kuremekedza nzvimbo dzinoyera nezviyerwa zvedu.http://www.denhe.info/


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Rugetsenuro
Rugetsenuro (Electrolysis in English) chiitiko chinoshandiswa kupfutura maDeva akabatana kuti apatsanurwe kuchishandiswa magetsi. Apa madeva anenge ari mumunyungu unopereka magetsi unonzi mugetsenurwa. Chiitiko ichi chinoshandiswa paSable Chemicals kuKwekwe apo vanoshandisa magetsi kupatsanura oxygen ne hydrogen anova magasi anogadzira mvura.
Izwi rokuti madeva riri kuturikira chinonzi ions kuEnglish iro richidudza kuti I go or that which goes. KuChiShona patorwa izwi rokuti deva rinodudza kutevera, to follow - sokuti Makanaka akadeva nerukova - Makanaka followed the flow of river. Madeva anokwezvewa kudivi rimwe renyere zvichienderana nechaji iri kudivi iroro. Madevanhuka (anions) ane chaji yakapokama anokwezverwa kudimbamukata rine hugonga hwakaterama - positive polarity. Madevanhoka (cations) ane chaji yakaterama anokwezverwa kudimbamuteru rine hugonga hwakapokama - negative polarity.
Kurerutsa Mutauro[chinja | edit source]
Zvakanaka kuti tipe mashoko anorerutsa kuzotaura zvidzidzo izvi tichipfuurira mberi.
- Oxygen can be obtained by electrolysis of water - pakuturikira toti Oxygen inowanikwa paRugetsenuro rwemvura.
- Electrolyte yokuturikirwa ichinzi getsenurwa.
- Electrowinning inenge yonzi kuita chikumanegetsi
- Electrorefining inenge yonzi runatsanegetsi; electrorefiner yonzi munatsanegetsi.
Tarisai chinyorwa chinonzi Nyere yaGalvani.


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Sunday, 26 August 2012
Kubvisa mimba (kubvisa pamuviri)
Vakadzi vakawanda munyika dzakawanda vanobvisa mimba dzavo pasina kana rizheni ine musoro. Pano toda kutaura nenyaya iyi kuti tihwisise kuti inofamba sei. Ngatitange nokubvumirana kuti mumimba mune mwana. Mwana munhu mudiki hake asi munhu ane zvese zvatinazvo kungotiwo imba yake yaanogara udumbu ramai vake. Ukabvisa mimba unomuuraya asati atomboziva kuti ndiwe mai vake. Hachisi chinhu chokungoita pasina chimwe chinhu chikuru chakuitisa kudaro. Dai varume vachihwisisa nyaya yokubvisa mimba dai mimba dzinobviswa dziri shomanana. Vana vanourawa vasati vazvagwa vakawanda kupfuura vanhu vose vakafa muhondo dzose dzakaiti mupasi rese nguva dzese kubva pakasikwa denga nenyika. Vakawanda, zvikuru muUSA ne EUROPE ne Africa.
Mimba inobviswa nani?
Vakadzi vakawanda vemazera akawanda vanoufumi hwakasiyana siyana, vakadzidza zvakasiyanasiyana vanozviita. Idambudziko revakadzi vese kukumbanidza vanopinda chechi nevasingapindi chechi. Kune vakahwisisa kuti mwana kana ari mudumbu mwana chaiye anenge ari munhu ndivo vanotambudzika nenyaya yokubvisa mimba.
Kozoita vamwe vanoudzwa kuti mwana kana ari mudumbu i FETUS kureva kuti chimwewo chinhu chichazoita mwana kana chazvagwa. Ava havanetseki nokubvisa nokuti mimba haasi mwana.
Ndiwo mapoka maviri evakadzi vanobvisa mimba zvokuti vakawanda vanoti mwana vanobvisa imwe chete vomira asi avo vamwe vanokwanisa kubvisa dzakawanda.
Asi vashoma vakadzi vane varume vanovada vanobvisa mimba. Murume/mukomana wako akamira newe kuti shuwa mimba ndeyake uye anotofarawo nazvo kuti waita mimba, fungwa dzokubvisa hadzitomboiti mumusoro momukadzi akadai. Kubvisa mimba iDESPERATE ACT yokushaya zvimwe zvokuita paitika nyaya yokurambwa nomurume nokuti mukadzi ava nemimba.
Inobviswa yakura zvakadii?
Mimba kana wada kubvisa zviri nani kuibvisa iri diki sokuti pasi pemwedzi mitatu.
Mimba inobva yega.
Pane mimba dzinongobva dzega. Kazhinji kana foroma yemuchibereko ikaona kuti mwana wayagadzira akaremara zvakanyaya inomira kuumba mwana yomudzinga muchibereko nokuti yatadza kugadzira mwana weQuality yainoda. Mimba inobva nomutowo uyu inohi SPONTANEOUS ABORTION, kureva kuti zvinongoitika zvega pasina iwe muridzi zvawaita.
Kana ikabva yati kurei inohi Miscarriage. Kusiyana kwe SPONTANEOUS ne MISSCARRY inongova nguva chete.
Zvinofungigwa kuti mimba dzinobva nomutowo uyu dzakawanda chose uye dzinobva dzisati dzambopedza mwedzi kana umwe chete zvokuti mukadzi haambozivi kuti ange ane mimba. Zvinoitigwa kuti vana vanozvagwa vange vasina kuremara. Chibereko chinoziva kana mwana ane zvimwe zvakaremara paari zvingaitisa kuti asagona kuita upenyu hwemunhu. Saka apa chibereko ndicho chinenge chakanganisa basa.
Kozoitazve dzimwe mimba dzinokura chibereko chisingaoni kuremara kwemwana asi vekuhosipitari vovheneka vokuudza kuti bvisa. Kana ukabvumirana navo wobvisa vamwe vanoramba kubvisa.
Koitazve kuti mimba inokura asi mwana woshaikira mudumbu. Ukaenda kuhosipitari vanokuudza kuti mwana haana HEART BEAT saka akatoshaika, vanokupa mushonga wekuti uzvare mwana. Zvinogwadza moyo kuzvara mwana ashaikira mudumbu zvokuti mukadzi anowanza kupiwa Counselling. Pamwe vese nomurume wake. Hazvizikamwi kuti chinokonzera mwana kushaikira mudumbu chii.
Mimba inobviswa Mukadzi asingadi kuti ibviswe.
Zvinokwanisika kuti kana mukadzi ane mimba poitika chimwe chinhu chinoita mimba ibve. Zvakawanda zvinhu zvakadai.
Accident yemota/bhazi/chitima kana zvimwe inokwanisa kubvisa mimba kana kukonzera mimba kuti mwana azvagwe nguva isina kukwana.
Kurobwa nomurume kunobvisa mimba dzakawanda. Varume vanorova vakadzi havahwisisi nyaya yokuti ane mimba. Mukadzi anokwanisa kurakashwa nomurume otsikwa dumbu mimba yobva.
Kubatwa chibharo nomurume wako kana noumwe murume zvinokwanisa kukutyisa zvokubvisa mimba.
Mimba Yokubviswa Inobviswa sei?
Maitire ekubvisa mimba akasiyana siyana. Kune vanobika mushonga vomwa. Mushonga uyu unokwanisa kuuraya mai nomwana vose. Ukaudzwa nomunhu wemuraini kuti mimba inobviswa sei usaterera nokuti unokwanisa kufawo iwe. Pamwe unogwara asi wozoita zviri nani mimba yako uchingova nayo. Pandaiva kuZimbabwe ndakabvunza vakadzi vanopfuura 200 kuti mimba dzinobviswa sei vakandiudza zvimwe zvinhu zvinotyisa kunyora pano. Handidi kuti pawanikwe musikana umwe chete hake anozvizama saka handisi kuzvitaura pano. Asi kungoti maitire okuita mumusha anokwanisa kukuuraya. Zviri nani uende kumadhokotera kana waita mufungo wekubvisa mimba. Asi kusabvisa ndiyo OPTION yakanaka paupenyu hwako.
Ukaenda kumadhokotera anobvisa mimba, kana iri diki vanokubaya jekiseni vokupinnza muromo we VACUUM CLEANER muchitubu kusvika kuchibereko voisa magetsi, Vacuum iya yokweva mwana sezvinoitwa marara mumba, mwana obva muchibereko oenda muVACUUM Cleaner, nyaya yatopera. Pamwe vanotanga vauraya mwana achiri muchibereko vozoisa VACUUM CLeaner. Asi kazhinji vanokudza muromo wechibereko, voisa chubhu ine zvimapanga zvinopinza kumuromo kwayo chubhu yacho. Vadaro vokonekita chubhu yacho ku VACUUM CLEANER iri kuno kuzhe voisa magetsi. Chimwana chinenge chiri chidiki uye chisina mabhonzo saka chinokweviwa chochekwachekwa zvidimbu zvomuviri zvopinda muchubhu iya zvopedzisira zvava muVACUUM CLEANER iya.
Pane vamwe vakadzi vaviri vakambouya kubasa kwedu vakatiratidza vidhiyo yacho. Ndinofunga kuti munhu wese anoda kubvisa mimba dai atanga aiona vidhiyo iyoyo kuti anyatse kuhwisisa kuti zvinoitwa sei. Varume vese vanoudza vasikana vavo kuti vaende kunobvisa mimba vanofanirawo kuona kuti zvinoitwa sei. VERY EDUCATIONAL.
Unofanira kuzodzokazve kuti vatarise kuti hapana chakasara here muchibereko. Kana zvirimo vanozvigeza nePROCEDURE inohi D&C.
Kana mimba yakura vanokupa mushonga wozvara mwana sezvinongoita vanozvara vana vapenyu. Mwana wako anozvagwa ari mupenyu asi nguva yake isati yakwana, vokuchipatara vomuisa muchitawero chemapepa vomirira kusvika afa voendesa ku Incinerator kunopisa. Mai vake vanenge vasipo paanopiswa vanenge vatoenda kumba kwavo.
Paunopedza kubviswa mimba unokwanisa kumboti garei muchipatara sokuti 4-5 hours, vokutarisa kuti hausi kubuda ropa here, vokuti chienda kumba. Zvapera.
Unokwanisa kubuda ropa rakawanda zvokuti vanokuchengeta muchipatara kusvika zvapera.
Zvakaipei kubvisa mimba?
Pane nyaya dzakawanda apa dzimwe dzacho ndichadzinyora pano kuitira vaya vanofunga kubvisa mimba. Chinoitika kuzvipatara uko ndechokuti vanongoterera zvaunoda kuita voita. Havana basa nokuti uri ani kana kuti upenyu hwako huchafamba sei.
Unokwanisa kuzoita imwe mimba here?
Ukamirira nguva yakakwana unotangazve kukandira mazai mwedzi umwe noumwe uchienda kumwedzi zvokuti ukavatazve nomurume usina mapiritsi kana kondhomu, unoitazve imwe mimba. Mimba hachisi chinhu chinonetsa vakawanda kuita. chinongonetsa injere dzokuziva kuti zemo rine simba kupfuura musoro saka zviri nani kusazviisa panzvimbo yakaoma yokuti uku uri kuona chombo chimire chinoda kubatsigwa newe, uku iwe bhurugwa hauna, uku kondhomu pauviri hwenyu hamuna.
Kana uchiziva kuti zvokuiswa unozvida asi murume hauna, gara une makondomu ako muhandbag mako kuti ukasangana nomurume aunoda kurhojana naye, kana asina kondhomu, iwe unaro. Moisana henyu makasununguka pachihure chenyu.
Varume panyaya yekubvisa mimba.
Chinhu chinobvisisa mimba dzakawanda panyika munyika dzese iATIITUDE yemurume anenge akonzeresa mimba yacho. Varume vakawanda vanoti ukamuudza kuti kunakigwa kwedu kwataiita mwedzi wese wakapera kwandiitisa mimba, anobva atosvetuka pamubhedha paange agara kuti mutange kurhojana, chiya chombo changa chatomira kuti muite choti fototo, iye otanga kukupopotera sokuti wange uchizvirhoja nguva yese iyi. Ipapo achitaura kudaro imba yese haina kana kondhomu rimwe chete asi ange ava kutokumisira chombo kuti arhoje, Bhurugwa hauchina ipapo, asi ari kukupopotera kuti sei waita mimba nourume hwandanga ndichikudira muchitubu mako. Iwe ukada kumutaurira kuti urume hunoitisa mimba ndosaka ndaita mimba, wotoonekwa sokuti uri kutaura nhema. Pamwe wotodigwa mbama kuti hauzivi BIOLOGY yevanhu.
Varume havadi kukasira kusapota mukadzi aita mimba yake. Unohwa oti handisi READY asi ipapo mukadzi aita mimba asiri READY futi. Murume anoti enda unobvisa mimba. Kana uchida kuziva kuti mukomana wako anokuda zvakadii, mukavatana kwemwedzi miviri umwe musi wakamirira kuenda kumwedzi mutumire TEXT yokuti une mimba. Ndipo paunoona ma TRUE COLOURS ake. Vakawanda havanonoki kukuudza kuti enda unobvisa uye usatsika kumba kwake futi. Asi vhiki yamakatanga kuvatana iye ega akakuudza kuti ukaita mimba anokuroora. Nhasi mimba yavapo ava kuti haachakudi.
Varume vanokonzeresa mimba dzakawanda kubviswa nevasikana nokuda kwechihure kana kusada kubvuma mimba yawaisa munhu mese musiri READY asi mese musingadi kumirira kuwana mapiritsi kana kuti kupfeka kondhomu. Mese menge mashaya njere pakadai asi musikana anozosara nemimba oga murume apoya akaenda.
Varume vanodaro nokuti kurhoja vanokuda chose asi RESPONSIBILITY havadi. Isuwo vakadzi tava nefungwa yokuti Ndikasavhura makumbo ndinorambwa. Ipapo murume haatodi kuti musikana wake waanoti MArriage Material avhure makumbo kufanana nevaya vaanoti havasi Marriage material. Murume anenge achida kuti akarhoja vasikana vakawanda, ava kuda kuroora otsvaka mhandara oroora oipa chigwere.
Kubvisa mimba murume asingazivi:
Mazuvano echihure kune vakadzi vakawanda chose vanobvisa mimba murume asingatombozivi kuti mukadzi aita mimba. Toti wahura ukaita mimba murume achishanda kuBULAWAYO kana kune imwe nyika iwe musha uri kuKwekwe. Zvinoita chiose kuti ubvise mimba murume akasamboziva kuti wange une mimba. Uyawo murume akupa mimba, iwe mumoyo mako unoziva kuti haanei newe pamoyo. Munhuwo aunongoshandisa kunakigwa naye murume wako chaiye asipo. Munhu ae utsinye hwekukwanisa kuhura munhu anokwanisazve kubvisa mimba. Mudzimba umu mune vakawanda vakabvisa mimba dzevarume vasiri vabo vemumba, zvokuti hapana kana anotomboziva kuti mimba yabviswa.
Zvinoonekwa zviri nani kubvisa mimba pane kuichengeta worambwa nomurume wako nenyaya yokuhura. Ipapo murume wako ari kukuramba ane vanawo muraini, uye kune miba dzakewo dzakabviswa muraini. Saka zvinozoonekwa sokuti chakaipa kubuda pachena kuti wahura, saka ukabvisa EVIDENCE yese haurambwi.
Vamwe vanongoti akabata mimba, murume ari JONI, okasira kunovhakasha Joni kuya kuti murume akwanise kurhoja agodzoka oti ane mimba yomurume kuti zvisazonetsa mberi uko.
Vakadzi
Kozotiwo vakadzi vanongojaira kubvisa mimba. MuEurope vakawanda vanhu vakadai nokuti hazvinetsi kubvisa mimba.Varume vanenge vavapa mimba havatombozivi kuti akaita mimba kana kuti akabvisa.
Kazhinji mukadzi wacho anenge asingatombozivi kuti ndeyani nokuti vanhu vanovata nevarume vakawanda. MaZimbo akadai ariko asi iminority.
Kubvisa mimba inyaya yedu isu vakadzi, hamakadzi dzedu, vanunguna vedu. Tisu tinofanira kugaroudza vachiri kunyengwa kuti dambudziko remimba rinodzivirigwa sei. Kana musikana amboravira chombo, zvinonetsa kumuudza kuti asavata nemukomana wake, asi ngaakasire kuuya nomukomana wake pamusha mhuri yake imuzive kuitira kuti pakaita mimba tese tikasire kusapota mwana padambudziko rake. Kana achida kudzokera kuchikoro mupei mukana wacho kwete kudzinga mwana pamba kumuendesa kumukomana asingamudi. Zvinobatsira ani izvozvo. Handisi kuti haisi mhosva asi kuti ongororai SITUATION yamuri kuisa mwana wenyu. Kubvisa mimba kunobaya moyo wemunhu wacho anobvisa zvese neshamwari dzake, hama dzake, etc. Hazvisi nyore.
Kuti azobvisa mimba anenge ashaya zvimwe zvokuita. Achingobvisa mimba mukomana uya wamupa mimba anomuramba futi. Haisi situation inogadzirika. Ndakambobvunza umwe kuti sei uchiramba musikana zvikahi nokuti akauraya mwana wangu asi ndiye aiti mimba haisi yake. Ndiye akamudhiraivha akaenda naye kuhosipitari yokubviswa mimba. Vadzoka, aona kuti mimba yaenda ava kuti haachamudi nokuti akauraya mwana wake. Varume vakawanda kukwana chaiko havana kukwana.
Iwewo musikana hwisisa kuti kuiswa urume kunoitisa mimba. Kana ukaona mukomana wako achikupa puresha yokuti uvhure makumbo, muudze kuti zviri nani kuratidzwa kumhuri dzenyu kudanana kwenyu koita public. Kana achizviramba ziva kuti ane umwe musikaka ava kuzikamwa kwavo saka iwe chisiyana naye utsvake umwe akasvinura.
Chinoita kuti avate newe asi achiramba kuti muudze vabereki venyu ndechokuti haafungi kuti uri MARRIAGE MATERIAL. Anongofunga kuti uri hure zvaro rokungorhoja nokupiwa mari yebhazi kuti udzokere kwawabva kwacho.
Mai vemusikana.
Vanamaivo kurudzirai vanasikana venyu kuva pedo nemoyo wamai uye kusununguka kutaura namai vake. Mwana asati aita chinhu chikuru sokuvhurira mukomana, ngaahwe akasununguka kubvunza mai vake kuti anoziva sei kuti nguva yakwana. Mai vanogarisa mwana pasi votsanangura zvese mafambire azvo. Kana uchiona kuti zvinokunetsa kutaurira mwana, tanga musi waanotanga kuenda kumwedzi, zvadaro iwe mai chichengeta mazuva emwana ekumwedzi kuti akakasirisa kana kunonoka unge uchiziva kuti ndizvo zvaaita, Uchiwana mukana wekutsanangura kuti musikaa akura zvokuenda kumwedzi anokwanisa kuita mimba saka asati avata nomukomana ngaakubvunze kuti anofanira kuita sei kuti asaita mimba.
Hwisisaizve kuti zemo rine simba kupfuura zvimwe zvese zvinoitika mumuviri wemunhu. Iwe kana wakatadza kumirira musi wemuchato, usafunga kuti mwana wako ane zvinomugonesa kumirira. Kuudza mwana kuti asavata nomukomana hakurevi chinhu. Anongoti uku hana iri kurova nokutya uku ari kuiswa nomukomana achitochemererawo sezvawakaita iwe musi wekutanga uri musikana. Chikuru kuti mwana namai vagare moyo yavo iri pedo napedo vachiudzana mashoko anovaka upenyu.
Kune vaya vasina varume, maitire ako pamusha wako vevana vako makuru kupfuura mashoko aunoudza vana vako. Kana uchigarounza varume pamusha vana vachizviona, usafunga kuti vana vachaita zvakasiyana naizvozvo. Kuda kwaunoita iwe chombo ndizvo zvimwe chetezvo zvinoita vana vako. Kupopota hakuna chakununza.
UDZAI VAMWE!!!!
Kubvisa nhumbu
Arbotion
Mimba inobviswa nani?
Vakadzi vakawanda vemazera akawanda vanoufumi hwakasiyana siyana, vakadzidza zvakasiyanasiyana vanozviita. Idambudziko revakadzi vese kukumbanidza vanopinda chechi nevasingapindi chechi. Kune vakahwisisa kuti mwana kana ari mudumbu mwana chaiye anenge ari munhu ndivo vanotambudzika nenyaya yokubvisa mimba.
Kozoita vamwe vanoudzwa kuti mwana kana ari mudumbu i FETUS kureva kuti chimwewo chinhu chichazoita mwana kana chazvagwa. Ava havanetseki nokubvisa nokuti mimba haasi mwana.
Ndiwo mapoka maviri evakadzi vanobvisa mimba zvokuti vakawanda vanoti mwana vanobvisa imwe chete vomira asi avo vamwe vanokwanisa kubvisa dzakawanda.
Asi vashoma vakadzi vane varume vanovada vanobvisa mimba. Murume/mukomana wako akamira newe kuti shuwa mimba ndeyake uye anotofarawo nazvo kuti waita mimba, fungwa dzokubvisa hadzitomboiti mumusoro momukadzi akadai. Kubvisa mimba iDESPERATE ACT yokushaya zvimwe zvokuita paitika nyaya yokurambwa nomurume nokuti mukadzi ava nemimba.
Inobviswa yakura zvakadii?
Mimba kana wada kubvisa zviri nani kuibvisa iri diki sokuti pasi pemwedzi mitatu.
Mimba inobva yega.
Pane mimba dzinongobva dzega. Kazhinji kana foroma yemuchibereko ikaona kuti mwana wayagadzira akaremara zvakanyaya inomira kuumba mwana yomudzinga muchibereko nokuti yatadza kugadzira mwana weQuality yainoda. Mimba inobva nomutowo uyu inohi SPONTANEOUS ABORTION, kureva kuti zvinongoitika zvega pasina iwe muridzi zvawaita.
Kana ikabva yati kurei inohi Miscarriage. Kusiyana kwe SPONTANEOUS ne MISSCARRY inongova nguva chete.
Zvinofungigwa kuti mimba dzinobva nomutowo uyu dzakawanda chose uye dzinobva dzisati dzambopedza mwedzi kana umwe chete zvokuti mukadzi haambozivi kuti ange ane mimba. Zvinoitigwa kuti vana vanozvagwa vange vasina kuremara. Chibereko chinoziva kana mwana ane zvimwe zvakaremara paari zvingaitisa kuti asagona kuita upenyu hwemunhu. Saka apa chibereko ndicho chinenge chakanganisa basa.
Kozoitazve dzimwe mimba dzinokura chibereko chisingaoni kuremara kwemwana asi vekuhosipitari vovheneka vokuudza kuti bvisa. Kana ukabvumirana navo wobvisa vamwe vanoramba kubvisa.
Koitazve kuti mimba inokura asi mwana woshaikira mudumbu. Ukaenda kuhosipitari vanokuudza kuti mwana haana HEART BEAT saka akatoshaika, vanokupa mushonga wekuti uzvare mwana. Zvinogwadza moyo kuzvara mwana ashaikira mudumbu zvokuti mukadzi anowanza kupiwa Counselling. Pamwe vese nomurume wake. Hazvizikamwi kuti chinokonzera mwana kushaikira mudumbu chii.
Mimba inobviswa Mukadzi asingadi kuti ibviswe.
Zvinokwanisika kuti kana mukadzi ane mimba poitika chimwe chinhu chinoita mimba ibve. Zvakawanda zvinhu zvakadai.
Accident yemota/bhazi/chitima kana zvimwe inokwanisa kubvisa mimba kana kukonzera mimba kuti mwana azvagwe nguva isina kukwana.
Kurobwa nomurume kunobvisa mimba dzakawanda. Varume vanorova vakadzi havahwisisi nyaya yokuti ane mimba. Mukadzi anokwanisa kurakashwa nomurume otsikwa dumbu mimba yobva.
Kubatwa chibharo nomurume wako kana noumwe murume zvinokwanisa kukutyisa zvokubvisa mimba.
Mimba Yokubviswa Inobviswa sei?
Maitire ekubvisa mimba akasiyana siyana. Kune vanobika mushonga vomwa. Mushonga uyu unokwanisa kuuraya mai nomwana vose. Ukaudzwa nomunhu wemuraini kuti mimba inobviswa sei usaterera nokuti unokwanisa kufawo iwe. Pamwe unogwara asi wozoita zviri nani mimba yako uchingova nayo. Pandaiva kuZimbabwe ndakabvunza vakadzi vanopfuura 200 kuti mimba dzinobviswa sei vakandiudza zvimwe zvinhu zvinotyisa kunyora pano. Handidi kuti pawanikwe musikana umwe chete hake anozvizama saka handisi kuzvitaura pano. Asi kungoti maitire okuita mumusha anokwanisa kukuuraya. Zviri nani uende kumadhokotera kana waita mufungo wekubvisa mimba. Asi kusabvisa ndiyo OPTION yakanaka paupenyu hwako.
Ukaenda kumadhokotera anobvisa mimba, kana iri diki vanokubaya jekiseni vokupinnza muromo we VACUUM CLEANER muchitubu kusvika kuchibereko voisa magetsi, Vacuum iya yokweva mwana sezvinoitwa marara mumba, mwana obva muchibereko oenda muVACUUM Cleaner, nyaya yatopera. Pamwe vanotanga vauraya mwana achiri muchibereko vozoisa VACUUM CLeaner. Asi kazhinji vanokudza muromo wechibereko, voisa chubhu ine zvimapanga zvinopinza kumuromo kwayo chubhu yacho. Vadaro vokonekita chubhu yacho ku VACUUM CLEANER iri kuno kuzhe voisa magetsi. Chimwana chinenge chiri chidiki uye chisina mabhonzo saka chinokweviwa chochekwachekwa zvidimbu zvomuviri zvopinda muchubhu iya zvopedzisira zvava muVACUUM CLEANER iya.
Pane vamwe vakadzi vaviri vakambouya kubasa kwedu vakatiratidza vidhiyo yacho. Ndinofunga kuti munhu wese anoda kubvisa mimba dai atanga aiona vidhiyo iyoyo kuti anyatse kuhwisisa kuti zvinoitwa sei. Varume vese vanoudza vasikana vavo kuti vaende kunobvisa mimba vanofanirawo kuona kuti zvinoitwa sei. VERY EDUCATIONAL.
Unofanira kuzodzokazve kuti vatarise kuti hapana chakasara here muchibereko. Kana zvirimo vanozvigeza nePROCEDURE inohi D&C.
Kana mimba yakura vanokupa mushonga wozvara mwana sezvinongoita vanozvara vana vapenyu. Mwana wako anozvagwa ari mupenyu asi nguva yake isati yakwana, vokuchipatara vomuisa muchitawero chemapepa vomirira kusvika afa voendesa ku Incinerator kunopisa. Mai vake vanenge vasipo paanopiswa vanenge vatoenda kumba kwavo.
Paunopedza kubviswa mimba unokwanisa kumboti garei muchipatara sokuti 4-5 hours, vokutarisa kuti hausi kubuda ropa here, vokuti chienda kumba. Zvapera.
Unokwanisa kubuda ropa rakawanda zvokuti vanokuchengeta muchipatara kusvika zvapera.
Zvakaipei kubvisa mimba?
Pane nyaya dzakawanda apa dzimwe dzacho ndichadzinyora pano kuitira vaya vanofunga kubvisa mimba. Chinoitika kuzvipatara uko ndechokuti vanongoterera zvaunoda kuita voita. Havana basa nokuti uri ani kana kuti upenyu hwako huchafamba sei.
Unokwanisa kuzoita imwe mimba here?
Ukamirira nguva yakakwana unotangazve kukandira mazai mwedzi umwe noumwe uchienda kumwedzi zvokuti ukavatazve nomurume usina mapiritsi kana kondhomu, unoitazve imwe mimba. Mimba hachisi chinhu chinonetsa vakawanda kuita. chinongonetsa injere dzokuziva kuti zemo rine simba kupfuura musoro saka zviri nani kusazviisa panzvimbo yakaoma yokuti uku uri kuona chombo chimire chinoda kubatsigwa newe, uku iwe bhurugwa hauna, uku kondhomu pauviri hwenyu hamuna.
Kana uchiziva kuti zvokuiswa unozvida asi murume hauna, gara une makondomu ako muhandbag mako kuti ukasangana nomurume aunoda kurhojana naye, kana asina kondhomu, iwe unaro. Moisana henyu makasununguka pachihure chenyu.
Varume panyaya yekubvisa mimba.
Chinhu chinobvisisa mimba dzakawanda panyika munyika dzese iATIITUDE yemurume anenge akonzeresa mimba yacho. Varume vakawanda vanoti ukamuudza kuti kunakigwa kwedu kwataiita mwedzi wese wakapera kwandiitisa mimba, anobva atosvetuka pamubhedha paange agara kuti mutange kurhojana, chiya chombo changa chatomira kuti muite choti fototo, iye otanga kukupopotera sokuti wange uchizvirhoja nguva yese iyi. Ipapo achitaura kudaro imba yese haina kana kondhomu rimwe chete asi ange ava kutokumisira chombo kuti arhoje, Bhurugwa hauchina ipapo, asi ari kukupopotera kuti sei waita mimba nourume hwandanga ndichikudira muchitubu mako. Iwe ukada kumutaurira kuti urume hunoitisa mimba ndosaka ndaita mimba, wotoonekwa sokuti uri kutaura nhema. Pamwe wotodigwa mbama kuti hauzivi BIOLOGY yevanhu.
Varume havadi kukasira kusapota mukadzi aita mimba yake. Unohwa oti handisi READY asi ipapo mukadzi aita mimba asiri READY futi. Murume anoti enda unobvisa mimba. Kana uchida kuziva kuti mukomana wako anokuda zvakadii, mukavatana kwemwedzi miviri umwe musi wakamirira kuenda kumwedzi mutumire TEXT yokuti une mimba. Ndipo paunoona ma TRUE COLOURS ake. Vakawanda havanonoki kukuudza kuti enda unobvisa uye usatsika kumba kwake futi. Asi vhiki yamakatanga kuvatana iye ega akakuudza kuti ukaita mimba anokuroora. Nhasi mimba yavapo ava kuti haachakudi.
Varume vanokonzeresa mimba dzakawanda kubviswa nevasikana nokuda kwechihure kana kusada kubvuma mimba yawaisa munhu mese musiri READY asi mese musingadi kumirira kuwana mapiritsi kana kuti kupfeka kondhomu. Mese menge mashaya njere pakadai asi musikana anozosara nemimba oga murume apoya akaenda.
Varume vanodaro nokuti kurhoja vanokuda chose asi RESPONSIBILITY havadi. Isuwo vakadzi tava nefungwa yokuti Ndikasavhura makumbo ndinorambwa. Ipapo murume haatodi kuti musikana wake waanoti MArriage Material avhure makumbo kufanana nevaya vaanoti havasi Marriage material. Murume anenge achida kuti akarhoja vasikana vakawanda, ava kuda kuroora otsvaka mhandara oroora oipa chigwere.
Kubvisa mimba murume asingazivi:
Mazuvano echihure kune vakadzi vakawanda chose vanobvisa mimba murume asingatombozivi kuti mukadzi aita mimba. Toti wahura ukaita mimba murume achishanda kuBULAWAYO kana kune imwe nyika iwe musha uri kuKwekwe. Zvinoita chiose kuti ubvise mimba murume akasamboziva kuti wange une mimba. Uyawo murume akupa mimba, iwe mumoyo mako unoziva kuti haanei newe pamoyo. Munhuwo aunongoshandisa kunakigwa naye murume wako chaiye asipo. Munhu ae utsinye hwekukwanisa kuhura munhu anokwanisazve kubvisa mimba. Mudzimba umu mune vakawanda vakabvisa mimba dzevarume vasiri vabo vemumba, zvokuti hapana kana anotomboziva kuti mimba yabviswa.
Zvinoonekwa zviri nani kubvisa mimba pane kuichengeta worambwa nomurume wako nenyaya yokuhura. Ipapo murume wako ari kukuramba ane vanawo muraini, uye kune miba dzakewo dzakabviswa muraini. Saka zvinozoonekwa sokuti chakaipa kubuda pachena kuti wahura, saka ukabvisa EVIDENCE yese haurambwi.
Vamwe vanongoti akabata mimba, murume ari JONI, okasira kunovhakasha Joni kuya kuti murume akwanise kurhoja agodzoka oti ane mimba yomurume kuti zvisazonetsa mberi uko.
Vakadzi
Kozotiwo vakadzi vanongojaira kubvisa mimba. MuEurope vakawanda vanhu vakadai nokuti hazvinetsi kubvisa mimba.Varume vanenge vavapa mimba havatombozivi kuti akaita mimba kana kuti akabvisa.
Kazhinji mukadzi wacho anenge asingatombozivi kuti ndeyani nokuti vanhu vanovata nevarume vakawanda. MaZimbo akadai ariko asi iminority.
Kubvisa mimba inyaya yedu isu vakadzi, hamakadzi dzedu, vanunguna vedu. Tisu tinofanira kugaroudza vachiri kunyengwa kuti dambudziko remimba rinodzivirigwa sei. Kana musikana amboravira chombo, zvinonetsa kumuudza kuti asavata nemukomana wake, asi ngaakasire kuuya nomukomana wake pamusha mhuri yake imuzive kuitira kuti pakaita mimba tese tikasire kusapota mwana padambudziko rake. Kana achida kudzokera kuchikoro mupei mukana wacho kwete kudzinga mwana pamba kumuendesa kumukomana asingamudi. Zvinobatsira ani izvozvo. Handisi kuti haisi mhosva asi kuti ongororai SITUATION yamuri kuisa mwana wenyu. Kubvisa mimba kunobaya moyo wemunhu wacho anobvisa zvese neshamwari dzake, hama dzake, etc. Hazvisi nyore.
Kuti azobvisa mimba anenge ashaya zvimwe zvokuita. Achingobvisa mimba mukomana uya wamupa mimba anomuramba futi. Haisi situation inogadzirika. Ndakambobvunza umwe kuti sei uchiramba musikana zvikahi nokuti akauraya mwana wangu asi ndiye aiti mimba haisi yake. Ndiye akamudhiraivha akaenda naye kuhosipitari yokubviswa mimba. Vadzoka, aona kuti mimba yaenda ava kuti haachamudi nokuti akauraya mwana wake. Varume vakawanda kukwana chaiko havana kukwana.
Iwewo musikana hwisisa kuti kuiswa urume kunoitisa mimba. Kana ukaona mukomana wako achikupa puresha yokuti uvhure makumbo, muudze kuti zviri nani kuratidzwa kumhuri dzenyu kudanana kwenyu koita public. Kana achizviramba ziva kuti ane umwe musikaka ava kuzikamwa kwavo saka iwe chisiyana naye utsvake umwe akasvinura.
Chinoita kuti avate newe asi achiramba kuti muudze vabereki venyu ndechokuti haafungi kuti uri MARRIAGE MATERIAL. Anongofunga kuti uri hure zvaro rokungorhoja nokupiwa mari yebhazi kuti udzokere kwawabva kwacho.
Mai vemusikana.
Vanamaivo kurudzirai vanasikana venyu kuva pedo nemoyo wamai uye kusununguka kutaura namai vake. Mwana asati aita chinhu chikuru sokuvhurira mukomana, ngaahwe akasununguka kubvunza mai vake kuti anoziva sei kuti nguva yakwana. Mai vanogarisa mwana pasi votsanangura zvese mafambire azvo. Kana uchiona kuti zvinokunetsa kutaurira mwana, tanga musi waanotanga kuenda kumwedzi, zvadaro iwe mai chichengeta mazuva emwana ekumwedzi kuti akakasirisa kana kunonoka unge uchiziva kuti ndizvo zvaaita, Uchiwana mukana wekutsanangura kuti musikaa akura zvokuenda kumwedzi anokwanisa kuita mimba saka asati avata nomukomana ngaakubvunze kuti anofanira kuita sei kuti asaita mimba.
Hwisisaizve kuti zemo rine simba kupfuura zvimwe zvese zvinoitika mumuviri wemunhu. Iwe kana wakatadza kumirira musi wemuchato, usafunga kuti mwana wako ane zvinomugonesa kumirira. Kuudza mwana kuti asavata nomukomana hakurevi chinhu. Anongoti uku hana iri kurova nokutya uku ari kuiswa nomukomana achitochemererawo sezvawakaita iwe musi wekutanga uri musikana. Chikuru kuti mwana namai vagare moyo yavo iri pedo napedo vachiudzana mashoko anovaka upenyu.
Kune vaya vasina varume, maitire ako pamusha wako vevana vako makuru kupfuura mashoko aunoudza vana vako. Kana uchigarounza varume pamusha vana vachizviona, usafunga kuti vana vachaita zvakasiyana naizvozvo. Kuda kwaunoita iwe chombo ndizvo zvimwe chetezvo zvinoita vana vako. Kupopota hakuna chakununza.
UDZAI VAMWE!!!!
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Posted by Mai E Chibwe at 07:25
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