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Impamvu z’umunaniro ukabije, umubano utameze neza mu rugo, uburwayi , kwiheba ni bimwe mu bituma hari ubwo umwe mu bashakanye atakaza ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Uyu munsi turagaruka ku bagore ndetse n’ibyo umugabo yakora igihe umugore yisanze atagishaka icyo gikorwa cyo gutera akabariro
Urubuga elcrema rwanditse ko hari ibintu umugabo ashobora gukorera umugore we utagishaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina kugira ngo asohoke muri icyo gihe arimo, aho kurakara cyangwa ngo atangire abigire inzitwazo zo kumuca inyuma.
1. Mufashe kuva mu munaniro ukabije
Umunaniro ukabije ni kimwe mu bintu bya mbere byirukana ubushake bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Kandi ikikwereka ko ari mubi ni uko iyo uwukize usanga aribyo bintu wishimira gukora kurenza ibindi.
Umunaniro ukabije ukwambura imbaraga zose z’umubiri ndetse ukananiza imisemburo yose ituma wumva ushaka imibonano mpuzabitsina.
Kugira ngo nk’umuntu w’umugabo ugarure umugore wawe mu murongo wo kumva ashaka imibonano ugomba kumufasha kuva muri uwo munaniro uba umubereye umutwaro.
Niba ari akazi kagoye mufashe kukagabanya cyangwa kukareka, mukorere ’massage’ yumve ingingo ze zitaboshye, ibyo bizatuma imitsi itangira gukora neza maze umubiri we utangire kwirekura.Ibyo bizatuma agaruka mu murongo mwiza wo gushaka kubaka urugo.
2. Mufashe kumva yishimiye umubiri we
Iyo umubiri w’umugore wahindutse yumva adatekanye cyane cyane nka nyuma yo kubyara.
Icyo gihe ubushake buragabanuka kuko aba yumva atakimeze nka mbere kandi ibi ni ibintu usanga bibaho cyane ku babyeyi b’abagore.
Icyo uba ugomba kumufasha nk’umugabo ni ukumwereka ko agiteye neza ndetse ari we mugore mwiza ubona ku Isi.
Igihe umugore wawe abona ko kuba yarahindutse mu miterere ye ntacyo bigutwaye ugakomeza kumukunda no kumwitaho nka mbere na we bizatuma adatinya cyangwa ngo yange kukwifungurira mu gihe cyo gutera akabariro.
3. Ntukihugireho mu mibonano mpuzabitsina
Nk’umugabo ntabwo ugomba kwishimisha wenyine mu mibonano mpuzabitsina, uba ugomba no gushimisha umugore wawe akagira isomo asigarana.
Igiye wita ku mugore wawe ukabanza kumutegura, ukihangana kugeza nawe ashatse icyo gikorwa bizajya bituma arushaho kugushaka, yifuze bya bihe mwagiranye .Ibyo bizatuma ataba muri bamwe bumva batakibishaka.
4. Gerageza kubaka umubano wanyu
Igihe umubano utifashe neza n’ubushake bwo gutera akabariro buba ari ntabwo.Ugomba kuba inshuti n’umugore wawe atari igihe ukeneye icyo gikorwa gusa ahubwo akaba inshuti yawe magara.Mugomba kuganira, mugaseka ukamutega amatwi, ukamubera aho atari.
Iyo abashakanye babanye neza ntabwo ubushake bwo gutera akabariro bwabura kandi bombi bari inshuti.
5. Tegura ibihe bihoraho byo kwishimana
Ugomba guteganya ibihe bihoraho ukishimana n’umugore wawe, uba ugomba gukora uko ushoboye akumva yishimiye ubuzima kandi ntabwo uba ugomba kubihagarika.
Uko wamukoreraga mbere mutarabana uba ugomba kubikomeza nibwo na we atazumva ahararutswe igikorwa nyamakuru kibahuza.
Nubwo izina nama atari kamara hari n’ubundi buryo wakoresha ukirinda iki kibazo mu rugo rwawe, urubuga elcrema rugaragaza ko igihe ibi bihe twakwita ko ari iby’umwijima mu muryango bicyemutse, uba ugomba kubyibagirwa ntibibe incyuro kuko iyo ubigaruye n’ubundi ubuzima bwo gutera akabarriro bwongera bukaba bubi.
Ubutaha tuzababwira icyo abagore bakora igihe umugabo ari we utagishaka gutera akabariro.


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Kuwagatanu, 13 Ukwacyira 2017 23:39:49 +0200
Nyagasani YEZU yaje ababaye cyane, ari mu urumuri rwinshi cyane ntabona icyo ndugereranya narwo nuko aranyitegereza aransuhuza ati: Uraho mwana wanjye ukomeje kwihanganira ibigeragezo byose uhura nabyo. Nti uraho Papa. Mwana wanjye umeze ute? Papa meze neza gahoro nawe urabibona, imibabaro ikomeje kuba myinshi mu mubiri wanjye, umubiri wanjye wose urababara.
Byishimo mwana wanjye ihangane, wihanganire byose nakubwiye, kuko ntacyo utazi, narabikubwiye, umubyeyi wanjye nawe arabikubwira, rero ntacyo utazi. Ububabare ufite ni ubw’abantu benshi bakomeje gukorerwa hirya no hino kuri ino si, cyane cyane muri kino gihugu cyanyu cy’u Rwanda urimo guhongerera. Wikwinuba rero mwana wanjye kuko ibyo byose warabibwiwe.
Ese mwana wanjye uribuka umunsi ujugunya imbago, uribuka amagambo nakubwiye ngo ugende uvuga, ngo nakize, urabyibuka, igihe rero cyo kuyazirikana kirageze, kirujujwe hasigaye akantu ka akadomo ngo byose byuzuzwe. Erega mwana wanjye naragutoye njye n’umubyeyi wanjye ntiwantoye, kandi ijambo ryanjye ntirihera.
Mwana wanjye reba imyaka tumaranye nkwiyeretse njye n’umubyeyi wanjye imyaka 17, ariko si iyo gusa ahubwo nakwiyeretse mbere ntubivuge, ubivuga ubanje gukubitwa umunyafu. Nkwereka abantu benshi bambaye amaroza ngo nawe niho ugiye kuba uruhukira, kugirango wige iryo shuri, warahageze ntacyo utazi, wavugiyeyo ijambo ryanjye n’umubyeyi wanjye.
Erega ndi ku kwibutsa ibyo nakubwiye, wagiyeyo nta cyaha wakoze ahubwo ari ukugirango uvuge ijambo ryanjye, nakubwiye ko uko winjiye ariko uzasohoka niko byagenze, wararwanyijwe bihagije, ariko kugeza uyu munsi uwabyumvishe akaba akibizirikana arebe aho ibintu bigeze, arambure amaso hirya no hino akanure maze ashishoze.
Nababwiye ko iyi si ari ikibuga nabaharuriye ngo mukidagaduremo ariko uko kwidagadura kwanyu ntaho gushingiye kuko mugeze mu bihe bikomeye bana banjye.
Bana banjye uyu munsi nje kubasuhuza, nje ndi umwami w’isi n’ijuru, nje kubabwira ibya mbere n’ibya nyuma kuko ibyo nababwiye byose ni imfabusa kandi ndababaye cyane. Bana banjye nabatumyeho intumwa n’abahanuzi mbatumaho umubyeyi wanjye nanjye ubwange ndiyizira ariko mwanze kumva muravuga ngo biriya se ni ibiki, ariko uyu munsi naje nje, mureke ibyo nababwiye byose bisohore, byose byuzuzwe, bibuzurizweho.
Ikimbabaje cyane ni abana banjye bari gufungirwa ubusa b’inzirakarengane, benshi bari kwicwa benshi bakomeje guhunga igihugu ari mwe bazira mwebwe bayobozi bakuru abandi bakomeje kwamburwa imitungo kubera igitugu; ibyo se murabigira ibyanyu, muzabitunga? Ntabyo muzatunga mubimenye.
Bana banjye nababwiye intambara hirya no hino mbabwirako intambara nyinshi ko ziri mu mitima yanyu, mbabwira ko ibihugu n’ibihugu bigiye gusubiranamo niko bimeze.
Kugeza ubu nababwiye ko aka gahugu ku Rwanda nkicayemo njye n’umubyeyi wanjye, isukurwa rero rya tuno duhugu duto rigiye guhera muri kano gahugu, kandi ryaratangiye mubimenye, kandi amahoro agiye guhera muri kano gahugu.
Nababwiye inzara, mbabwira intambara hirya no hino, mbabwira imyuzure, mbabwira inkangu, mbabwira ubwicanyi hirya no hino mu gihugu cyanyu kandi muri kubibona, mbabwira ko bakuru na barumuna babo bagiye gusubiranamo byose muri kubibona ntacyo mutari kureba mu menye rero ko ibyo nababwiye byose ntacyo mutari kureba hasigaye akadomo, ufite amaso narebe.
Umujyi ugiye gusigara waka umuriro, nababwiye ko nta buye rizasigara rigeretse ku rindi, bana banjye kugeza ubu nongere mbabwiye, nababwiye ko imvura y’amahindu igiye kubanyagira, kandi nabibabwiye kenshi, murumve namwe iyo mvura iyo ariyo. Kugeza uyu munsi n’uwumvishe nawe arahindukira akibaza ati ese koko bizaba ryari, birahari byaratangiye mubimenye.
Bana banjye b’abanyarwanda nimwe mbwira, kuko tuno duhugu mwegeranye turabugarije kuko ntabuhungiro mufite muragoswe, ndabibibwiriye bana banjye, uwumva yumve ntacyo azireguza imbere yanjye.
Nabasabye guca bugufi muranga murananira, mbasaba gutanga imbabazi muranga, none mureke ibyo twavuze byose bisohore bibuzurizweho. Nawe kandi mwana wanjye ugira ubwoba bwo gutanga ubutumwa njye n’umubyeyi wanjye tuguhaye, buvuge buvuge kuko iyo utabutanze hari benshi uba wishe kandi baba bakeneye ijambo ryanjye n’umubyeyi wanjye, jya ubivuga nkuko mbiguhaye kuko iyo nkuvugiramo nuko nakugize micro yanjye ntabwo aba ari wowe uri kuvuga nitwe twivugira naho ubundi uri nkabandi, gusa nuko iyo ngabire twayiguhaye.
Mwana wanjye bwirira abana banjye bose ari abo muri kumwe hano muri kino gihugu n’abari hanze aho batataniye uti abanyumva ni mumfukamire rimwe muri uku kwezi kw’umubyeyi wanjye muvuge rozari cyane musabira igihugu cyanyu n’isi yose musaba amahoro kuko ntayo mufite, kugira ngo hazagire nibura urokoka muri bino bihe bibi bibugarije, cyane cyane muri kino gihugu cyanyu cy’u Rwanda.
Nongere mbibasubiriremo bakuru na barumuna bagiye gusubiranamo,nabivuze niba mutabyumvishe mwongere mubyumve kugirango musubize amaso inyuma murebe uko bimeze,kandi birahari. Bana banjye ndabibabwiye uyu munsi kuri iyi tariki, muri uku kwezi kwa mama wanjye musabe cyane. Rero ngo mundusha ubwenge ra , ntawe ubundusha ninjye ubutanga, kuko ibikorerwa kw’isi byose ndabibona mutangira kubikora nabibonye. Ngiye kuyungurura uwakoze neza ahembwe uwakoze nabi ahanwe.
Izi ntebe muzicayemo ariko si izanyu, bana banjye ndabaha ariko ntimuzi gushimira, ngo mwibuke uwabahaye uwo ari we, bana banjye nababwiye byinshi kuko ubu butumwa busa n’ubwanyuma ariko nsigaje kubabwira rimwe gusa, ngaho bansezerereho ngaho mugire amahoro, mugire amahoro, mugire amahoro.Ku izina ry’Imana Data na Mwana na Roho Mutagatifu.
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Munyakazi avuga ko umuntu wagiye mu Itorero agahabwa amasomo arimo no gukunda igihugu aba ameze nk’umwenda wari ufite ikizinga ariko ukaza kumeswa ugacya.
Aya magambo yayagarutseho kuwa 9 Mutarama 2017, mu muhango wo guha izina ry’ubutore n’icyivugo abarimu bo mu mashuri abanza n’ayisumbuye bamaze iminsi itanu mu Itorero. Abaryitabiriye bahawe izina ry’Indemyabigwi.
Yagaragaje ko iyo umuntu agiye mu Itorero ahakura ubumenyi bwinshi ku buryo agaruka yarabaye mushya yaba mu mikorere n’imigirire ye.
Yagize ati “Ubundi gutoza ni uguhindura imyitwarire; ku buryo umuntu wari ku karubanda akora ibikorwa bitandukanye birimo gucaracara no kutagira icyerekezo iyo ajyanywe mu itorero biba bimeze nko kumesa umwenda wanduye.”
Yakomeje atangaza ko kuba abarimu baragiye mu Itorero bizatuma nta n’umwe ushobora kuzongera kugaragarwaho ingeso mbi zirimo gukopeza ibizami n’ibindi.
Umuyobozi w’Akarere ka Nyarugenge, Kayisime Nzaramba we yavuze ko iri Torero rizazana impinduka mu mashuri ndetse rinazamure ireme ry’uburezi.
Yagize ati “Ibi biradufasha kuzamura ireme ry’uburezi cyane ko hari abarimu batabishyiragamo imbaraga, bizatuma baba ku isonga mu kubaka igihugu cyane ko umurezi ari we shingiro ry’ahazaza hacyo.”
Umwarimu witwa Mukahirwa Florence na we yabwiye IGIHE ko amasomo bahawe azabafasha kuzamura imitsindire y’abanyeshuri bigisha.
Yagize ati “Kubera ibintu bitandukanye twagiye twigishwa birimo gukunda igihugu n’ibindi, mfite icyizere cy’uko bizadufasha kuzamura imitsindire y’abanyeshuri twigisha bitandukanye no mu myaka ishize.”
Abarimu bo mu mashuri abanza n’ayisumbuye ya Leta n’ayigenga bagera ku 1098 bo mu Karere ka Nyarugenge ni bo bitabiriye iri Torero mu gihe mu gihugu hose bagera ku bihumbi 73.288.
Biteganyijwe ko iri Torero rizarangira ku wa Kane tariki 12 Ukuboza 2017.


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Umuyobozi w’Inama nkuru y’amashuri makuru na za kaminuza (HEC), Dr Innocent Mugisha, yasabye abanyeshuri barangiza, kujyana ku isoko ry’umurimo ubumenyi bafite, atari ukurata impamyabushobozi.
Mu itangwa ry’impamyabushobozi z’abarangije muri Kaminuza y’Ubukerarugendo, Ikoranabuhanga n’ubucuruzi (UTB), kuri uyu wa Kane, ni bwo Dr Mugisha yabagiriye inama yo gukoresha ubumenyi n’ubushobozi bakuye ku ntebe y’ishuri.
Yagize ati“Ntimuzagende mucuruza amagambo muvuga ngo mwize ibi, ahubwo muzerekane icyo mushoboye gukora.”
Dr Mugisha yanasabye ko icyo Minisiteri y’Uburezi yifuza kuri UTB, ari ugukomeza kuzamura agaciro k’amasomo bigisha ku ishuri ry’umurimo, bakora ubushakashatsi bw’ibikenewe.
Uretse kaminuza , n’abarangije yaberetse ko ntaho baragera, ko ahubwo impamyabumenyi bahawe igomba kubatera inyota yo gukomeza kwiga, bagenda biyungura ubundi bumenyi bushya muri iki gihe hariho umuvuduko w’iterambere ku isi.
Utazabikora, yamugaragaje nk’uzatakara, ati “Uzakomeza abarira amahirwe ye ahaza ku byo amaze kwiga ubu, buzajya gucya yibagiwe kwiyorosa.”
Byongeye, UTB yabasabye kuziyubaha, baba bikorera cyangwa bakoreshwa.
UTB igaragaza ko abarangije bagize umwanya uhagije wo kwimenyere muri serivise z’imirimo ibategereje ku isoko, bamwe banatangiye gukora bakiri ku ntebe y’ishuri.
Ineza Edissa urangije mu by’ubukererugendo, yabwiye Izuba Rirashe ko nta bwoba batewe n’isoko ry’umurimo kuba babura akazi, ko bimenyereje igihe bagira ubumenyi bukenewe na benshi.
Yagize ati “Mu bukerarugendo, cyane baragafite, urebye ku isoko ry’umurimo banateye imbere. Hari n’abageraho bakiri bato, bigatuma babona akazi hakiri kare.”
Ineza yavuze ko igihe kinini bamara mu kwimenyera , byatumye amenya uburyo bwo gufata umukiriya uwo ari we wese, mu muco w’igihugu cye.
Yagize ati “Buriya mu Rwanda tugira umuco wacu twiyumvamo kandi mwiza, ariko hari umunyamahanga twigeze guhura arantungura, hariho igihe umusekera, akagira ngo hari icyo umushakaho, cyangwa nk’urugero nk’abarabu babona utambaye nkabo agashaka kugusuzugura, ariko namenyaga uburyo mugarura ukanamukundisha umuco w’aho agusanze.”
Zulfat Mukarubega washinze iyi kaminuza iri kugenda yaguka uko umwaka utashye, we yasabye abarangije guharanira gutanga serivise nziza aho bazerekeza, kuko biri mu biraje inshinga u Rwanda.
Yagize ati “Icyo muzirikana ni uko urugamba mugiye kurwana no gutanga serivise nziza, ari na yo nenge tugifite. Ni mwe basirikare noneho mugiye guhindura serivise uko itari imeze neza , ahubwo tukaba , nimujya ku mirimo hazagaragare ko baba bandi basura u Rwanda, biyongereye kandi bakirwa neza.”
Mukarubega yavuze ko ibyo yizeye ko bizagerwaho, kuko ibyo Umunywarwanda yiyemeje abigeraho , kandi neza.
Perezida Kagame arashimirwa
Hagati aho, Mukarubega uri kubona iterambere rya kaminuza ye, n’u Rwanda muri rusange, by’umwihariko yashimiye Perezida Paul Kagame, kuba yaremeye ibyifuzo by’Abanyarwanda bagaragaje muri Referundum kuziyamamaza mu 2017.
Yagaragaje ko agaciro Umukuru w’Igihugu ahesha igihugu, ari wo musingi w’iterambere, ari ko ariko katumye uburezi bushoboka, abana bakaba baniga baharanira kwihangira imirimo, biga amashuri y’ubumenyingiro.
Byongeye, n’igitsinagore kikaba kitacyitinya, ndetse mu barangije haragaragayemo umubare munini w’abatsinze neza kurusha abagabo.
Abarangije muri UTB, ku isoko ry’umurimo berekeza mu masosiyete y’iby’ubukerarugendo, nk’amahoteli, mu byerekeye serivise z’ingendo z’indege, n’ahandi hatandukanye.
Mu barangije muri iyi kaminuza, habonekamo n’abashinzwe amasosiyete yabo, atanga akazi kuri benshi.
UTB ifite amashami abiri, i Kigali n’I Rubavu. Yigwamo n’Abanyarwanda n’abaturuka mu bihugu by’abaturanyi nka Repuburika Iharanira Demukarasi ya Congo, u Burundi, Uganda.


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Kuri iyi si dutuye hagenda havugwa ibintu bitandukanye biba bitangaje cyangwa wumva ukumva bisa nk’ibikanganye. Uyu munsi turabagezaho imiterere y’ababa muri gereza ya mbere mbi kandi itinyitse ku Isi doreko n’abarinzi bayo badashobora kwinjiramo
Kuri iyi si dutuye hagenda havugwa ibintu bitandukanye biba bitangaje cyangwa wumva ukumva bisa nk’ibikanganye. Uyu munsi turabagezaho imiterere y’ababa muri gereza ya mbere mbi kandi itinyitse ku Isi doreko n’abarinzi bayo badashobora kwinjiramo
Penas ciuda barrios ni imwe mu magereza arangwamo ubugome bukabije ku Isi bishingiye ahanini kubaba bahafungiwe n’ibyaha baba barakoze. Iyi gereza iherereye mu gihugu cya El Salvador abayifungiyemo bose usanga umubiri wabo wuzuyeho ibishushanyo n’amagambo(Tatto) akenshi bivuga amateka y’ibyaha bikomeye baba barakoze ndetse no mu cyubahiro cy’abo babikoreye. Abafungiwe muri iyi gereza usanga ahanini ri abacuruzi bakomeye b’ibiyobyabwenge,abicanyi kabuhariwe ndetse n’abacuruza intwaro muburyo butemewe.
Ahagana mu wa 1992 mu kwezi kwa Nzeli iyi gereza yakiriye umubare munini w’abicanyi nyuma y’intambara yari imaze kuba muri icyo gihugu ibi bituma irushaho kuba gereza irangwamo ubugome budasanzwe ndetse bigatuma yewe n’abarinzi badashobora kwinjiramo imbere kabone niyo haba habayemo ikibazo runaka . Ingabo z’igihugu ziba ziryamiye amajanja hanze y’iyo gereza ziteguye guhangana n’ikibazo icyo aricyo cyose gishobora gutezwa n’abahafungiye.
Mu mwaka wa 2013 nibwo gafotozi w’umwongereza Adam Hinton yahawe amahirwe akabash kwinjira muri iyi gereza akanafata amafoto y’abahafungiwe. Uyu mugabo nyuma yo kuva muri iyo gereza yatanze ubutumwa avuga ko abagabo bayifungiyemo akurikije ibyo yabonye ku mibiri yabo ari abagabo badafite na kimwe batinya ahubwo barangajwe imbere no kwica ndetse no gukora ibindi bikorwa bigayitse. Turacyegeranya andi makuru y’iyi gereza
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