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Isomo rya mbere : Intangiriro : 12,1-4a. Isomo rya Kabiri : 2Timoteyo : 1,8b-10. Ivanjiri Ntagatifu : Matayo : 17,1-9. Mutagatifu : Benedigito
Ibanga ryo guca bugufi no kwitanga mu gisibo ni ukwiyibagirwa maze ugaharanira ineza n’ihirwe ry’abagukikije cyane cyane uhereye ku bababaye kurusha abandi.
Uhoraho yabwiye Aburahamu kwimuka akava mu gihugu cye n’umuryango we kugira ngo ajye mu gihugu yari agiye kumwereka ariko akaba atari akizi ibi binavuga ko yashoboraga kugira ingingmira no gushidikanya ku byari bigiye kumubaho.
Imana yamusezeranije ko izamuha umugisha kandi ko izamugira ihanga rikomeye n’urubyaro rwe rukazahabwa umugisha n’izina rye rikazaba irinyamugisha. Uhoraho yabwiye Aburahamu ko abazamuvuga neza izabaha umugisha naho abazamutuka izabavuma. Aburahamu, Bibiliya itubwira ko yari ageze mu kigero cy’imyaka 75 y’amavuko ntiyigeze yinangira umutima yashyize nzira aragenda.
Mu isomo rya kabiri, mu ibaruwa ya kabiri Pawulo Mutagatifu yandikiye Timoteyo; amateka atwereka ko Pawulo yayimwandikiye nyuma y’imyaka itatu amwandikiye ibaruwa ya mbere inayibanziriza ku rutonde rw’ibitabo biri muri Bibiliya Ntagatifu / Yera.
Mu gihe Pawulo yandikaga iyi baruwa ubuzima bwari bwarahindutse kuko yari imfungwa muri Gereza i Roma akaba yaramwandikiye asa n’umuha amabwiriza ya kibyeyi kuko yamukundaga cyane. Muri iyi nyigisho y’uyu munsi aradushishikariza kudacogora mu byo twemera. Aranatugira inama yo kutazahirahira ngo tugire isoni zo guhamya umwami wacu Yezu n’ibyo twamwigiyeho byose.
Mu Ivanjiri Ntagatifu yanditswe na Matayo wanabaye umusoresha igihe kinini arya za ruswa akanahuguza abaturage abasaba ibirenze ibyo amategeko y’abanyaroma yateganyaga nyuma akaza gukurikira Yezu, kuri iki cyumweru aradutekerereza inkuru y’ukuntu Yezu yihinduye ukundi.
Yezu yagiye mu mpinga y’umusozi ari kumwe n’abigishwa be batatu aribo Petero, Yakobo na Yohani ahita yihindura ukundi mu maso yabo bakaba barabaye abahamya-mboni b’icyo gitangaza cyabakorewe imbere izuba riva.
Petero wakunze kujya arangwa no guhubagurika no kuvugaguzwa rimwe na rimwe akaba na bavugirije kubera kurengwa no kunezezwa by’agatangaza n’ibyo yabonaga biba kuri shebuja Yezu yahise atanguranwa aramubwira ati : « Nyagasani Kwibera hano nta ko bisa. Niba ubishaka ngiye kuhaca ibiraro bitatu kimwe cyawe (Yezu) ikindi cya Musa n’icya Eliya».
Iyi mvugo ya Petero irimo isomo rikomeye abanyarwanda bakwiye kuzirikana mri iyi minsi kuko kuba ataravuze ibiraro 4 ngo ashyiremo n’icye cyangwa ntavuge bitatu harimo n’cye, ni gihamya ko yari yamaze gusogongera ku ibanga ryo guca bugufi no kwitangira abandi. Ibi Petero akaba yarabyiyumvisemo kubera urukundo yakundaga Yezu no kuba yarayobotse inyigisho ze.
Petero kandi agaragara nk’umuntu wakurikiye Yezu akeka ko ari ibisanzwe nyuma yamara kwinjiramo neza akaza kubona ibinezeza by’ingoma y’ijuru bimurenze ndetse akanabura uko abivuga. Petero kandi muri urwo rugendo rujya mu Ijuru yanahuriyemo n’ibigeragezo bikomeye nabyo atari yiteze kuko yisanze yihakanye 3 uwamurokoye ibyaha n’umuriro maze Yezu yamukebuka kubera urukundo yamukundaga Petero agaturika akarira yibutse ko yari yaramubwiye ko azamukurikira aho azajya hose kugeza ku gupfa kwe.
Mwibuke ko Yezu warebaga ibihishwe yamusubije ko ingunzu zigira amasenga, inyoni zikagira ibyari nyamara umwana w’umuntu akaba atagira aho arambika umusaya bisobanuye ko rubanda rwita ku bidafite agaciro nk’ingunzu nyamara ntibazirikane igikwiye ariryo herezo rya muntu n’icyo yaremewe.
Mu gihe Petero yari akibaza ibyo ntiyigeze abona cyangwa ngo yumve icyo Yezu abitekerezaho kuko hahise haza igicu cyiramukingiriza hamanukamo serwakira mu ijwi rituje rigira riti : «Uyu ni umwana wanjye nkunda cyane kandi nkamwishimira mujye mumwubaha».
Ubwo bari bacyumva ayo magambo bikubise hasi Yezu arabakomanga agira ngo abahumurize kandi abategeka kubaduka BAGASHIKAMA. Ibi bikaba byarabaye kuko Musa na Eliya babonekeye Yezu bafite igisobanuro bihariye mu mateka y’iyobokamana.
Musa afatwa nk’umuntu Imana yanyujijeho amategeko yahaye abisirayeri naho Eliya we abonwa nk’uruta abandi bahanuzi. Bombi rero bakaba bari baje kuri uwo musozi gushimira Yezu wazanywe no kuzuza ibyo batangiye no gushinga itegeko rishya.
Turirimbe : R/ Ibyo dutunze byose ni ibyawe Nyagasaniiii dushimishijwe no kugutura Yeeeezu gitambo cy’ukuuri . 1. Man’ihoraho duh’urukundo rukunda bose ni wowe watwiremeyeeeee,…. R/Ibyo dutunze byose n’ibyawe Nyagasaniiii dushimishijwe no kugutura Yeeezu Gitambo cy’ukuuri
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Ibi byagaragaye mu gihe hashize igihe bamwe mu borozi bo muri kano Karere bakomeje gushinjwa gushyira amazi mu mata bagemurira amakusanyirizo.
Iki kibazo cyakomeje kuba uruhererekane kuko aborozi na bo bikomaga abitwa ‘Abacunda’ kuko ari bo bashyikiriza amata yabo nyuma na bo bakayageza ku makusanyirizo.
Inkomoko y’aya mazi yaje kumenyekana ubwo Abacunda bahabwaga utwuma tubafasha gupima amata arimo amazi mbere yo kuyakira avuye ku mworozi ngo agezwe ku ikusanyirizo.
Kabera Andrew, umucunda mu Karere ka Gicumbi, aganira na IGIHE yavuze ko batarabona utwo twuma bahoranaga ibibazo n’aborozi.
Ati“ Mbere umworozi yatuzaniraga amata tukamwandikira ku gipande litiro aduhaye twayageza ku ikusanyirizo bakabonamo amazi, ubwo amata yose bakayadusubiza kuko twabaga twayavanze nyamara atari bose bayashyiramo amazi, aho utwuma tuziye byadufashije gupimira umworozi mbere yo kuyavanga, uwo dusanganye amazi tukayamusubiza.”
Nubwo hari hamaze kuboneka uburyo bwo gupima amata arimo amazi ariko byakomeje kuba urujijo mu borozi cyane ko aho byagaragaraga wasangaga bahakana bivuye inyuma ko nta mazi bashyira mu mata yabo.
Nshimiyimana Jean Baptiste, umworozi mu Murenge wa Rukomo muri Gicumbi avuga ko inkomoko y’iki kibazo yaje kumenyekana binyuze mu bana bagemura amata.
Yagize ati“ Abantu bakomeje kubiyoberwa ariko nyuma abana bakajya batubwira ko hari abagera mu nzira bakayanywa maze bakaza kuzurishaho amazi kugira ngo litiro bahawe n’iwabo zitagabanuka.Byaje kugaragara rero ko akenshi bikorwa n’abana bava mu ngo zikama amata yose akagemurwa badasigiye abana ayo kunywa.”
Kuba hari imiryango ikama ikagemura amata yose ntayo basigiye abana yo kunywa muri Gicumbi ni ikibazo cyakunze kugarukwaho n’abayobozi batandukanye ndetse bamwe bakanagihuza na bimwe mu bikomeje gutiza umurindi indwara zikomoka ku mirire mibi zikihagaragara cyane mu bana bari munsi y’imyaka itanu.
Depite Gatabazi Jean Marie Vianney ukunze kugenderera aka Karere cyane ko anagakomokamo, aherutse gusaba aborozi kureka gukunda amafaranga kurusha abana babo, aho yagarutse ku bagemura amata yose ntihagire ayo basiga mu rugo.
Yagize ati“ Birababaje kubona amata Gicumbi ifite ariko ukabona abana bakirwaye bwaki.Iyo naje ino aha nkubitana n’abana mu gitondo bikoreye amata bagemuye ariko noneho ninjya mpura na bo nzajya mpagarara mbicaze bayanywe.”
Mu gufatira umwanzuro iki kibazo ubuyobozi bw’Akarere ka Gicumbi bwashyizeho ibwiriza ry’uko nta mworozi wemerewe kugemura amata ari munsi ya litiro eshatu, ibi bikagenzurwa n’inzego z’ibanze hanarebwa niba aborozi mbere yo kugemura amata ku isoko babanza guha imiryango yabo.
Kugeza ubu imibare igaragaza ko aborozi bo muri Gicumbi ku munsi bagemura ku isoko amata asaga litiro ibihumbi mirongo itandatu na bitanu bamwe banemeza ko ariko karere ka mbere mu kugira amata menshi.
Nyamara Gicumbi iri mu turere twa mbere dufite umubare munini w’abana bafite imirire mibi.

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Umukunzi wacu uba i Rubavu,yatwandikiye agirango abasomyi ba Imirasire .com bamugire inama ku kibazo yahuye nacyo cyerekeye imiti y’ibyatsi yanyweye ngo ahaze umugore we mu gutera akabariro,aho gukira ahubwo igitsina gitangira kudigadiga.
Yagize ati”Nitwa Jean ariko andi mazina sindibuyavuge ku bw’umutekano wanjye.Mfite umugore n’abana bane ariko kudatera akabariro neza bigiye kunsenyera kandi ubusanzwe naritwaraga neza n’umugore wanjye akabinkundira.
Umugore wanjye akimara kubyara umwana wa kane natangiye kumva impinduka zidasanzwe mu mubiri,nagirango ngeze mu buriri nkahita ngona ntabanje kubaka urugo kandi nkanazinduka kare njya ku kazi.
Ibyo byabaye icyumweru cya mbere icyakabiri nkanyuzamo nka rimwe ariko nkahita nsohora vubi nkabona umugore bimuriye ahantu ariko ntavuge akagaragaza ibimenyetso ko atishimye.
Byaje gukomeza nagirango nteye akabariro nkahita nsohora ndetse nkanatinda kugira ubushake bwo kwiyongeza.Byararambiranye noneho aratobora ambaza uko byangendekeye maze ntangira kurya indimimi.
Yaje kungira inama yo kujya kwivuza maze ndabyemera,mperako niyambaza umugabo w’inshuti yanjye tujyana ku muvuzi gakondo ariko ntabwo yari azwi.
Twagezeyo ampa imiti ibiri umwe w’amazi n’undi w’agafu ambwira uko ndibuwunywe.Nageze mu rugo mbigenza uko yabimbwiye,maze umunsi w’ambere n’umva hiyongereyeho nk’umunota ndetse no ku munsi w’akabiri bigenda uko.
Natangiye gushimagiza uwo muvuzi ariko bidateye kabiri naje kwicuza icyanjyanyeyo.Ubusanzwe namaraga iminota ibiri ariko nyuma y’icyumweru ntangiye kwitwra neza byaje gusubira irudubi noneho natangira gukaresa umugore nkahita nsohora noneho hakiyongeraho ikindi kibazo cy’ingutu cy’uko iyo ngiye kwinjiza igitsina cyanjye mu cyumugore gitangira kudigadiga nticyibe cyafata umurego.
Natangiye gusubira inyuma ku buryo bugaragara noneho ntangira kwiheba icyakora madamu akampumuriza.Iyo nijajaye igitsina cyikabasha kwinjira madamu agasa n’uryohewe mpita nsohora akagira ati”Ese ubu koko nacumuye iki?”.
Nahagaritse ya miti burundu ntangira kwibaza ku kindi nakora.Ibi rero nibyo byanteye gutuma nifashisha imbuga zitandukanye harimo nuru rwa imirasire ngo bangire inama y’icyo nakora, kuko hari abahanga batandukanye bamfasha nkuko nkunze kubibona.
Mbifurije guhirwa mu byo mukora byose murakarama!


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Ubuyobozi bw’Akarere ka Ngoma burasaba abaturage kugira umuco wo guhunika umusaruro no kuzigama, mu rwego rwo guteganyiriza ibihe bibi biza bidateguje, no kurwanya ubukene.
Byumwihariko mu mudugudu wa Nyamugali, mu Kagari ka Nyagasozi, umurenge wa Mutendeli hari abagaragaza ko bamaze gutora umuco wo kwizigamira umusaruro wabo, aho no muri iki gihembwe bateganya guhunika toni zisaga 10 z’ibigori ku buryo bahamya ko batakigira ikibazo cyo kubura ibiribwa.
Mu mudugudu wa Nyamugali akagali ka Nyagasozi umuco wo guhunika bawumaranye nibura imyaka ibiri. Mu mwaka ushize wa 2017 uyu mudugudu wari wabashije guhunika toni zisaga icumi z’ibigori.
Umwe mu baturage bahunikira hano witwa Muhawenimana agira ati ”Bidufitiye akamaro kuko turahunika hanyuma tukazabikuramo hashize igihe runaka ugasanga bitugobotse mu gihe tuba dutangiye gusonza.”
Undi muturage avuga ko guhunika birwanya inzara.
Noheri Bonifasi umwanditsi w’ibihunikwa avuga ko guhunika mu mudugudu wa Nyamugali, mu Kagari ka Nyagasozi mu murenge wa Mutendeli bikorwa mu buryo bwiza kandi abaturage bishyiriyeho uburyo bwo gucunga umutekano w’umusaruro wabo.
Ibyahunitswe ubu babyimvikanyeho ko bazabihunukura mu mezi yo guhera mu kwa cyenda kugeza mu kwa 11 kuyu mwaka wa 2018.
Umuyobozi w’akarere ka Ngoma wungirije ushinzwe Ubukungu, Rwiririza Jean Marie Vianney avuga ko aba baturage bo bumvise vuba umuco wo guhunika agakangurira n’abandi kubakurikiza.
Ati ”Uyu mudugudu byabaye umuco ariko turabikangurira n’abo mu yindi midugudu kugira ngo babikurikize kuko ni umuco mwiza, kuko umusaruro warabonetse mwiza turabakangurira rero ko batawumarira ku isoko wose.”
Hirya no hino mu bice by’imirenge 14 igize akarere ka Ngoma abaturage bagaragaza ko muri rusange umusaruro babonye mu gihembwe cy’ihinga gishize wabaye mwiza, ubuyobozi bukabakangurira kwirinda ko wazabapfira ubusa.
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MR JOSEPH PART 7
niba urasomye PART 6 wayisoma hano hasi
https://dusabane.wordpress.com/2017/01/28/mr-joseph-part-6/
Aho twagarukiye ubushize!
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gusuka sinzi ukuntu nibeshye mba nsutse nabi kameneka kubirenge by’ uwo mukobwa ngiye kumva numva Jacob ankubise ugishyi mumutwe mpita ngwa hasi bitewe nuko nari nunamye ndetse ndebye neza mbona nkomye phone y’umukobwa igwa hasi iramenagurika..
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part 7
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nahise numva numva ubwoba bunyishe ntangira gutoragura uduce duce twa phone, murabizi namwe ibiphone byibi sreen touch iyo bimenaguritse,gusa nagiye kumva numva imigeri myinshi kukibuno no mu mbavu, Jacob yafashe hasi hejuru ankubita ntako atagize,ubwo nanjye narindi hasi nsakuza naka imbabazi nti: mbabarira mbabarira Jacob rwose nanjye sinabishakaga…….. nkomeza gutaka ariko nkabona umusore ntava kwizima ahubwo ararushaho guhondagura,birumvikana iyo umusore ashaka kwiyemera kunkumi.
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Jacob yarakubise ngezaho ndazimenyera ndetse no gutaka sinabyongera gusa kubona mbona wa mukobwa arahagutse afata Jacob munda aramukurura ati: have have ariko shr! Ubwo se ntiwabona umwishe kandi phone urimo kumuziza umuntu yazabona indi! Jacob: oya shr!njye nanga abajinga nkaba kabsa! Ubwo se ntiyabonaga ko phone iteretse kumeza!?
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Umukobwa: hhhum! Nonese wibagiwe ko ariwowe wamukubise ugatuma ayikoma!? Jacob: reka nagende! Imbwa nkiy…….atarakomeza,umukobwa ahita amubaza ati: ese ubundi twinjira hano ntiwambwiye ko ari mukuru wawe!? Jacob nawe ati: yego nimukuru wanjye ariko yifata nkikigoryi ntamumutwe hazima agira! Umukobwa:yeeeeh! Sha jaco! Burya uri umwana mubi! Ubwo se nigute waharabika mukuru wawe bigeze aha! Jacob: reka nawe ajye amenya ko……..atararangiza twumva mama arimo guhamagara ndetse bisankaho arimo kuza aho twari turi, ntakindi nakoze nahise mpaguruka ndiruka nsubira mugikari ntangira kwigira nkaho ntacyabaye kuko mama we iyo abimemenya byari kuba bibi kurushaho!
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Nkiri muribyo mbona gasore aje angina, aho narindimo gukaraba mu maso ahita ambwira ati: ariko se sha jose! Nanjye nti: iki se gaso!? Gasore ati: washatse uburyo ucika hano hantu,ukajya gushaka ubundi buzima ko mbona hatakoroheye! Ubwo nanjye nahise mpindukira ngiye kumusubiza ijambo rihera mukanwa ahubwo dnkanura amaso! Gasore abonye mbaye gutyo biramucanga,akebutse abona mama ahagaze inyuma ye ndetse yumvise ukuntu yanyoshyaga gutoroka nkagenda!
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Ubwo murabyumva namwe icyahise gikurikira, gasore bahise bamucishaho ndetse bamutegeka guhita agenda ako kanya.ubwo njye na mama twasigaye turebana ntawe uvuga gusanjye ubwoba bwari bugiye kumpitana kuko numvaga agiye kumbwira ikijambo gikarishye gusa sinjye warose akase agasubira inyuma.
Ntakindi nakoze nahise njya kureba gasore aho yarimo azinga utuntu twe ngo yerekere,gusa nahageze nsanga arimo kwiririmbira izabasaza ariko njye amarira yari yose kuko ntiyumvishaga uburyo ngiye gutandukana n’umuntu wingenzi nka gasore! Nakomeje kurira,gasore araza aranyegera amfata kumatama andeba mu maso, ngiye kumva numva arambwiye ati: niko se jose! Nanjye nti:karame, ndakumva! Gasore arongera ati: urashaka kumva ibyo nkubwira!?
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Njye: yego ndabishaka! Gasore ati: umva rero joseph! Ntuzigere wizera aba wita ababyeyi bawe na rimwe na rizima,kandi ubu umaze kuba umugabo ugomba kujya ugisha umutimanama wawe inama! Njye: ndabyumva….! Gasore: kandi ubungubu nicyo gihe ngo umenye aho uturuka,kuko njye maze kubona ko udaturuka muruyu muryango! Uranyumva sha!!? Nanjye nti: yego ndakumva rwose pe! Gasore: kandi ntuzagire umuntu ubwira ibyawe uretse claude wenyine ,ahubwo nuko mbona nawe yatinze sinzi ko aribukire mabuja!
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Njye: ibyo ndabyumva kandi nzabikora! Gasore: sawa ubwo njye reka mve hano, imana nibishaka tuzongera tubonane!ariko uramenye ntugire ahujya kuko uhavuye ntiwazamenya iyo waturutse kandi uzakomeze wiyoroshye nk’ibisanzwe!
Gasore yahise yigendera nanjye nsigara aho nabuze icyo nkora ahubwo ishavu n’agahinda aribyo bindi hafi , gusa hashize akanya mbona claude araje ndetse murebye neza mbona mumaso he harijimye ndetse ameze nkuwahoze arira, niko guhita mubaza nti: niko se clau!ko mbona usa umukara,wahuye na gasore!? Claude ati: sha wahoraniki jose! Turahuye gusa njye byananiye kubyakira ndetse ndumva nanjye ngiye kwigendera!
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Njye: yeeeeh!hoya weeee! Utambwira ko nawe ugiye kunsiga aha hantu! Claude: haha! Humura rata, ese shahu nagenda nkarya iki kandi uziko umusore wanjye agiye no gutangira ishuri! Birumvikana Chantal yari yarabyaye!
Njye:eeeh!ahubwo! uzi ukuntu warunteye ubwoba!? Claude: hahahaha! Ese ubwo wumvaga nagusiga!ahubwo byaruta tukajyana twembi! Njye: hahaha! Sha ubwo nyine ntakundi nukubyakira niko byaje! Ahubwo se claud! Ko watinze ubwo mama ntaribukwirenze!? Nawe ati: eeeeh! Ahubwo se ntiyigeze ambaza!? Njye: sha, wapi ntiyakubajije,ariko se ko atajya abura uko yiyenza!
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Claude: ahubwo se shahu siwowe wantindije, ko unyibukije! Njye: haha! Njye se nanjyanye nawe, cyangwa aho uvuye baguhaye agahiye sha! Claude: wapi sha!ahubwo mbwira neza ukuntu usigaye ukundana n’amukobwa mwiza nkuriya! Njye: yeeeh! Hahaa! Mn ngwino nkujyane kuryama kuko ndumva usa nkuwankweye nyinshi!
Claude yahise ampuha umwuka numva ntuvangiye,ahita ambwira ati: urumva se nuka inzoga wa muswa we!?njye: sha wapi kabsa, gusa ibyo urimo kuvuga,ubanza wasaze! Claude: hahaha! Ariko uri feke shahu!gusa uriya mwana ni mwiza kabsa, njye nashimye rwose!
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Njye: ariko se mn! Ubwo njye urabona nabona umwanya winkundo koko…! Keretse nimba ari ugukunda igikoni!nawe ati: yeeeh! Ariko se jose! Utambeshye koko uriya mukobwa ntimukundana!? Njye: hhhum! Ariko se ubundi, umukobwa urimo kuvuga wagize ngo ndamuzi!nonese we yakubw………… ntarakomeza ahita ampa agapapuro ndebye nsanga kanditseho nimero ya telephone,mpita nikangamo ndamubaza nti:yeeeh! Niko se izi nimero bite byazo!?
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Claude: dore,nahuye numukobwa mwiza cyane,atangira kumbaza byinshi kuri wowe ariko nanga kugira icyo mutangariza kuko nzi ko ubyanga! Gusa ntumbaze aho yakuye izina ryawe! Njye: nonese nyine byaje kugenda bite!? Claude nawe ati: hhum! Nyine yabonye ntacyo ndimo kumumarira ahita ampa izo nimero ngo nze kuziguha ushake uburyo uzihamagara bitarenze uyu munsi!
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Njye: yeeeh! Nonese ko ubizi nawe, urumva nabona uburyo nasohoka mururu rupangu sha clau!? Nawe ati: eeeh! Sha nabonye arumuntu ufatika wasanga hari icyo yakumarira! Njye: none nabigira nte!? Claude: njye reka nkungure inama, reka tuze gutunganya ibyo kumugoroba hakiri kare, maze nibirangira uze guhita ucika nanjye ndasigara ngucungira ariko upfa kugaruka kare!
Njye: ariko uziko aribyo mn! Ndabikora gutyo kuko ningera hanze sindabura umuntu untiza phone nzihamagare! Claude: sha! Arko uziko nari nanze kwemera ko mutaziranye mn jose! Njye: hahahaah!ariko se ko buri gihe tuba turi kumwe,wumvaga namenyanira hehe nuwo mukobwa!?
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Claude:hahaha! Wowe gira ujye kumureba uzaba umbwira ibyavuyemo gusa upfa kudatinda cyane ngo utume mabuja anyirenza! Njye: ntacyo mn! Ahubwo ntiza za bodaboda zawe nshya abe arizo njyana kugira ngo ntaza guseba!
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Abakoresha Instagram nabo bazihasanga kuri willy grouch
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.JOSEPH SE NINDE AGIYE GUHURA NAWE!!
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NTUCIKWE PART PART 8…LOADING…


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Inkuru yo kwegura k’umuyobozi w’akarere ka Rusizi imenyekanye muri iki gitondo ku Cyumweru cyo ku wa 13 Gicurasi 2018.
Meya wa Rusizi Harerimana Frederic yandikiye Inama Njyanama y’Akarere ka Rusizi ko yeguye ku mpamvu ze bwite.
Aganira n’umunyamakuru wa City Radio, uyu muyobozi agize ati ”Neguye ku mpamvu zanjye bwite, ntakibazo kigaragara mu karere nyobora, abaturage banjye bameze neza, muri make nta kibazo gihari”.
Abajijwe ku magambo umukuru w’igihugu yavuze ko nta muyobozi wegura ku mpamvu ze bwite ko ahubwo aba yananiwe bakamuhagarika, Meya Harelimana avuze ko mu mpamvu bwite harimo ibintu byinshi n’ubwo atashatse kubisobanura.
Meya Harelimana yeguye
Uyu muyobozi mu minsi yashize akaba yaravuzwe cyane mu itangazamakuru ubwo yabuzaga abaturage kuzajya batanga amakuru avuga ko abanyamakuru ntacyo bamarira abaturage.
Meya Harelimana yeguye nyuma y’umunsi umwe gusa heguye n’umuyobozi w’Akarere ka Nyabihu, Uwanzwenuwe Theoneste ndetse n’umuyobozi wungirije ushinzwe imibereho myiza y’abaturage muri Nyabihu, Mukansanga Clarisse we wanahise atabwa muri yombi akurikiranyweho icyaha cy’ingengabitekerezo ya Jenoside n’ibindi bifitanye isano na yo.


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Menya Amagambo y’ indirimbo ya Nelson Mucyo yise “ Warahabaye “ n’ Imvano yayo- (Audio/Lyrics)
Yanditswe na Imanishimwe Dieudonne April 5, 2017
Umuramyi , umuhanzi , umwanditsi akaba n’ umucuranzi mwiza wa Piano Nelson Mucyo mu nganzo izimije aherutse gushyira ahagaragara indirimbo yise” Warahabaye” ibumbatiye ubutumwa bw’ ubuzima busanzwe bw’ Abantu bahuranabwo […]
Umuramyi , umuhanzi , umwanditsi akaba n’ umucuranzi mwiza wa Piano Nelson Mucyo mu nganzo izimije aherutse gushyira ahagaragara indirimbo yise” Warahabaye” ibumbatiye ubutumwa bw’ ubuzima busanzwe bw’ Abantu bahuranabwo , n’ amagambo akubiyemo ishimwe rikomye buri wese yakwifashisha ashima Imana .
Nelson Mucyo yatangarije ikinyamakuru IBYIRINGIRO.RW imvo n’ Imvano y’ iyi ndirimbo n’ ubutumwa buyikubiye agira ati” warahabaye n’ indirimbo ikubiye inganzo izimije isobanura ubuzimana busanzwe kuko ubuzima n’ ubundi ari urugendo muri iyi ndirimbo hari aho navuze ngo ntiyemeyeko mba igitaramo , ahanashakaga kuvuga ko mu rugendo rw’ ubuzima hataburamo kwiganyira iyo umuntu ari guca mu buzima bukakaye kuko abandi baboneraho kuvuga ukaba wakwisanga wamamaye mu midugudu .
KANDA HANO WUNVE INDIRIMBO WARAHABAYE BY NELSON MUCYO
Ku kigendaye nimba bya ari ubuzima bwamubayeho yagize ati” Oya ntibyambayeho ahubwo njye nashatse gusangiza abantu isomo nagiye nigira ku bantu
Menya amagambo y’ iyi ndirimbo Nelson Mucyo yise” Warahabaye “
1.Inzira zari zifunze
wazimpinduriy’ irembo
ya manyagwa yamaganya yarashize
aho guho mvum’ iminsi kwiganyira bya buri munsi
wampinduye mutaraga sinki mpfumbat’ itama ( X2)
Chorus (S) Imirimo oh oh imirimo yawe (
Ts)Iracya vuga
(S) Ndi umugabo oh oh ndi umugab’ uhamya
(Ts) yuk’ ukomeye
(S) warakoze , warakoze eh eh warahabaye
2.wanze yuko ntembagara
wimye abanzi banjy’ ububasha
bwo kumpindur’ igitaramo ku gasozi
Ka karago kubusharire
mwami niho wantabariye ijwi ryanjye ryasaraye warahabaye ( x2)
Chorus (S) Imirimo oh oh imirimo yawe (
Ts)Iracya vuga
(S) Ndi umugabo oh oh ndi umugab’ uhamya
(Ts) yuk’ ukomeye
(S) warakoze , warakoze eh eh warahabaye
IBYIRINGIRO.RW


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Ubu ni uburyo bwafasha umubyeyi guhishura impano y’umwana.
Kumwitegereza akina
Iyo umwana akina akenshi yibanda ku byo yiyumvamo, kumwitegereza bifasha umubyeyi kumenya impano afite, akabona aho ahera ayimukundisha kurushaho.
Umubyeyi asabwa kwitegereza agakurikiranira hafi uko umwana we akina. Akamenya niba akunda gukina hamwe n’abandi cyangwa akunda kuba wenyine, bituma umubyeyi amenya uko yakwitwara kugira ngo impano abonye mu mukobwa cyangwa umuhungu we ikure.
Kumuha amahirwe yo guhitamo
Mu gihe umwana afite ikintu runaka akunda, umubyeyi asabwa kumufasha mu buryo bwose akamwereka amahitamo akwiye ariko akanamuha ibyo akeneye.
Urugero niba akunda umuziki, umubyeyi yakamuguriye ibikoresho bijyanye n’umuziki nka piano, guitar n’ibindi, kugira ngo uko abikoresha arusheho gukunda umuziki.
Gusa hari ubwo usanga yiyumva muri byinshi, icyo gihe ahitirwamo icyo umubyeyi abona kizamugirira akamaro ariko gushingiye ku bumenyi asanzwe afite hanyuma we akazisanga akunda kimwe kurusha ibindi bitewe n’inama agenda ahabwa.
Kudaca intege umwana
Kenshi na kenshi ababyeyi baburizamo impano z’abana babo kubera kubaca intege bababwira ko ntacyo bazageraho.
Urugero, igihe umubyeyi abonye umwana akunda gukina imikino yo kuri mudasobwa cyangwa telefoni (Games), ntakwiye kumubwira nabi ngo amwumvishe ko ibyo akora ari bibi, kuko akenshi agenda yungukiramo ubumenyi agafunguka mu mutwe, ahubwo ni byiza kumutera imbaraga kuko bituma impano afite yayikoresha n’ibindi birenzeho byazamubyarira inyungu.
Kudahatira umwana ibyo adashaka
Imbuga zitandukanye zandika inkuru zivuga ku burezi nka education.com n’izindi zigaragaza ko ababyeyi benshi usanga bahitiramo abana babo icyo bifuza kuba, ugasanga amuhitiyemo nko kuba umuganga bitewe n’uko na we ari we, … Bituma umwana abikora atabyishimiye kuko aba yarabujijwe amahirwe yo kwihitiramo icyo yiyumvamo.
Guha umwana uburenganzira bwo kwihitiramo bifasha umubyeyi kumukurikirana no kumwongerera imbaraga akabasha gukoresha impano ye.
Kumuganiriza ku byo akunda
Ni byiza kumenya icyo umwana akunda; umubyeyi akwiriye kumwegera akamubaza ibyo akunda kurusha ibindi hanyuma akanabimushyigikiramo.
Niba umwana yiga amasomo arimo imibare, indimi, siyansi n’iyobokamana, bikwiye ko umubyeyi amubaza amasomo akunda cyane akamufasha kuyacengerwa kurushaho byaba na ngombwa akamushakira umwarimu.


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Angel Rogerson yatanze ubuhamya bw’ukuntu yafashwe ku ngufu ubwo yari afite imyaka 19 gusa mu gihe yari aryamye yambaye imyenda yose, ndetse ntabyumve kugeza bukeye.
Uyu mugore Angel Rogerson, wari ufite imyaka 19 ubwo yafatwaga ku ngufu na Douglas Hodgson wari ufite imyaka 28, yavuze ko aba bombi bari inshuti ndetse ko yari amaze imyaka 5 azi uyu muryango, yaba bashiki b’iyi nshuti ye yaba ababyeyi be bose bakaba bari baziranye.
Yagize ati: “Ubwo twari tuvuye Newton Aycliffe, count Durham, turi kumwe na bashiki be ndetse na nyina umubyara, namaranye umwanya n’uyu muryango mu karesitora kari hafi y’iwabo maze dufata ako kunywa. Kuko hari nijoro, uyu muryango wansabye ko naza iwabo nkararana n’uyu Douglas Hodgson cyane ko yari afite uburiri bunini aho kugirango ntahe iwacu. Kuko nizeraga cyane uyu Douglas numvise nta kibazo maze njyana nabo nsanga Douglas aryamye ndetse asinziriye. Nanjye nahise njya mu buriri n’imyenda yanjye yose ndaryama ndasinzira. Gusa mu gitondo nakangutse numva mbabara cyane gusa nari ncyambaye imyenda yanjye yose. Maze kuva aho nandikiye Douglas ndamubwira nti: Nzi neza ibyo waraye unkoreye muri iri joro. Mu by’ukuri kwari ugukeka gusa nagirango numve icyo abivugaho ariko natunguwe no kumva anyemerera ko yanyegereye ndetse akanankoraho ariko ko atigeze ankoresha imibonano mpuzabitsina.”
Angel Rogerson yavuze ko ubusanzwe agira ibitotsi byinshi ibi akaba ari byo byatumye afatwa ku ngufu ntabyumve ndetse agukurwamo imyenda akongera akayambikwa ntabimenye.
Angel Rogerson akomeza avuga ko mu rukiko Douglas yakomeje guhana avuga ko atigeze amufata ku ngufu gusa nyuma y’amezi 22 ibi bibaye, yaje kuva ku izima arabyemera maze umucamanza amukatira imyaka 6 n’amezi 4 by’igifungo.
Angel Rogerson mu buhamya bwe yavuze ko yishimiye igihano cyahanwe Douglas ndetse ko amwanga cyane kubera ibyo yamukoreye aho yatumye abaho mu bwoba ku buryo ubu adashobora gusinzira igihe ari mu nzu irimo undi muntu atazi neza. Gusa ngo yize kubana na byo kandi agerageza uko ashoboye ngo ubuzima bukomeze dore ko ubu ku myaka 21 atwite umwana we wa mbere.
Isomo: Si byiza kwizera umuntu mudahuje igitsina kugeza aho muryamana mu buriri bumwe mu gihe nta gahunda yo gukorana nawe imibonano mpuzabitsina. Murabe maso rero dore ko n’uwo muhuje igitsina kuri ubu bisigaye ari ikibazo kubera ubutinganyi bwadutse ushobora gutungurwa usanze nawe yagufashe ku ngufu.
Kawera Ronald@Rwandapaparazzi.rw
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Igikorwa cyo gutera akabariro mu buryo bwiza kandi bunejeje buri umwe ku bashakanye ni ingenzi cyane mu kubaka urugo ruhamye kandi rutanyeganyezwa n’imiyaga. Burya n’ubwo umugabo wese aho ava akagera ashobora kugira ubushake bwo gutera akabariro bitewe n’impamvu runaka, hari ibintu umugore we ashobora kumukorera bikamera nk’uko umushoferi iyo afashe ku muriri ikinyabiziga kirushaho kwiruka cyane.
Akenshi rero abagore bavuga ko abagabo babo badakunda ko batera akabariro kuko niyo babikoze ngo biba ari nko kurangiza umuhango. Hakaba hari abibaza ikintu cyatuma abagabo babo babishimira mu gihe bagiye gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, bakayikora bishimye.
Hano hari uburyo wakoresha bigatuma umugabo wawe ahora agufitiye inyota mu gutera akabariro.
1. Bisaba ko uba uteye neza inyuma (Ibigaragara)
Niba ukeka ko hari ikiba cyabaye kidasanzwe, umubiri wawe nawo uri muri bimwe bishobora kuba impamvu. Ushobora kuba yaragushatse uteye neza ariko wamara kuba umugore ukabyibuha birenze ibyo yifuza ubundi yakureba akabona nta kiyumviro kindi wamutera, niba utari unabizi buriya abagabo bakunda abagore bateye neza kuko iyo uteye neza uba uteye ubusambo. Niba koko warabyibushye cyane ukimara kuba umugore, wiba umunebwe kora siporo ubundi urebe ko wagaruka ukamera uko wari umeze mbere.
2. Wiryama wiyoroshe wese
Iki ni ikintu buri mugore wese agomba kumenya. Ntuzigere uryama wiyoroshe hose, gerageza ugire aho usiga umugabo ari burebe ubundi akagira ubusambo. Ndakwizeza ko nukora ibi nkubwiye byibura ijoro rimwe uzabona igisubizo gishimishije giturutse ku mugabo.
3. Gerageza nujya kuryama wambare imyenda y’ijoro ikurura umugabo
Ariko njye ubundi siniyumvisha uburyo abagore batagomba kwambara akenda k’imbere gatuma umugabo yumva ashatse gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina. Reka njye mbibire ibanga, buriya abagabo bakururwa n’umwenda w’imbere uteye neza nawe wareba ukavuga uti koko aka kenda ni keza “sexy”.
4. Wikigira nkaho nta kintu ushoboye
Aha ni ho abagore bibeshya igihe kimwe na kimwe. Nukuvuga ngo niba hari ikibazo kibaye mu rugo wimera nkutaye umutwe ubundi utangire uhamagare umugabo umuhuruza aho yagiye, ahubwo wowe menya gufata umwanzuro w’urugo kuburyo umugabo nagenda agenda akwizeye ko umugore we ahari nta kibazo kiri bube utari bukemure. Ibi nabyo bituma umugabo yumva ahora akwishimiye iteka.
5. Shaka ikintu cyerekeranye no kwisiga cyatuma uhora uhumura neza
Niba utari ubizi ikintu cyatuma umugabo wawe aguhora iruhande n’impumuro nziza. Kandi ntibivuze ko wazanjya uhumura ku manywa ubundi n’ijoro ntuhumure, wowe niba ugiye kuryama n’umugabo wawe gerageza byibura itere agaparufe kuburyo n’ugera ku buriri yifuza ko mwegerana.
6. Rimwe na Rimwe jya umukorera ibintu bitunguranye (Surprise)
Dore indi nzira ishobora gutuma umugabo wawe ashaka ko mukora imibonano mpuzabitsina, niba mwogera nko mu nzu nta bana bahari, ujye mu rwogero wambaye ubusa cyangwa mu gihe uri koga usige urugi rufunguye cyangwa se mu gihe uvuye nko koga ukamubwira ngo agusigire mu mugongo cyane ko utahagera. Ndakwizeza ko mu gihe azaba ari kugusiga niko ibyiyumviro bye bizagenda bihinduka bityo ntimuzamenya aho ubushake bwo gutera akabariro buturutse.
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I.KUNYAZA:POSITIONS ZO GUSWERA UNYAZA
• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA WICAJE KU BITSITSINO
Umwicaza ku butsitsino maze amaguru akayarenza hejuru y'ibibero byawe agafata hasi yishingikirije ibiganze bye maze ukamuswera ukamunyaza yajya gusohora ukamufata mu mugongo kugira ngo atisimbiza kubera uburyohe bwinshi akavunika.
• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA WICAJE KU NTEBE
N'uburyo bwiza cyane bwo kunyaza kuko ntawe buvuna kandi wicara ku ntebe y'urukiko n'umugore bikaba uko mukegerana maze amaguru yanyu agasobekerana aye akayahagarika ku tubaho ku ruhande bigatuma igituba cye cyiza imbere cyane noneho ukamunyaza. Ubu buryo bwo guswera ntibuvuna. Bifasha umugongo kutaruha kandi akanyara neza kuko umugongo urambuye.
• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA UHAGAZE
Ni uburyo bwo guswera buryoha nabwo. Munyuranya amaguru maze ukamutazura agasa nuteye intambwe, ukuguru kumwe ku ntebe,ku gitanda,cyangwa se ikindi kintu kigiye hejuru ho gatoya ukundi hasi; ugafata umutwe w’imboro ukajya uwukomanga kuri rugongo maze rugongo igashibura ibinyare ariko yuhagira umugabo umubiri wepfo wose. Ubu buryo bwo guswera unyaza bukunze gukoreshwa igihe abantu badafite umwanya n'aho kubikorera heza ariko bamwe bagahitamo kutabihomba bakabikorera ahantu nko mu bikoni,mu iduka,mu ishuri,ku modoka, muri biro n'ahandi bitashoboka ko baryama .Kuko abantu icyo gihe basohorera hasi bisaba kongera guhita utunganya aho mwabikoreye.
II.UBURYO BWO GUSWERA UNYAZA
• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA N'URUTOKI
Iyo umugore ashyutswe umuswera ufashe umutwe w'imboro maze ukayikomanga kuri rugongo ugacumita nka rimwe mu masegonda 100 ukamushimisha inkonji wazamura imboro igakora hagati yimishino maze umugore akarekura amazi wamanura nanone imboro igakusha imishino maze hakavubuka ibinyare.
• GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:KUNYATIRIZA
Ni uburyo buryohera abagore ukubita imboro hagati y'imishino yombi maze ukajya uzamura umanura icyo gihe umugore aritsa ahumeka ukabona ko aryohewe,ubikora nk'imashini ntumutekereze kugera aho amisha ibikari bishyushye inshuro zose ushaka.
*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUTSIBURA
Uswera ufashe imboro ukayitsibagura kuri rugongo uyikoza ku mutwe wayo maze ugatsibura gahoro ku mishino nk'uko baca umugani mu kinyarwanda ngo'umushishi w'umushino ntushira inogonra' maze agasoko kari hagati y'imishino kagatungereza maze ukungikanya akanyara .
*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKUNGUTA
Ni uburyo bumara umugore ishwira.Imboro uyinjiza mu gituba ugafata umutwe wayo maze ugakunguta ujyana mu mpande zose z'igituba hepfo no haruguru mu mpande no mu muzenguruko wacyo. Abagore bafite imbyaro nyinshi barabikunda, bamena amavangingo menshi avanze n'urukonda.
Umugore ukungutwa cyane ubona ahorana umwera ariko anezerewe ku buryo iyo atabibona arwara za rubagimpande ndetse no mu nda.
*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKAMA
Ufata imboro ishyutswe ukayinjiza mu marebe y'igituba maze ugafata imishino ukayikurura usa n'uyipima ku mboro maze ukayifatana nimboro maze ukazunguza umanura uzamura utambitse ariko ukoza imboro kuri Rugongo. Imishino ihita ireta nk'amabere maze ikivuruganya.
Ugomba kwitonda kuko umushino ushobora gucika cyagwa ugakomereka mu gihe ugize cyane UTARIMO GUCUNGA.
*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:KUJABAGIRA
Ufata isonga y'ururimi ukayipima hagati y'imishino na rugongo maze ukajabagira nk'imbwa inywa amata yatangira kunyara ugapfundikiza isonga mu kenge kazana amavangingo maze agasa nuhejeje umwuka ukarekura maze agasa n'aho acitse amaferi.
Ugomba kwirinda kumira amavangingo kandi bikorerwa umuntu wapimishije ko adafite imiteziCYANGWA IZINDI NDWARA ZANDURIRA MU MYANYA NDANGABITSINA kuko ushobora kuyandura mu kanwa, uko igituba kinuka afite imitezi ni nako mu kanwa hawe hanuka/wabigirira umugore wawe gusa nabwo uzi neza ko adasambana.
*GUSWERA NO KUNYAZA:GUKAMISHA
Umukobwa ahenesha undi cyangwa umuhungu udashaka guswera akoresheje imboro maze agashyira urutoki mu kibuno kugeza aho ruhenengeye maze wakunva asa n'uniha ugasakuma imishino ugasa nuyikama ugarura mu muraru we maze buri uko usesetse urutoki ugakama imishino ye, ahita asuka amazi agataka akarangiza.
Icyitonderwa: ushobora gukomeretsa inyama zo mu nda iyo ufite inzara ndende.


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Ingaruka umubiri ushobora kugira kubera kuwuhata imyitozo ngorora mubiri(sports)
Imyitozo ngorora mubiri cyangwa mu rurimi rw’amahanga Sports, iyo umuntu atangiye kuyikora buri munsi hari ibintu byinshi ihindura mu buzima bwe yaba ku gice cy’imitekerereze cyangwa akagira impinduka ku mubiri we. Uko umuntu agenda arushaho gukora sport niko aba yiyongerera amahirwe yo kugira ubuzima bwiza dore ko uko umuntu agenda akura ariko umubiri we ugenda ucika intege ,ariko iyo wakoze sport hari icyo uba urengeye.
Gukora sport byagufasha kongera gusubiza umubiri ingufu no gukora neza uko bikwiye.
Ariko se? Iyo ukora sport ni izihe mpinduka zibera mu mubiri? Nibyo tugiye kurebera hamwe muri iyi nkuru.
Nyuma y’umunsi umwe
Mu gihe uri gukora sport, amaraso atembera ku bwonko ariyongera, bigatuma ushishikara cyane, ugira imbaraga kandi ukaba maso. Ibi tubikesha umusemburo wa epinephrine uba urekurwa, uyu musemburo wongera ubushake bwo gukora, ukarinda ububabare ndetse ukagufasha gushabuka byihuse.
Umwuka mwiza wa oxygen winjiza mu mubiri uriyongera cyane, nabyo kandi bifasha ubwonko gukora cyane no gutekereza neza.
Mu gihe ukora sport zo guterura ibyuma, imikaya yawe yongera ubushobozi bwo gukoresha no kubika isukari, bikaba ikintu cy’ingenzi mu kurwanya indwara ya diyabete, yaba ku bayirwaye cg se abenda kuyirwara.
Uretse gufasha kongerera imbaraga umubiri, ifasha uturemangingo kubaho igihe kirekire,
Iyo ukoze sport bwa mbere cg utari uziherutse, akenshi wumva imikaya cg mu ngingo hakubabaza, ibi ni ibisanzwe ku mubiri, kuko uba uri kugerageza kwisana. Nyuma y’iminsi micye biragenda, kandi wakongera gukora sport ntugire ikibazo.
Nyuma y’icyumweru kimwe
Agace gato kagize uturemangingo (cells) kitwa mitochondria, twagereranya na moteri itanga umuriro mu ruganda. Mitochondria niho imbaraga z’umubiri zikorerwa, kuko ifata isukari, ibinure ndetse na proteyine ikabihinduramo ingufu umubiri ukoresha, bityo igihe cyose ugahorana imbaraga.
Mitochondria ziriyongera cyane bityo igihe cyose ukazajya wumva ufite imbaraga.
Nyuma y’ukwezi
Nyuma y’ukwezi kumwe ukora sport, imbaraga na fitness byawe birahinduka cyane, ugatangira kubona impinduka no ku mikaya yawe. Ubuzima bwawe nabwo kandi ubona buhinduka, niba hari akarimo wakoraga kakugoye cyane utangira kubona byoroshye, niba ari ahantu wagendaga hagukomereye ugatangira kubona horoshye, yewe no gusinzira ku kazi kenshi ugatangira kubona bigabanuka.
Imyitozo wakoraga nayo iriyongera; niba wiruka, ugatangira kwiruka harehare, koga, ukoga vuba cyane, yewe n’ibindi n’ibindi.
Nyuma y’amezi 6
Ku mezi 6 haba hari impinduka zigaragarira buri wese. Hagati aho n’umutima wawe uba wariyongereye ubunini.
Uburyo umutima utera (resting heart rate) nabyo biragabanuka, bivuze ko umutima uba uterana imbaraga kandi usohora amaraso menshi, bityo ntuteragure cyane. Ibi bifasha cyane kurinda indwara z’umutima nka heart attack n’izindi zangiza umutima.
Nyuma y’umwaka umwe
Nyuma y’umwaka, uburemere bw’amagufa buriyongera, hakagaragara impinduka no ku buryo amagufa ateye. Ni handi ubona umuntu arambutse cyane cg ateye neza.
Kwiyongera k’uburemere bw’amagufa binafasha cyane abarwaye indwara ya osteoporosis kuba bakongera kuba bazima, ndetse bikagabanya ibyago byo kuvunika.
Muri iki gihe kandi, uba warakunze sport cyane, ku buryo n’iyo utayikoze wumva umerewe nabi.
Ubuzima muri rusange burahinduka cyane. Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko gukora sport birwanya indwara zo kwiheba no kwigunga (depression) kurusha ubundi buryo bwose bukoreshwa mu kuzivura.
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Nitwa Immaculee Mukabalisa Shema, navutse mu mwaka w’1987, mvuka mu cyahoze ari komini Kigoma; ubu ni mu murenge wa Mukingo mu karere ka Nyanza, gusa ubu mba muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika. Ababyeyi banjye ni KAGERUKA Aphrodice (Mwarimu) na Mukakizima Evaste.
Iwacu twavutse turi abana 7, nkaba ari nanjye wari mutoya. Ndibuka ko Inkotanyi ziza mu Rwanda njye nari i Kigali kwa mukuru wanjye, tujya ku muhanda aho imodoka (bus) zanyuraga zigiye muri CND (ahakorera Inteko Ishinga Amategeko) ariko iwabo wa mama bose bari barahungiye i Bugande cyera.
Ubwo bidatinze naratashye, ngeze iwacu mucyaro hari murumuna wa mama witwaga Olive, yaje kudusura aturutse i Bugande ariko baramufunga tumubona hashize iminsi gusa sinzi aho yari afungiye ariko muri icyo gihe iwacu bajyaga baza kudusaka imbunda n’ibyitso bavuga ko boherejwe n’uwari burugumestre wa Kigoma.
Jenoside ijya gutangira rero narabyutse mu gitongo nsanga papa na mama n’abo tuvukana (Bane nanjye wa 5 kuko 2 bari barashatse) baricaye ari mugitondo bose barimo kumva radiyo, ariko nk’umwana njye sinari nzi ibyo aribyo. Ni uko mukuru wanjye witwaga Mignone ni we wambwiye ati “intambara igiye gutera Perezida yapfuye”.
Ubwo uwo munsi twiriwe aho ariko mbona iwacu byahindutse, bigeze ku mugoroba tujya kurara mu masaka twumva imbwa zirara zimoka ariko bwenda gucya turataha. Musaza wanjye na mukuru wanjye bigaga mu mashuri yisumbuye nibo bakuru twari dusigaranye, sinzi aho babohereje muri icyo gihe. Papa we yakomezaga yumva amakuru kuri radiyo, byabaye iminsi twirirwa mu rugo tukarara mu masaka.
Bidatinze, ndibuka ko nasanze mama ari mu muryango arimo kurira kuko abavaga i Kigali bahunze bazanye amakuru ko mukuru wanjye bamutaye muri Nyabarongo n’umugabo we n’umwana bahunga baza iwacu, bakavuga ko undi mukuru wanjye wari utwit bishe umugabo we hanyuma uwo mukuru wanjye bakamusatura ngo kuko yari atwite Inyenzi.
Mama yari afite agahinda kenshi gusa mukuru wanjye twakurikiranaga ni we wambwiye ibyo byose, mubaza impamvu babishe ansobanurira ko intambara yateye ko abahutu barimo kwica abatutsi, njye sinari nzi umuhutu cyangwa umututsi kuko njye n’aho nigaga ntawabimbajije kuko papa yari umwarimu buriya bari babizi niyo mpamvu batabimbajije.
Ubwo rero ibintu byabaye bibi batangira gusahura amazu, barasenya, inka batangira kuzirya ariko mama wanjye ku ikubitiro bahise bamwica bamukuye aho yari yihishe, gusa ikintu kinkomeretsa umutima ni uburyo mama bamwishe bamwambuye ubusa bamutera igisongo mu nda ibyara bamurambika mu muhanda kandi ari umubyeyi.
Ubwo twe aho twari twihishe na papa n’abo tuva inda imwe, amakuru twarayamenye ariko papa atubuza kurira gusa icyo yakoze amafaranga yari afite yahise ayaduha arayatugabanya ariko ngirango yadusezeragaho atubwira ko uzajya kutwica tuzayamuha gusa sinakubwira ngo yari angahe sinyibuka.
Ubwo aho twari turi twahise tuhava papa aravuga ngo tujye gupfira aho abandi bari, tujya ku musozi wari hakurya y’iwacu ariko twarebaga ibibera ku musozi w’iwacu. Twari abantu benshi twicaye inyuma y’urubingo. Ubwo interahamwe zamenye aho abantu bari, ni uko twagiye kubona tubona zirimo ziramanuka ziza ku musozi twariho, umugabo witwa Munyaburanga niwe wari uziri imbere n’ubu ifoto ye ( yambaye imyenda y’ama training ya orange) mpora nyibona kuko yari umuturanyi wacu.
Ubwo twagerageje kwiruka gusa papa we yarajijishije yinjira mu kabari ariko sinzi uwabatungiye agatoki bamusohoyemo baramutemagura bagenda bazi ko yapfuye, icyo gihe hapfuye abantu benshi cyane. Twe rero twirukaga tutazi n’iyo tujya, nkanjye nakurikiraga bakuru banjye babiri twari kumwe ariko iby’abana nyine twaragarutse tujya kureba papa dusubira iwacu dusanga papa bamutemaguye avirirana amaraso, ubwo bafashe ikanzu nari nambaye bahita bayimuzirika mu mutwe dusubira mu matongo.
Nihuse rero twasubiye mu matongo, icyo gihe bavugaga ko abagore n’abakobwa batazongera kubica, ubwo hari ba masenge babiri twari kumwe bageragezaga gukanda papa bamuvura bya Kinyarwanda, bidatinze rero amakuru yaramenyekanye ko papa akiriho, maze baragaruka baramutemagura kuko atabyukaga rero batemaga nk’abatema igiti, uko bamutema agataka bigeze aho rero gutaka byarahagaze, twumvaga bavuga ko atakinyagambura bahita bagenda.
Aho twari twicaye rero amarira yari yarakamye ahubwo twaririmbaga indirimbo z’Imana. Bakigenda mukuru wanjye Mignone (wigaga mu mwaka wa 5 w’amashuri abanza), ni nawe wari mukuru twasaga n’aho dusigaranye, aragenda na masenge witwaga Eveliyana barebye papa batubwira ko akiri muzima, mu byukuri ntiyagaragaraga mu maso ahantu hose yari amaraso kandi ntiyanavugaga yewe n’umusambi yari aryamyeho wari amaraso gusa, n’ibikuta byari byatarukiyeho amaraso kubera uburyo bamutemaga.
Gusa ba masenge bagerageje kumurwanaho yewe bamusabiraga mu baturanyi inyama z’inka zabatutsi babaga batemye bagatogosa inyama bakamusuka isupu mukanwa arongera arahembuka ntiyavugaga ariko yamenyaga umuntu.
Inshuro ya 3 ho baje ari simusiga n’umujinya mwinshi noneho bafata ishoka bahereza umugabo twari duturanye w’umututsi we bari baramuretse bavuga ko azipfusha, maze bati “Nutamwica nawe turakwic”. Yari umugabo unanutse cyane kandi muremure, yateruye ishoka yikubitana nayo hasi, ni uko bafata ya shoka umutwe barawasa nk’abasa inkwi, bamusize yabaye amagufwa gusa kuko nta n’ubwo noneho wabashaga kubona ko ari umuntu ahubwo ba masenge abo na Mignone wabaye magorwa ari umwana nibo bazinze ikirago bari bamwashirijeho njye na mukuru wanjye wundi bahimbaga Mbegeti twarariraga, data yaratemwe, araswa, arakubitwa gusa Imana ibababarire.
Ubwo twabaye imfubyi gutyo na musaza wacu aho yari yihishe baje kumwica; abagore n’abakobwa twese badushyize hamwe batubwira ko tugomba kujya kwitaba kuri komine Kigoma tugenda tunyura ku mirambo y’abantu, ukumva baravuze bati ni kanaka. Njye abenshi sinari mbazi gusa amazina narayumvaga. Twageze kuri komine, abasiririkare n’abapolisi batangira kubohoza (gusambanya) abagore n’abakobwa twabaga turi kumwe bagenda bakuramo umwe agenda akongera akagaruka, twarahiriwe ku mugoroba bati musubire iyo mwaturutse. Ubwo twaratashye ariko tuhageze badushyira ahantu hamwe, ni uko interahamwe yitwaga Gahindigiri iraza ifite ama grenade itangira kubaza aho mukuru wacu yagiye (umwe iwacu bohereje intambara igitangira akajya ku nshuti y’iwacu) tumubwira ko tutahazi akavuga ko nta kintu bakoze ko agiye kutwicira mu ishyamba ryuwitwa Karambizi. Baradushoreye ariko dutanga amafaranga baraturekura n’abo ba masenge.
Icyo gihe abakobwa n’abagore barabohozwaga (bakabajyana kubasambanya) bamwe bakabatera amacumu mubirenge, n’izo mbabazi wumva kwari ukubica urw’agashinyaguro gusa. Ku kandi gasozi duturanye abagore n’abakobwa bari babataye mu misarane bamaramo n’iminsi bamwe batarashiramo umwuka baririmba. Muri icyo gihe rero njye amatariki sinyibuka ariko hari haciyeho iminsi.
Ubwo umunsi wo kutwica warageze rero, ni uko twese abagore n’abakobwa ari ninjoro ngirango hari nka saa moya cyangwa saa mbiri, baradushorera twese batwicaza hirya y’iwacu gatoya batangira kujya mungo basaba amatoroshi n’imihoro, baba baradushoreye bamwe imbere abandi inyuma natwe turi hagati ariko njye mbwira bakuru banjye babiri twari kumwe nti muze twiruke kuko nabonaga badutwaye mu ishyamba kandi ari ninjoro, nuko bati turatanga amafaranga kuko n’ubundi byajyaga bibaho bakadushorera mugatanga ayo mufite bakabarekura mukagenda ariko byabaga kumanywa. Ni uko njye nkomeza kubabwira ariko njye numvaga mfite ubwoba bw’iryo shyamba.
Nagiye inyuma y’igishyitsi nk’ugiye kunyara, nari gatoya rero ngirango ntibambonye barakomeje umurongo wose urarangira bageze imbere gatoya bahise babicira aho batangira gutaka mbumva, umukobwa umwe witwaga Venantie niwe waharokotse bamuha imbabazi ariko nawe bari baramugize ikimuga kubera kwirirwa bamusambanya byanamuviriyemo gupfa nyuma ya Jenoside.
Gusa ni Imana iba ifite umugambi wayo ku muntu, nanjye rwose ni yo yabankijije kuko mugitondo nasubiye kureba aho babiciye numva ijwi rya Mignone ataka ngo bamuhe amazi barimo babataba mu byobo ariko we bamutaba itaka ryose rigahita rimuvaho kuko yarahumekega cyane asaba amazi, bamukubise ipiki mu mutwe mvuza induru muri iryo shyamba baba baranyirukankanye, mu kwiruka rero nahuye n’umusore arantangira, ni umusore wari uzi iwacu, icyo gihe igitero cyari kinyirukankanye nagendaga ntazi iyo njya maze uwo mugiraneza ati: “Nturi umwana wo kwa mwarimu?” Ndamwikiriza maze ati ngwino, anjyana mu nzu maze abanyirukankagaho ntibamenya aho ndengeye. Kubera kudasinzira, nahise nsinzira n’ibigori byokeje yampaye sinabiriye.
Nakangutse barimo batukana ngo navane inyenzi mu rugo, yatangiye knjya anjyana ku marondo akantwara anzingiye mu musambi akandaza mu bishyimbo cyangwa munzu ya mukuru we yari itaruzura yari aho hafi y’irondo, aho yanyitayeho Imana imuhe iruhuko ridashira yitwaga Feresiyani. Byaranze abantu baza kubimenya anjyana ku rundi rugo rwa se kuko se yari afite abagore babiri, naho baranyirukana anshyira undi mugenzi we naho nahabaye iminsi naho baza kunyirukana uwo mugenziwe adahari ntangira kuzerera gutyo ntazi iyo mva ariko kuko hagati aho twigeze kujyana iwacu kuzana imyenda mu babisahuye kuko nta myenda nari mfite uretse iyo nari nambaye; inzira twanyuze narayibukaga ndagenda ariko nenda kuhagera mpura n’umugore wa Kaniziyo, yari n’inshuti ya mama ambonye ararira cyane ati “Koko ubu urajya hehe?... Birirwa bagushakisha barakubuze none urizanye?”.
Ubwo yanjyanye mu nzu, imvura yahise igwa ari nyinshi, bambera abantu beza kuko banjyanye muri iyo mvura bampa ikote ry’umuhungu wabo, umugabo we arantwara n’amaguru anjyana ku wundi musozi duturanye ku muntu wari inshuti na papa. Niho inkotanyi zansanze gusa Jenoside irangiye nza guhura n’abavandimwe banjye basigaye, kuri ubu dusigaye turi batatu gusa Imana yangiriye neza irandokora ni ubuntu yangiriye. Ndahumuriza imfubyi zose nzibutsa ko Yesu ari we se w’impfubyi. Jenoside irangiye ubuzima bwabaye bubi ariko Imana yagiye ibidutambutsamo iradukomeza iratwubakira kandi iranatwubaka yageretseho no kuduha abana.
Imana yambereye umubyeyi iramfasha ndiga, ingirira ubuntu injyana kwiga no muri Amerika Kaminuza ndayirangiza. Ubu ndubatse mfite umugabo n’abana babiri, n’ubwo abana banjye batagira nyirakuru cyangwa sekuru ariko turabyara inshuti n’abavandimwe bakaduhemba.
Ikindi nshimira Imana ni uko yanshoboje abo twanyuranye mur iyo nzira y’umusaraba nkabashyingura, imva yabo nabashije kuyubakisha no kuyisukura mu bushobozi bwanjye bucye, ndumva hashyinguye 64 ni bo babasha kwibukwa abandi ntawubibuka ariko numva bavuga ko bashobora kuba barenga. Ibyo mbishimira Imana cyane ko n’aho baruhukiye njye wabavuyemo ngasigara ariko ntabatereranye ababikoze njye narababariye n’ Imana ibabarire ariko kandi rero ntabwo nibagiwe.


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Mu murenge wa Murundi wo karere ka Karongi habaye ikiza kidasanzwe aho umusozi haturitse ukangiza amazu y’ abaturage , Minisiteri y’ ibiza yoherejeho impuguke yo gusuzuma impamvu yateye icyo kiza.
Iki kiza cyabereye mu Kagari ka Kabaya, Umudugudu wa Karambo. Abaturage batunguye no kubona inkangu idasanzwe bavuga ko iheruka kuba mu 1963. Ngo icyo gihe abaturage bakuwe mu byabo.
Umunyamabanga nshingwabikorwa w’ umurenge wa Murundi Mudacumura Aphrodice yabwiye itangazamakuru ko barimo kubarura ibyangijwe n’ icyo kiza ngo abaturage bahabwe ubufasha.
Yagize ati “Ni ibiza bidasanzwe, imisozi yacitse inkangu, bituma inzu ziyasa, ntituzi icyabiteye. Byavuye ku musozi umwe bijya kuwundi.”
Umuyobozi w’ ishami rishinzwe ibiza muri MIDMAR Philppe Habinshuti yavuze ko ikibazo bakimenyetse ndetse ko bohereye umukozi kujya kureba uko bimeze, no kureba ubufasha abaturage bakeneye ubwo aribwo.
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Nsanzimana Ernest ni Umwanditsi mukuru w’Ikinyamakuru Umuryango. Yatangiye gukorera iki kinyamakuru muri Nzeli 2016, afite Impamyabumenyi y’Icyiciro cya Kabiri cya Kaminuza (A0) mu Itangazamakuru n’Itumanaho yakuye muri Kaminuza y’u Rwanda Ishuri ry’ itangazamakuru n’ itumanaho


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Umuyobozi Mukuru w’Itorero Redeemed Gospel Church Rwanda [Abacunguwe], Bishop Rugagi, mu materaniro yo ku Cyumweru tariki ya 11 Gashyantare 2018 yongeye gukomoza ku mukobwa yabwiye ko azaba Nyampinga w’u Rwanda asaba abakirisitu gukoresha inzira zose mu kumwamamaza.
Umunyana Shanitah wamamazwa na Bishop Rugagi asanzwe ari umwe mu bakirisitu bakomeye kandi bakora mu rusengero rwe ndetse ababyeyi be na bo ni abajyanama b’imena bazwi cyane mu ngoro y’uyu mukozi w’Imana.
Mu gihe yatangaga inyigisho asengana n’abakirisitu yavuze ku buryo aherutse gusengera uwo mukobwa bigasakara anenga abavugabutumwa n’abandi bamunenze bakavuga ko yakoze ubuhanuzi bupfuye ko ndetse akwiye gusengerwa.
Atitaye ku byo yavuzweho, Bishop Rugagi yashimangiye ko ashyigikiye uwo mukobwa ndetse abwira abakirisitu be kudaterwa ipfunwe na byo. Umwe mu bayoboke be yahise azana icyapa cyamamaza Shanitah imbere arakimuhereza.
Bishop Rugagi yahise agira ati "Ibi ni ibiki uzanye?" Arongera ati "Mbega! Ndabona bazanye n’akantu k’umukobwa wacu [...] Erega babona twisengera tukigirira abantu beza bagahita bagira ibibazo, buri wese akomere Yesu amashyi ku bw’umukobwa wacu."
Yamusengeye agira ati "Mana turasengeye umukobwa wacu ahantu ari igikunduro n’ubwiza bimubeho abandi nabo bamugendereho, imirimo yawe igaragare mu izina rya Yesu, uko buri wese azamutera inkunga, umutere inkunga inshuro ijana, akanwa k’umuhanuzi kature iri jambo none aha, kabe ku buzima bwe n’ab’iwe mu izina rya Yesu. Amen."
Bishop Rugagi yahise asaba abakora ku mbuga zose z’itorero, televiziyo n’ahandi kubitangaza "noneho ku mugaragaro" ndetse asaba umwe mu bapasiteri be bafite imodoka nyinshi muri Kigali kuzishyiraho zose ibyapa byamamaza Umunyana Shanitah asaba ko kinashyirwa kuri Range Rover ye.
Yagize ati "Nanjye mukinshakire mugishyire kuri Range Rover yanjye, ejo babe bagishyize ku kirahuri hariya inyuma noneho uvuga abivuge abibona no kuri Range Rover."
Bishop Rugagi yahakanye ko atahanuriye Umunyana Shanitah kuba Nyampinga w’u Rwanda
Mbere yo gusaba abakirisitu be ko bashyigikira mu buryo bweruye Umunyana Shanitah uhataniye ikamba rya Nyampinga w’u Rwanda, Bishop Rugagi yabanje kuvuga ku bavugabutumwa banenze ibyo yakoze mu iteraniro riheruka iwe avuga ko atigeze akora ubuhanuzi ahubwo yatanze umugisha.
Ati "Ngo ndavuga ngo nahanuye? Ariko ntabwo narenganya umuntu burya hari n’aba-’petit’ batigeze bamenya n’ubuhanuzi ubwo ari bwo. Narekuriye umugisha ku mukobwa wacu hano, ndavuga ngo Imana izagendane nawe, Imana izabane nawe. Ni ibyo gusa. Si ibyo navuze, mvuga ngo tumushyigikire?"
Yakomeje agira ati "Ahubwo va hano umushyigikire inshuro 600 bimyize imoso mu izina rya Yesu. Ahubwo wenda bababaye ngo kubera ko uwo mwana adasengera iwe, iyo anyandikira mu gikari akambwira ngo mumutize basi ahasengere kabiri."
Abakirisitu be bahise bamubwira ko uwo avuga ari gushaka kumwuririraho ahita asenga mu ndimi z’umwuka ashimira Imana ndetse amusabira imbabazi, arongera ati "Nk’umuntu uvuga gutyo yumvise napfuye yajya kurira he? Ubwo ni ukuvuga ngo yakoresha ibirori ariko byamutunguka mu mazuru. Amen."
Umunyana Shanitah n’abo bahataniye ikamba rya Nyampinga w’u Rwanda bari mu mwiherero mu Mujyi wa Nyamata. Ikamba rizatangwa mu birori bizabera muri Kigali Convention Centre ku ya 24 Gashyantare 2018.


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Icyitonderwa:Inama k’umusore cyangwa umukobwa udafite umugabo/umugore
Iki gitekerezo cyo kwifuza guswera gishobora kuba kijya kiguca mu mutwe ndetse kenshi. Ni byiza kandi nta kintu bitwaye, ntawe bitabaho. Ni ikimenyetso cy’uko uri muzima kandi ko abantu bafite amahirwe yo kugwira mu minsi iri imbere.
Ariko nagira ngo tuganire ku cyo wifuza icyo ari cyo. Kuko ngo umusore umuhana avayo ntumuhana ajyayo, ariko sinifuza kuguhanura uvayo kuko hari ubwo amazi yaba yarenze inkombe cyangwa amagara yasesekaye atakiyowe, kandi akarenze umunwa karushya ihamagara.
Guhuza ibitsina ni ibintu byiza bifitiye akamaro ikiremwamuntu ndetse n’izindi nyamanswa kuko bituma byororoka, ku bantu ho binatuma bishimisha bakanaruhuka bikegeranya abantu.
Guhuza ibitsina kimwe n’ibindi bintu biryoha mu buzima abantu bakunda bishobora kukugira umugaragu uramutse utabikoresheje uko bikwiye, ukaba wabikunda kurusha uko abandi babikunda mu buryo busanzwe bikamenyekana hanze ukaba iciro ry’umugani bagatangira kukwita ruboro, runagana, ngo akunda icyamubyaye, ngo uwamuha akagituramo(igituba); waba uri umukobwa bati bamuvuniyemo urwembe.
Iyo imyitwarire yawe yarengeje urugero ku buryo bigaragara hanze bikivanga n’imirimo yawe cyangwa bikayica hari ikiba kitagenda neza uba utangiye gutegekwa n’igitsina aho kugitegeka,uba ugomba kwisubiraho cyangwa ukisuzumisha.
Urashaka guswera/guswerwa ndetse no
kunyaza/kunyazwa?Urabishaka cyane, imboro yakureze,cyangwa umusonga mu gituba ukumereye nabi, uritonde nujya guswera ntuzaswere igituba cyangwa ngo wendwe n’imboro bya mbere bizagutunguka imbere kuko imboro si imboro kuko ari imboro cyangwa igituba kuko gisatuye nk’uko dukunze kubiteramo igiparu.
Oya,umugore si amabere n’ihene igira abiri , nubwo zose zinagana siko zimya.Uti ‘urarengera dusanzwe ibyo tubizi”nyamara urambeshya,imibare y’abantu baryamye mu bitaro igaragaza ko abantu batazi gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ifite umutekano, inyigisho nk’izi abantu barazumva ariko kubishyira mu bikorwa bikananirana.
KUKI BINANIRANA?
Nkuko nabivuze haruguru,igitsina kiraryoha kandi kigira imbaraga nyinshi zituma umuntu ashobora guhubuka mu mwanya ashyutswe akaba yakora igikorwa kimunezeza aka kanya, amaso agahuma ,agacika intege zo gutekereza, akayoborwa n’imbaraga z’igitsina, ejo umushyukwe wamushiramo ,agasa n’uwasindutse inzoga akicuza impamvu yabikoze.Njyewe byambayeho.Ndicuza biba iby’ubusa. Baca umugani mu giswahili ngo “Majuto ni mjukuu.”
Gushyukwa bituma imisemburo,izamuka mu mubiri,amaraso akuzura mu mitsi y’ibitsina, umuntu agahumeka cyane ku buryo gutekereza kuri ejo hazaza biba bigoye.Muri uwo mwanya umugabo aba yimirije igituba imbere n’umukobwa yimirije imboro imbere ku buryo nta kindi ubwonko buba bugitekereza. Umuntu agomba kugira imyitwarire mu byerekeranye n’igitsina atarashyukwa ngo ajye ahora yiteguye ku buryo ashobora no kurota arimo guhuza ibitsina akaba yatekereza ku gakingirizo cyangwa niba ibyo agiye gukora nta ngaruka byamugirira. Wari warota wenda guswera cyangwa guswerwa ukabyibazaho?
Kwihangana no gutekereza ufite umushyukwe ukumereye nabi biragora pe, umuntu aba yumva igituba icyo ari cyose yabona yagiswera, niyo mpamvu uzabona hari
-abafata abana ku ngufu, bafatwa bagahabwa ibihano biremereye
-abafata abagore ku ngufu
-abahuza ibitsina birengagije agakingirizo ngo ntibashaka kurira umunyu mu ishashi
-abafata abana babo ku ngufu
Niba wumva ushaka guswera koko dore ibyo ugomba kwitwararika
-menya amateka y’uwo mu bikorana
-koresha agakingirizo
-ifate, reka guswera, nta mupfu w’imboro
–ikinishe
-niba ukiri muto, ba uretse ibyo gukora imibonano ubanze ukure .


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Imikoreshereze y’ubwizigame : Ushobora kugira ubwizigame mu mafaranga, uba ukiyafiteho uburenganzira iyo ushaka kuyakoresha, biragusaba kugira ikarita kugira ngo ubashe kugera ku bwizigame.
SHEKI :
Uzagira agatabo ka Sheki mu kwishyura sheik yishyura bitewe n’ubwzigame, kandi iyi igira umumaro cyane mu by’amabanki, uzita cyane kuri Sheki kandi ntukandike ibyo ubonye byose kuri aka gatabo, iyo ufite agatabo ka Sheki, ushobora kwaka inguzanyo, biragusaba kuvuga amafaranga arenze ayo wari ufite, kugira ngo ugere ku yindi iyenga inguzanyo zigira izindi ngaruka zihambaye tuzirinde rero.
UKO BIKORWA :
Ugomba kuzuza umubre kugira ngo ufungure ubwizigame, biragusaba gutanga iminsi 32 cyangwa 60 kugira ngo ubare uhereye ku bwizigame, ubu ni ubwizigame bwiza ku gihembwe gito, kuko ntiwaka amafaranga bikoroheye kandi yabyazamo ibyiza.
UBWIZIGAME BUHAMYE :
Ubu nabwo busaba ingengo ishyitse, bizasaba ko ushobora kwaka amafaranga nyuma y’igihe cyagenwe, buri gihe amezi 12 cyangwa 24. uzabyishimira, bizatuma ubwizigame buba bwiza mu gihembwe hagati.
UBUFATANYE MU BWIZIGAME :
Ibi bigaragra iyo abantu benshi bishyize hamwe, bakabitsa amafaranga muri rusange.
INGUZANYO MU RUGO :
Aya n’amafaranga Banki ikuguriza ku bwawe ukazayishyura mu myaka myinshi, akenshi nka 20, ukazungukira Banki.


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1.Amavu n’amavuko ya Youth Union: Hagamijwe gushyiraho umuryango uhuza urubyiruko rw’Abangilikani muri Diyoseze ya Kigali nk’uko habaho imiryango y’abakuze ari yo Mothers Union, Fathers’ union, ….. Uyu muryango uzafasha itorero kumenya urubyiruko rwaryo uko rungana; kuruha umwanya wo kugira uruhare mu guteza imbere umurimo w’Imana.
Urubyiruko ruri muri Youth Union, ruzajya rwigishwa, rwinjizwe n’abayobozi b’itorero, ruzagendera ku ntego zimwe muri paruwase zose za EAR Kigali, rugire ibiruranga bimwe, imiyoborere isa kandi runagire igenamigambi rizajya risuzumwa.
2.Intego:
I.Ko habaho ibikorwa bihoraho kandi bigera ku rubyiruko rwose rwacu.
II.Gushishikariza no guha urubyiruko rwacu umwanya wo gukora no kubatoza kuba abayobozi (Natwe tugatunga imyirondoro).
III.Kubakundisha gusoma ijambo ry’Imana; kubabwiriza ubutumwa bwiza binyuze mu nzira zitandukanye no kubafasha gukura nk’abigishwa ba Yesu.
IV.Kubakundisha itorero Anglikani no gukbatoza umurimo w’Imana.
3.Umurongo wa Bibiliya tugenderaho: Abakolosayi 3: 17 “Kandi icyo muzavuga cyose n’ibyo muzakora; mujye mubikora byose mw’izina ry’Umwami Yesu, mushima Imana Data wa twese kubw’uwo. ”
4.Ni bande bazaba bari muri Youth Union:
I. Urubyiruko rw’abangilikane rufite guhera ku myaka 14 kugera kuri 35, rubatijwe kandi binjijwe muri uyu muryango ku mugaragaro. Abubatse ingo bazajya bashishikarizwa kujya muri Mothers’ Union na Fathers’ union.
II. Abanyamuryango bashya bazajya bigishwa imyemerere n’amahame y’itorero Anglikane. Ndetse n’imyizerere igenga Abanglikane.
III. Haziyongeraho urubyiruko rucukijwe ruvuye muri Sunday school. Ruzajya rwakirwa na bakuru barwo; rushyirirweho ibikorwa bigenewe ingimbi n’abanyeshuri bo mu mashuri yisumbuye.
IV. Ni ngombwa ko urubyiruko rwibumbiye muri Youth Union ruzasabwa byibuza kugira uruhare muri kimwe mu bikorwa by’itorero. (ivugabutumwa, uburirimbyi, inyigisho za Bibiliya, gufasha abababaye, ………)
V. Hazabaho umusanzu uzatangwa na buri munyamurwango wa Youth Union.
5.Imiyoborere.
Hazabaho komite ya Youth Union guhera ku rwego rw’ikanisa; igizwe n’abantu bakurikira ]:
i. Umuhuzabikorwa (Ubuvugizi, guhuza imirimo, amahugurwa)
ii. Umunyamabanga (imyirondoro y’abanyamuryango, gutanga amakarita y’abanyamuryango, inyandikomvugo z’inama)
iii. Umubitsi (kubika umutungo :Imisanzu ya buri mwaka, amafaranga yaguzwe amakarita).
iv. Ushinzwe iterambere ryo mu Mwuka (Amasengesho, inyigisho za Bibiliya, ivugabutumwa; isanamitima n’ubwiyunge).
v. Ushinzwe iterambere no gufasha abababaye (imirimo ibyara inyungu, kwizigama no kwihangira imirimo).
vi. Ushinzwe imyidagaduro (Boys and girls brigade, amakipe y’umupira w’amaguru n’ibindi, imbyino za kinyarwanda).
vii. Ushinzwe abanyeshuri n’ingimbi.
Icyitonderwa:
Izi komite zizasimbura komite zari zisanzwe ziyobora urubyiruko kandi zizajya zitorwa n’urubyiruko rwinjijwe muri Youth Union. Nta muntu
Komite izajya igira manda y’ imyaka 2; nta muntu wemerewe gutorerwa inshuro zirenze ebyiri zikurikiranye.
Komite zo ku rwego rwa paruwase zizajya zitorwa n’abagize iz’amakanisa.
Komite zo ku rwego rw’ubucidikoni zizajya zitorwa n’abagize iz’amaparuwase.
Komite zo ku rwego rwa diyoseze zizajya zitorwa n’abagize iz’amaparuwase.
6.IBIRANGA ABAGIZE YOUTH UNIONS:
Furari (Scarf)- Amabara azavugwaho anemezwe mu nama zizagenda zitegurwa.
Ikarita y’umunyamuryango na Certificates.
Umudari.
Iniforume: Amabara azemezwa n’abanyamuryango.
Ikirangantego.
Imisanzu no kwitabira inama z’abanyamuryango.
7.IMIHIGO NA RAPORO Z’IBIKORWA:
Buri rwego ruzajya rushyikiriza ururukuriye raporo ya buri mezi ane (Igihembwe). Hazakurikizwa urupapuro rutanzwe n’ishami ry’urubyiruko n’abana muri EAR DIyoseze ya Kigali. Isuzumwa ry’imihigo rizajya rikorwa ku buryo bw’irushanwa; paruwase yarushije izindi igenerwe agashimwe.
Bikorewe I Kigali kuwa 30/09/2013
Tuyizere Manasseh
Umuyobozi w'ishami ry'urubyiruko n'abana


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Ubusanzwe abantu bafite ukwezi guhindagurika bamenya iminsi y’uburumbuke bakoresheje formule yo gufata ukwezi kugufi bagakuramo iminsi 18 n’iminsi myinshi y’ukwezi bagakuramo 11. Ku bafite ukwezi kudahinduka bashobora uburyo bukurikira.
umugore washatse cyangwa se umukobwa ukiri ingaragu akaba agira ukwezi kutajya guhinduka, buri gihe akaba yagira nk’ukwezi kw’iminsi 30, formule ye itandukanye n’isanzwe , we afata iminsi ye agakuramo 14, hanyuma iminsi ye yo gusamamo(y’uburumbuke) ikaba ihereye imbere y’iyo minsi ho3, na nyuma y’iyo minsi ho 3, akongeraho umunsi umwe umwe wo kwiteganyiriza.
Ni ukuvuga ngo afata 30-14=16, noneho iminsi y’uburumbuke ye igahera kuri 16-4=12, maze ikazarangira kuri 16+4=20. Ni ukuvuga ko uyu we iminsi ye y’uburumbuke ihera ku munsi wa 12, ikagenda ikarangira ku munsi wa 20, wibuka ko umunsi wa mbere ari uwo umugore yaboneyeho imihango.
Cyangwa se nanone, nawe agakoresha iriya formule, agafata ya minsi ye itajya ihinduka na rimwe agakuramo 18, akongera akayifata agakuramo 11, iminsi abonye hagati aho ni iyo kwifatamo. Urugero, 30-18=12, 30-11=19, ukongeraho umunsi wo kwizera, iminsi y’uburumbuke igahera ku munsi wa 12 kugera ku munsi wa 20.
Icyitonderwa : Iyi formule ntikoreshwa n’abantu bagiye kwa muganga gufata uburyo bwo kuboneza urubyaro, kuko n’iyo wabukoreshaga noneho ukazabuhagarika, nawe urongera ukabanza ukamenya ngo ukwezi kwawe kuzajya kureshya gute, ukamara nibura umwaka ubara, kuko nyuma yo guhagarika iriya miti ukwezi kwawe gushobora guhinduka ntikungane nk’uko kwahoze mbere.
Aho iyi formule yavuye he ?
Ubundi buri mugore wese, iyo intanga imaze kurekurwa (le jour de l’ovulation), hashira iminsi 14 hanyuma akabona imihango. Kandi umugore ashobora gusama iminsi 3 mbere y’irekurwa ry’intanga (mbere y’uko ovulation iba), kuko intangangabo iyo zigeze mu mubiri we zitegereza iminsi 3 zitarapfa, maze intangangore yazarekurwa igasanga zirahari, zirarekereje, imwe murizo ikaba ihuye na ya ntangangore, umugore akaba arasamye.
Hanyuma kandi ashobora gusama iminsi ibiri nyuma y’irekurwa ry’intanga, kuko intangangore nayo iyo irekuwe idahita ipfa. Bityo muri iyo minsi ibiri imara igifite ubuzima, iyo umugore akoze imibonano mpuzabitsina, intangangabo zigera mu myanya myibarukiro ye zisiganwa, hanyuma zigasanga intangangore yamaze kurekurwa kera, ni uko imwe murizo ikaba ihuye na ya ntangangore, umugore akaba arasamye.
Iminsi y’uburumbuke k’umugore ufite ukwezi kudahinduka
Ubusanzwe abantu bafite ukwezi guhindagurika bamenya iminsi y’uburumbuke bakoresheje formule yo gufata ukwezi kugufi bagakuramo iminsi 18 n’iminsi myinshi y’ukwezi bagakuramo 11. Ku bafite ukwezi kudahinduka bashobora uburyo bukurikira.
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Twandikire kuri
Hari abantu benshi bahora bibona nk’aho batajya bagira amahirwe mu rukundo, igihe cyose bakundanye ntibimare kabiri! ndetse bamwe batangira kugira abo bahimbira ko babatera umwaku kandi byahe biragatabwa.
Tuzi twese ko kugirango urukundo rw’abantu babiri bakundana (ndavuga umusore n’inkumi) rurambe kandi rukomere, habamo ubufasha bw’Imana ariko na none natwe tugomba kugira uruhare mu burambe bw’urukundo rwacu, ibyo rero bihera ku buryo usanzwe ubana n’abantu, ariko na kamere usanganywe iba ifite uruhare runini ku mahirwe make cyangwa menshi uzagira mu rukundo rwawe n’umusore cyangwa inkumi.
Ubushize naberetse uburyo umukobwa ashobora kubwira cyangwa kwereka umusore ko amukeneyeho urukundo, ubu noneho ngiye kubagira inama 7 z’uburyo urukundo rwawe rushobora kuramba ukava mu guhora umarana n’inshuti amezi abiri gusa waba uri umukobwa cyangwa umusore.
1. Kuva mu rukundo rw’umuriro ugurumana ukajya ku rukundo rutuje kandi rufite gahunda nziza
Iyo mugitangira gukundana muba mwumva mufite urukundo rufite ibirimi by’umuriro, mutwika ikibakozeho cyose! mbese hamwe wumva mugenzi wawe nta kindi yakora uretse kukwicara iruhande, urwo rukundo ruramutse rukomeje gutyo ntirwaramba cyane. Gukunda bimara igihe, bisaba kumenya kugenda uva kuri iryo tanura mu mezi ya mbere ugenda uganisha ku rukundo rushyira mu gaciro kandi rutagambiriye kwiyamamaza, hahandi buri wese aba atangiye kumva no kwemera ko atandukanye na mugenzi we kandi akubaha iryo tandukaniro kuko abantu badashobora gutera kimwe. Muri make ugomba gukunda mugenzi wawe uko ateye kose atari ukumukundira gusa kuza kuzuza ibyo ubuze wamara kubibona ukamutera ishoti !
2.Rekera aho kumva ko mu rukundo rwa mwembi inyungu zawe arizo zigomba kubanza
Kugirango mwizere uburambe bw’urukundo rwanyu, mugomba kugenda murema buhoro buhoro imibanire ya couple ntangarugero, aho umwe agira uburyo abyitwaramo ariko undi nawe agasanga yiyumvamo ubwo buryo bwa mugenzi we.Mbese ugakunda uwo mubano wanyu nk’uko ukunda mugenzi wawe cyangwa wikunda nawe ubwawe.
3. Emera Kwishyira ukizana kwa mugenzi wawe(liberté)
Nyabuneka emera ko mugenzi wawe umumenye akuze kandi ko aho yinyujije hose utari uri kumwe nawe. Igihe mumaze gukundana rero wishaka noneho kumuzirika ngo umuheze umwuka ntutume akomeza gusabana n’inshuti ze bashobora kuba barananyuranye mu bundi buzima bukomeye utazi. Igihe utangiye gushaka ko avugana cyangwa agendana n’abo uzi cyangwa ushaka gusa, ndakurahiye urwo rukundo ushaka ni wowe urimo kuruniga! Ha mugenzi wawe icyizere, nawe niba agukunda ntazaguhemukira kandi nawe ni mukuru azi ubwenge.
4. Ganira bitomoye na mugenzi wawe(communication claire)
Gukunda mugenzi wawe ntibivuze ko wowe wiyanga, ni ngombwa ko uganiriza umukunzi wawe ugaragaza udaciye ku ruhande ibyifuzo byawe, ibyiyumviro, kandi ukirinda kuvangira imibanire ye n’abandi(aha ntibivuze ko utamucyebura igihe atangiye kurengera ariko nabwo ukabikora mu kinyabupfura). Iyo kandi ni inzira nziza yo gufasha umukunzi wawe kumenya aho uhagaze n’urwego ugezeho bityo bikamworohera nawe kukubwira byose atishisha.
5. Garagaza ubushake bwo kugumana nawe(simvuga kugumana nawe mwicaranye mu gashyamba)!
Hejuru yo kuba mukundana urukundo rutuje, kumarana igihe kini mukundana bigaburira neza imishinga yanyu, bituma muhora muhuriza inyungu zanyu ahantu hamwe(nta wihagararaho ngo yange kuva kw’izima), ndetse biranaborohera guhangana n’inzitizi muhura nazo kuko muba mufatanyije.Kumarana igihe rero byubaka icyizere gikomeye kuko buri wese aba abona undi amufitiye akamaro kanini, kandi burya umubano umaze igihe biragoye ko bamwe baba babafitye amashyari babasha kuwusenya biboroheye.
6. Jya ugerageza kugira ibitekerezo bishya mu mubano wanyu
Kugirango wirinde imitego yo kuba mu buzima bumwe(routine), kora uko ushoboye nka nyuma y’igihe runaka ugire agashya wazana mu mubano wanyu kandi ntugatinye kumutungura(surprise) aha ntimukumve ko surprises ari ukuzimya amatara ukaririmba joyeux anniversaire gusa! ushobora gutunguza mugenzi wawe utuntu twinshi kandi duto ariko tukamushimisha cyane ku buryo bifasha kumarana igihe kinini mukundana. Niba ubishoboye jya ugerageza kumusetsa (simvuga kumukirigita nubwo nabyo haba igihe cyabyo) mbese uhorane imvugo ituma umuntu ahora yishimye, ujye umuha uduparu rimwe narimwe ariko atari buri saha, agomba kujya abikumbura akaba aribwo ubikora, kandi nko mu bihe byanyu byiza ujye umenya ibyo yifuza kandi ubyubahe ntushake gushyira imbaraga mu bintu kandi atabishaka.
7. Ntugatinye gufashwa
Burya inshuti zose ziba zitandukanye kuko buri wese aza afite amateka yanyuzemo. Kugirango rero ubashe kongera kuganira neza nka mbere, wongere wumve wishimiye couple yawe cyangwa ubashe kurenga ibigeragezo, ntutinye rwose kwakira ubufasha bw’inzobere. Rimwe na rimwe inama z’inzobere (nk’abahanga mu bya thérapie) zijya zibasha kuvanaho cyangwa guhindura imyumvire itari myiza abantu baba bafite ku bintu runaka ndetse izo nama zikaba zanafasho kongera kubyutsa urukundo rwanyu iyo rutangiye kugenda munzi y’ibirenge byanyu aho kugirango rubagaragare mu maso.
Ndizera neza ku igihe mushoboye kugera kuri ibi byose maze kubabwira, nta kabuza urukundo rwanyu ruzaba rutoshye pe! kandi nibigira icyo bikumarira ntuzatinye kuba wabitangamo ubuhamya kugirango bikomeze bifashe n’abandi.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010SOBANUKIRWA NO GUKUNA /GUCA IMYEYO
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Gukuna, ese byaba bigifite akamaro muri iki gihe?
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Gukuna nibyo mu Kinyarwanda gisa n’igitsinda bita guca imyeyo. Uyu akaba ari umuhango wakorwaga kuva kera mu Rwanda rwo hambere, ukozwe n’abakobwa bakibyiruka, ngo bitegurira kuzaryohereza abagabo babo mu gihe cyo gutera urubariro. Ikirenze kuri ibi, cyane cyane ko nta makariso yabagaho, iyi mishino umukobwa yabaga yagwije ngo yari umwambaro. Mbese yahishaga ubwambure bwe.
Mbere yo kureba niba guca imyeyo bigifite akamaro no muri iki gihe, reka tubanze turebe uko kera byakorwaga. Ubundi mu Rwanda rwo hambere kugirango umukobwa akune yabibwirizwaga na bagenzi be. Abandi bakobwa. Cyangwa se akanabigana yifuza kumera nkabo. Muri icyo gihe, umukobwa ukiri muto bamubuzaga gukuna ngo bitazamuca umugongo cyangwa se akamera amabere hakiri kare. Kuko umwana w’umukobwa yatangiraga kwambara uruhu rugufi yikingaga ku gitsina atangiye kumera insya, icyo gihe nibwo yatangiraga kubwirizwa gukuna, mbese ageze mu bwangavu. Ni mu kigero cy’imyaka 12 na 13.
Bavuga ko uwo mwana w’umukobwa iyo yakunaga aribwo amabere ye nayo yatangiraga gututumba, akongera agasubirayo, akongera akagaruka. Muri ibyo bihe agahita abona n’imihango. Cyangwa se akajya i mugongo. Iyo yabaga ageze cya gihe cy’ubwangavu rero, nibwo wasangaga ba nyina wabo, ba nyirasenge, ba nyirarume na ba nyirakuru batangira kumushishikariza gukuna mu marenga. Bagatangira kumwivugishaho ngo “wowe ko utajyana n’abandi bakobwa guca imyeyo bite byawe?” Aha hakaba hashobora kuba ari naho havuye iri zina ryo guca imyeyo, aho kuvuga gukuna.
Iyo babonaga ashobora kuba adakuna, babwiraga abandi bakobwa ngo bazamusuzume barebe. Bakamubwira ngo aze kubaraza, maze ninjoro bakamukabakaba bakareba. Basanga adakuna, bakabibwira mama we, ubwo akamutonganya cyane. Abo anyuzeho bose muri wa muryango we bakamubwira ibyo, kugeza igihe akuniye bubi na bwiza.
Uko gukuna byakorwaga
Muri uku gukuna, abakobwa babaga bafite amagambo bavuga, bakagira ibyo bifashisha mu gukuna, ndetse bakagira n’ibyo baziririza. Mu gihe bageze aho bakunira, hiherereye hatagera izuba nko munsi y’umukingo, ahameze nk’ubuvumo, izuba ryaba rihagera kandi bakicara bariteye umugongo, kuko ngo iyo izuba ryakurasaga mu gitsina utagwizaga, ngo ryarenganaga n’ibintu byawe.
Bamara kuhagera bakiyambura, maze imyambaro bakayirekurira rimwe. Ibi babikoreraga ko ngo utanze abandi kwiyambura ariwe wabatangaga no kugwiza, kandi bose babaga bashaka kuzagwiriza rimwe. Iyo myambaro yabo rero bakayisasa bakayicarira, udashaka kuwicarira akareba ibiti bifite amababi manini akaba ariyo yicarira. Ngo cyaraziraga nta mukobwa wakunaga akenyeye.
Buri mukobwa yagombaga kuba afite ibikunisho. Muri ibi bikunisho hashoboraga kubamo intobo yokeje, wasigagaho ugakururisha ngo kugirango ugwize vuba. Intobo yasabaga gushinyiriza no kwihangana kuko iryana. Hari na none utundi tubabi tw’utwatsi dutandukanye abakobwa bashoboraga kuvangavanga, bakatureka tukuma noneho bakadusya tugahinduka ifu, ako gafu bakakavanga n’amavuta y’inka maze bagakunisha.
Tumwe muri utwo tubabi twarimo misunditatu, ngingwijana n’utundi. Abakobwa barangije gukuna bashoboraga no gukurakuza. Ibingibi kukaba kwari ugusiganaho ibitsina byabo (nk’abakora imibonano), babiri babiri, ngo umwe akaba ari kongerera mugenzi we. Iyo nanone babaga bageze nko ku ruzi, bashoboraga gufata inyagaruzi bakayishyira ku moko y’ibere ngo irirume hanyuma rizakure vuba.
Uretse uku gukuna bisanzwe, ngo hari n’indi mihango yakorwaga: Guhaguruka agasimbiza ya myenda yari yicariye ngo ibyo ni ugukuza ibintu bye ngo bijye ejuru. Hanyuma akunama cyane agakoza ibiganza hasi avuga amagambo bucece, agapfukama agakubita ku bibero bye akavuga andi bityo bityo.
Yarangizaga gukuna agakubita utugeri hasi akazamura agatsinsino akagakoza mu ntege ati “sindega ikicaro cy’undi ngo ahebe. Umukobwa arahanyura akanyongerera, n’umugore akahanyura akanyongerera. » Yarangiza akarundarunda neza ubwatsi yari yicariye agasubira muri ya magambo. Yarangizaga ibyo byose ngo akahabyinira akadiho yishimira ko yagwijije cyangwa se ko azagwiza vuba, ni uko ati “agati gaciye ntikabura izuba”.
Abakobwa benshi bagiye kurangiza guca imyeyo umwe yabwiraga undi ngo « amashyo n’amagana”, undi ati “amagana yuzukuruke imishino”. Maze bagataha. Bararangizaga bagahagurukira rimwe ntawe utanze undi ngo bazagwirize rimwe.
Uko abakobwa bakuna bapimaga imishino yabo ngo barebe ko yagwiriye. Bakoreshaga urutoki rwa musumbazose. Ugasanga hari ugifite agace k’ingingo, undi amaze kugira ingingo imwe cyangwa ebyiri, bityo bityo. Iyo imishino y’umukobwa yareshyaga n’urutoki rwe rwa musumbazose yabaga agwijije.
Gukuna muri iki gihe, ese byaba bigifite akamaro?
Muri iyi minsi ya vuba rero, aho abakobwa bambara bakiri bato, abagikuna ngo batangira gukuna bakiri bato, ku myaka irindwi n’umunani. Akenshi ugasanga babibavanye ku bakozi bo mu rugo ku babafite, cyangwa se ku banyeshuri bagenzi babo.
Usanga rero hari abantu benshi bakibaza niba gukuna byaba bifite akamaro. Tugendeye ku byavuzwe, ngirango wumvise ko abanyarwanda ba kera basaga n’abatekereza ko gukuna bifite akamaro ko gutuma umukobwa amera amabere, ko gutuma abona imihango, ko gutuma igitsina cye gitegurwa neza bityo akazaryohereza umugabo, ndetse no gutuma atambara ubusa, mbese iyo mishino ikamwambika.
Ikindi nanone, ngo iyi mishino yatumaga umugabo abasha kunyaza neza. Ibi byose, dukuyemo kwambara, usanga ubundi atari ibintu umuntu ashobora kugira icyo akora ngo bize. Ahubwo ni ibintu Imana yakoze, bizira igihe runaka wabishaka utabishaka, bitewe n’imisemburo iri mu mubiri iba itangiye gukora.
Ibi nibyo Mwarimu umwe wigisha ubuzima bw’imyororokere ku kigo cy’amashuri i Rushara yagerageje gusobanurira abanyeshuri yigishya muri aya magambo, « Nanjye abagore b’abarokore barambajije ngo utarabikoze ko adahama iy’umugabo, tubigenze gute, dukune, tubireke ? Utarakunnye usanga abandi bamutera ubwoba. Ubwo ariko naje kubona umugore ubyaye inshuro zirindwi atarakunnye kandi nta kibazo yigeze agirana n’umugabo, byaba kumushimisha byaba no mu kubyara, maze araza abaha ubuhamya. Ibi Imana yabikemuye mbere y’igihe.
Hari imisemburo iba mu mubiri, igihe cy’ubwangavu itangira gukora. Igatuma amabere akura, igatuma ama tailles aza, uko itegura aho ngaho akaba ari nako iyo misemburo itegura ibitsina. Urugero ni ihene igiye kwima. Aho isekurume iri bwinjirize haba hahindutse, haje n’ibintu by’ururenda rwinshi. Ese hari uba yayikozeho ? Uko niko no ku muntu byikora, ururenda mu gitsina rukaza, ugakora imibonano nta kibazo ufite. »
Nk’uko uyu mwarimu abivuga rero, ni uko bimeze. Hari imisemburo ikora akazi ko gutuma umugore aba umugore wizihiye urugo. Kwambara rero ntibikiri ngombwa kuko ubu dufite amakariso atwambika. Gushyukwa, kunyara, kwizihirwa, byose bituruka ku ngano y’imisemburo umugore aba afite mu mubiri ntabwo bituruka ku kuba yarakunnye cyangwa se atarakunnye.
Reka nkubwire ko abagore bagera muri 80% banyara cyangwa bakishima bazana ururenda rwinshi mu gitsina ruryoshya imibonano bakubiwe kuri rugongo (clitoris) ntago ari ku mishino. Abandi nabo hafi 20% bakaryoherwa muri ubwo buryo ari uko igitsina gabo kinjiye imbere (gucumita). Ibuka ko na kera na kare ba mukagatare (abagore batagira ububobere mu gitsina) bahozeho kandi barakunnye. Iyo ubwo bubobere utabugira nturyoshya kandi nawe nturyoherwa mu mibonano, waba warakunnye cyangwa se utarakunnye ; kimwe n’uko iyo ugira ububobere buhagije mu gutsina uryoshya byanze bikunze, waba warakunnye cyangwa se utarakunnye.
Gukuna rero, ntago ari ngombwa habe na mba kugirango umugore yizihire urugo.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Ni gute wakwerekana ukwiyizera imbere y’inkumi?
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Iyo uganiriye na bamwe mu basore b’iki gihe usanga baba bimyoza ngo “wapi shahu, abakobwa b’ubu nta rukundo bakigira, basigaye bikundira cash…” Bishatse kuvuga ko umusore utari umunyamafaranga nta mukobwa yabona. Ibi bituma abahungu bamwe bicara bakituriza bakumva ko kugira umukobwa w’inshuti ntacyo bitwaye, kuko amategeko y’umukino yahindutse.
Nyamara n’ubwo bigaragara ko hari abakobwa bamwe bagaragaza umururumba w’amacash (nta banga ririmo, uvuze ko nyirurugo yapfuye siwe…), kuvuga ko ariyo baheraho yonyine bakunda abahungu ni ukwibeshya cyane, ni nko koroshya ibintu ugashinja abantu bose ikosa rimwe. Ni n’urwitwazo…
Niba uri umusore, hari ibintu wakora ugakurura inkumi (nyinshi cyane) nk’umurobyi uzamura ifi n’iyo waba udasa na Meddy cyangwa Will Smith, n’iyo waba udafite amakamyo ajya Mombasa cyangwa etaje muri Matheus…Ibyo bintu ni byinshi, uwabivuga bwacya, hari n’ababyandikaho ibitabo bikagurishwa cyane, ariko icya mbere ni ukwiyizera.
Musore, niba utiyizera, ngo wiyemere (si ukwirarira mvuga) ntugirengo hari uzakwemera. Uretse n’abakobwa, n’abahungu bagenzi bawe bakubona nk’umuntu udafatika…Gusa twese ntitwaremwe kimwe, ariko niyo waba wigirira isoni hari uko wabigenza ukagaragara inyuma nk’uwiyizeye. Ibyo nibyo bita body language cyangwa language du corps.
Ubundi iyo uvugana n’abantu cyangwa uhura nabo, hari message ubaha kubera ukuntu uba ureba cyangwa ugaragara inyuma, iyo niyo body language. Ku musore rero, uko ugaragara bifite akamaro cyane imbere y’inkumi cyangwa y’undi muntu uwariwe wese.
Uko wabigenza
Niba winjiye ahantu cyangwa uri kugenda mu nzira, genda wemye, agatuza (uko kangana kose) kareze imbere ariko udakabije na none. Huza amaso n’abantu bose muhuye, cyane cyane ab’igitsina gore (ibi ntibivuze ko ugomba kurebuzwa, shyiramo discipline, wikabya).
Nuhuza amaso n’umukobwa ubona ko ari mwiza, murebe kugeza igihe arebeye hasi (indoro yawe igomba kuba iri relaxed nk’aho ari ibisanzwe, nta munya urimo). Ibi bizaguha imbaraga nyinshi ku buryo uzagenda ubimenyera, wumve ko uri umuntu ukomeye; hagati aho nukurizamo kwirata ni akazi kawe, uzasubizwa hasi…
- Jya ugenda buri gihe witonze, udaca ibiti n'amabuye. Abagore bakunda umuntu uri in control, ugaragaza ko ibintu byose nta kibazo bimuteye. Abagize amahirwe yo kureba James Bond (umugabo w’icyitegererezo mu kureshya abagore, n’ubwo atabaho bwose) mujye mureba uburyo yinjira ahantu yitonze, agakora ibintu byose yitonze,keretse wenda iyo bari kumutera amabombe… ;
Niba uri kugenda, itonde ushyire ukuguru imbere y'ukundi kandi urebe imbere. Niba ugiye kwicara, fata igihe cyanwe cyose, wikwiceka mu ntebe...Ibi ariko ntibivuze ko ugomba kuba akanyamasyo.
- Jya ugira urugwiro ku bantu bose, useke, ntuzinge umunya: ibi bizagaragaza ko nta bwoba ufite, kandi ko uri umuntu uri cool wibitsemo ubukungu. Uretse n’abagore, umuntu ugira urugwiro yishimirwa na bose, kandi bakamubona nk’uwiyizeye;
- Jya ureba abantu mu maso: nigeze kubivugaho, ariko ni ingenzi cyane. Niba usuhuje umukobwa cyangwa ugiye umusanga, murebe mu maso. Huza nawe amaso (contact visuel/eye contact) igihe cyose muri kumwe (ewana, wireba mu gatuza cyangwa ku munwa we). Ariko nanone numureba wiyaturumbura cyangwa ngo umurebe nabi, kuko aho waba uri umukozi wa Al Qayda aho kuba umu dragueur (player).
- Garagara nk’umuyobozi aho uri hose: abagore cyangwa abakobwa bakunda abantu bagaragara nk’abayobozi (leaders). Si ngombwa ko uba uyobora umurenge cyangwa kompanyi ikomeye, kuko ushobora kuba uyiyobora kandi nta kiranga ubuyobozi wigirira (leader's mindset). Kuba umuyobozi ni ukwerekana ko uzi icyo gukora muri ako kanya, kandi ugahita ugikora. Abakobwa bafite ukuntu bareba ibintu ako kanya ku buryo mu bahungu 5 bari kumwe, ashobora guhita abona ukwiye kwitwa leader kubera uburyo aba yitwaye ugereranyije n’abandi…Uwo ni wawundi ukora ibintu gahoro yitonze, akavuga atazamura ijwi, kandi bikagaragara ko abandi bamuteze amatwi.
- Niba ubonye umukobwa mwiza ugashaka kumuvugisha, bikore: nko mu birori, hari umusore uhagarara mu nguni akareba inkumi imwe ijoro ryose rikarangira nta jambo ayivugishije, agataha yicuza impamvu atabikoze…Niba udashaka kumera gutyo rero, igihe cyose ushakiye kuvugisha umukobwa, haguruka ugende umuvugishe cyangwa umusuhuze.
Ubundi icyiza ni uko ugomba kubikora nyuma y’amasegonda 4 ukibitekereza, iyo arenze utangira kuvuga ngo “ariko ndinze nkubitwa indobo…” ukabireka ukisubirira mw' irigara ry’abagenzi wa mugani w’umurundi. Nutinyuka ukabikora kenshi bizatuma icyizere cyizamuka wumve ko ari ibisanzwe.
Niba ufata abakobwa nk’ibigirwamana bizakugora kwiyizera imbere yabo. Banza wumve ko ari abantu, kandi bakenera kumenyana n’abantu ndetse no kuganira nabo. Numufata nk’ikigirwamana azahita abibona (buri mukobwa yigiramo radar ireba abanyabwoba) aguhe agaciro nk’ak’isarabwayi…Abakobwa nabo ni abantu, wasanga nawe aba ashaka ko umuvugisha yiraje i Nyanza, ariko ntuzategereze ko abikubwira... Ni inshingano zawe nk’umuntu w’umugabo gutera intambwe ya mbere, nibyo biranga aba leaders. Nutabikora hazaza undi mutipe agukorane, usigare uririra mu myotsi.
Monday, April 26, 2010
Ese urukundo rurambye ruracyabaho? cyangwa urukundo = Amafaranga ?
Iki ni ikibazo cyibazwa na buri muntu wese aho ari ku isi , ariko cyane cyane hano iwacu mu Rwanda aho hasigaye haradutse byinshi cyane bituma buri muntu asigaye avuga ko urukundo rutabaho. Iyo ubajije abasheshe akanguhe bakubwira ko urukundo ari ikintu cyiza kandi gifasha mu buzima. Umwe aherutse kuvuga ati " Agakecuru kanjye tumaranye imyaka 40 karankunda nanjye nkagakunda " bivuze ko muri iyo myaka 40 babanye neza mu rukundo. Nubwo baca umugani mu kinyarwanda ngo ntazibana zidakomanya amahembe. Urubyiruko rero rwo hano hanze ntirubikozwa ko urukundo rubaho, ibi bikaba ari zimwe mu ngaruka z'ibyo baba babona hanze hano bigenda biba ku ba stars. Umusore mu minsi ishize yaganiye na mugenzi we ati shahu nkubwire njye mbona Tiger ari umugabo kabisa ntakuntu wakwizirika ku kantu kamwe ngo wumve uryohewe, ibi byahise byakirwa na mugenzi we kandi ubona ko abyishimiye cyane , aho we yamusubizaga ko nawe ariyo nzira yayobotse akaba abona bigenda , nuko amasomo aba aratangiye. Ikibabaje si ku ruhande rw'abahungu gusa usanga batemera ko urukundo rubaho, kuko no ku bakobwa naho usanga ari uko. Ibi bikaba nabyo bigaragarira mu ngero ngiye kubaha.Kera nkiri mu mashuri yisumbuye bamwe mu bakobwa bajyaga banganira ko ku bwabo bumva umugabo udafite agafaranga ntacyo bavugana, Ibi najyaga ngirango ni imikino ariko nyuma naje gusanga ariko bimeze, kuko hanze aha umukobwa muvugana wambaye neza kandi ufite agafaranga. Iyo ubashije kumva ibiganiro bamwe muri bashiki bacu baba bavuga iyo week end irangiye wagira ubwoba. Ukumva umwe ngo “Njyewe muri week-end hari ikigabo cyansohokanye ariko shahu naragikuye”, ukabona bose bamukuriye ingofero babyakiriye neza!!! Ibi bikaba byerekana ko bashiki bacu bamwe baba bishakira aho agafaranga kari kandi bakamenya kuba bikozeho bambaye neza. Hari uwigeze kunganiriza ambwira ko atabona ubwiza afite adakuye. Nahise mubaza niba yemera urukundo , yansubije byihuse ko kuri we urukundo ari amafaranga. Aha twakwibaza niba amafaranga = Urukundo ? Iki akaba ari ikibazo gikomeye gusubiza kandi gishyira benshi mu gihirahiro, aho baba badashobora kugira inshuti kubera uko bahagaze cyangwa se izo bafite zibaryarya kubera icyo bafite. Si mu rubyiruko gusa kuko no mu basheshe akanguhe iki kibazo gisigaye kihaba kandi kikaba kimaze kuba inkeke. Ujya kumva ukumva abasore barateruye bari kuganira bati " komera sha ngo wa musaza ugenda muri Benz niwe wakwatse copine wawe.” Byumvikana ko uwo mukobwa aba agiye ku muntu umuruta ushobora no kuba amubyaye. Aba basheshe akanguhe nabo nyuma yo kubona ko bahagurukiwe bakaba barize zimwe mu ngamba zikomeye , aho usanga umugabo wiyubashye w'imyaka 60 yasohokanye n'umunyeshuli uri kuramgiza Kaminuza w'imyaka 24. Ibi bikaba bimaze iminsi bigaragara cyane hano mu Rwanda. Aha nkaba nasoza mbwira urubyiruko ko urukundo rukiriho kandi ruzahoraho , igikomeye ni ukubasha gutoranya urufite mu baba baza bagusanga. Ikindi ni uko amafaranga n’ubwo ari ngombwa mu buzima, ntaho ahuriye n'urukundo na gato.
Posted by Gallican Masengesho at Monday, April 26, 2010
Labels: le Fantaisiste
Friday, March 26, 2010
INTAMBWE 13 ZO GUSOMANA N'UMUKUNZI WAWE
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Gusomana ni uburyo bwo kuvuga ibyo udashobora kwatuza amagambo! Muri iyi nkuru rero ikigamijwe si ugushishikariza abantu gusomana, gusa ntawakwirengagiza ko hariho ababikunda batari bake kandi bakeneye kugira icyo babimenyaho; niyo mpamvu twahisemu kubibabwira.
Ku muntu utarasomana ho na rimwe yumva gusomana bigoye. Ariko kandi ni byo. Gusoma umugore, umukobwa cyangwa umuhungu bwa mbere ntibyoroshye. Kubibona mu mashusho biroroshye, ariko kubishyira mu bikorwa ni ikindi kibazo. Iyi nkuru irakugezaho uburyo wakwitwara mu buryo bwo gusomana.
1. Ntabwo ugomba gusoma umukunzi wawe gusa ari uko mugiye guhuza igitsina. Gusomana bigomba gukorwa buri gihe nk'ikimenyetso cy'urukundo mufitanye.
2.Kugira ngo utigora mu gusomana, wikwishyiramo ibitekerezo byinshi byo gusomana nka kanaka wabonye cyangwa wumvise. Soma umukunzi wawe mu buryo busanzwe kandi bworoshye, umwereka ko umukunze.
3. Mbere y'uko usoma umukunzi wawe cyangwa undi muntu, ugomba kumenya niba abishaka. Ushobora kubimusaba cyangwa ukareba ibimenyetso byerekana ko agushaka nko kuba arimo kukwegera cyane cyangwa akumwenyurira ku buryo ubona ko agukunze.
4. Ntugatamire umunwa wose w'umukunzi wawe. Abagore ntibakunda umuntu ubasoma ku buryo iminwa itoha cyane.
5. Ntugakomeze iminwa yawe. Jya ureka iminwa yorohe. Ntugafunge iminwa yawe. Ugusoma agomba kumva iminwa yawe yoroshye, yirekuye kandi ishimishije, imutegereje.
6.Abagore benshi bakunze gusomwa banakorwa mu misatsi. Ntukibagirwe gukora mu misatsi y'umugore wawe cyangwa undi mukunzi.
7.Ntabwo ari ngombwa ko ukoresha ururimi kugira ngo gusomana biryohe. Gusomana kwinshi kuryoha ntigukoresha ururimi.
Gukoresha ururimi(French Kiss) biraryoha, ariko iyo umuntu abisobanukiwe neza. Niba utabisobanukiwe, byihorere gusomesha iminwa biraryoha na byo.
8. Iyo umaze kumenyerana n'umukunzi wawe ushobora kugerageza uburyo bwo gusomana bwabashimisha mwembi.
9.Ntugasuzugure gusomana: Ni ubryo bwo kuvuga ibyo udashobora kwatuza amagambo, ni ukumubwira ko umukunda kandi ko wifuza ko muba umwe. Abagabo benshi babona ko gusomana ari inzira ifite aho ibaganisha-ku gitsina. Ni byiza kubaha gusoma ukabikora ubikunze, iyo umugore abibonye ashobora kugusaba ko mujya mu yindi ntera.
10. Ni byiza gusomana uhumirije:
Ushobora gutangira gusomana ukanuye, ariko iyo iminwa imaze gukoranaho ni byiza gufunga amaso kuko bituma wibagirwa byose ugatekereza gusa ku gikorwa uba urimo. Abantu bakunze kuvuga ko niba umugabo arimo kugusoma areba ataba akwitayeho. Ni byo. Nuramuka urimo gusomana n'umuntu ukabona arakanuye uzamenye ko utamuba mu mutima!
11. Mbese urashaka ko agusoma? Mwegere. Umusekere, umurebe mu maso aho kureba hirya cyangwa hasi. Wikwipfumbata ahubwo irekure.
Mwegere, murebe, iyoroshye......
Ugomba kwerekana ibimenyetso by'uko ushaka ko agusoma . Ku bagore, niba wifuza ko umugabo agusoma ugomba kwicara umwegereye kandi umureba. Niba muhagaze ntugomba kumutera umugongo. Ahubwo uramwegera ukamureba mu maso!
Ushobora kumusaba ko agufungira neza iherena cyangwa akurebera niba urunigi rwawe rufunze neza! Kugira ngo abikore bisaba ko akuzengurutsa amaboko icyo gihe uhita umureba mu maso uteretse amaso ukamuhamagara mu izina n'akajwi koroshye. Ntiyabura kugusoma.
12. Gusomana n'igitsina bihurira he? Iyo musomanye cyane hari igihe muba mwumva mushatse kujya ku yindi ntera. Si byiza ko mujya mu yindi ntera mutabyiteguye, kubera ingaruka ziterwa no guhuza ibitsina bitateguwe. Ni byiza guhitamo gusomanira ahantu byatuma mudashobora guhuza ibitsina nko mu busitani bwa rusange cyangwa muri film. Gusomana mwicaye ku buriri akenshi bivamo guhuza igitsina.
13.Gira isuku! Ugomba koza mu kanwa kandi ukaba uhumura neza!
Posted by Gallican Masengesho at Friday, March 26, 2010
Labels: le Fantaisiste
Saturday, April 3, 2010MENYA UKO WANEZEZA UMUGORE WAWE,TANDUKANYA URUKUNDO NO KURYAMANA
Uburyo wanezeza umugore wawe
Kunezeza umugore wawe ni inshingano z'umugabo kimwe n'uko umugore agomba kwita ku mugabo we. Ikibazo gikunze kubaho ni uko ibinezeza umugore biba bitandukanye cyane n'ibyo umugabo atekereza, bishatse kuvuga ko abagabo benshi bibeshya mu gushaka kunyura abagore babo. Reka muri iyi nyandiko turebe uko bikwiye gukorwa.
Umunyabwenge Sigmund Freud wabayeho mu mwaka w'i 1856 kugeza mu mwaka w'1939, benshi bakunze kumusanga mu bitabo bitandukanye by'ubumenyamuntu (psychologie), ajya kurangiza ubuzima bwe, yagize ati “maze imyaka mirongo 30 nshakisha icyanyura umugore, ariko na nubu sindabasha gusubiza icyo kibazo. Mbese ni nde wambwira ikinyura umugore, akumva anezerewe?” Ushobora kwibwira uti hari kera, ariko ikibazo aho gukemuka, iyo witegereje, ubona kigenda kiyongera kuko muri iki gihe hari imvugo yateye ngo “zirara zishya, bwacya zikazima”. Aha kandi, ikigaragara ni uko bamwe mu bagabo bitotomba ngo abagore babo bashakira kunyurwa ku bandi bagabo, abandi bakabyemeza muri aya magambo ngo “nubona umugore n'umugabo bagenda baseka mu modoka, uzahite umenya ko atari uwe!” . Ariko ugerageje, ugashyira mu bikorwa bimwe mu bintu bigera kuri bitanu tugiye kubabwira, umugore wawe ntiyazarota areba ku ruhande, yewe keretse aka ya kamere bavuze ngo idakurwa na reka.
Kubemera Bibiliya yera, hari umurongo ugira ngo “Namwe bagabo ni uko, mubane n'abagore banyu, mwerekane ubwenge mu byo mubagirira kuko bameze nk'inzabya zidahwanije namwe gukomera, kandi mububahe… (1 Petero3: 7). Iyo ukomeje ugasoma, usanga umwanzuro w'ibi byanditswe ugaragaza ko iyo umugabo yerekana ubwenge ku mugore we, akamwubaha, akibuka ko ari impano ye ikomeye, ngo nta kabuza amasengesho ye ntazagira inkomyi ndetse no gusubizwa azasubizwa. Biratangaje cyane kubona ukuntu Bibiriya ipimira gusubizwa kw'amasengesho y'umugabo ikurikije uburyo anyura umugore we!
Uburyo bwa mbere rero bwo kunezeza uwo mwashakanye, mu yandi magambo umugore wawe, harimo kumutega amatwi. Ibyo bishatse kuvuga iki? Biravuze ngo umugabo yihatira kumva umugore we, amufashe mu byo akeneye, kuko, ibyo akeneye bityo bimutera kunyurwa mu buzima bwe. Umugabo agomba kumenya no kumva neza ibigoye umugore we, ibimubabaje, ibimushimishije kandi ibyo bisaba umugabo kubishyiraho umutima, akabyitaho kuko bidashoboka ko wanyura umugore wawe utazi ibyo akeneye.
Uburyo bwa kabiri ni ukubana nawe cyangwa se kuba hamwe nawe, bivuze gusangira byose. Aha harimo gufata igihe cyo kuba umugabo ari kumwe n'umugore we kuko rimwe na rimwe hari abagabo batabana n'abagore babo, mu by'ukuri, abenshi muri bo ni abafite akazi gakomeye, umunsi ushira undi ugataha, icyumweru kikarangira, ikindi kigatangira batabonana. Ni koko gukora ushakisha amafaranga yo kuzatunga urugo si bibi ariko ngo ikintu cyose kigira umwanya wacyo. Ibyo kandi akenshi byerekana ko bamwe mu bagabo batazi neza icyo kubana n'umugore bishakiye bivuga, kuko bitavuze kurarana ku buriri bumwe, kugendera mu modoka imwe, si no gutahana amakwe, yemwe, si no gusangirira ku meza amwe ahubwo birenze ibyo. Bivuga gukina nawe, kuruhuka hamwe, kunezezanya,…
Uburyo bwa gatatu ni ukubaha umugore. Mu bushakashatsi bwakozwe n'abahanga batandukanye bazobereye mu bijyanye n'ubumenyamuntu bashaka kumenya igituma abagore bamwe batiyubaha. Icya mbere babonye kibitera ngo ni ukutubahwa n'umugabo wamushatse. Uko umugabo yitwara ku mugore we cyangwa se uko amwitaho ni nako umugore we yiyubaha. Iyo witegereje umugore uwo ari we wese, ubona neza uko umugabo we amuvugisha, uko amufata, uko amukunda cyangwa se amwitaho. Ibyo kandi umuntu abibonera ku buryo umugore yivugaho, ku gaciro yiha n'ibindi.
Uburyo bwa kane ni uguha umugore wawe urukundo. Umugore uwo ari we wese akeneye urukundo rw'umugabo we, akeneye guteteshwa. Burya nk'uko twakomeje tubigarukaho, umugore ntamera nk'umugabo. Ni nk'aho abeshwaho n'urukundo umugabo we amukunda. Ibyo bigaragarira ha handi aba ashaka ko amusubiriramo buri mwanya ko umukunda. Naho yaba abibona ko ntako utagira, aba ashaka ko ukomeza kujya ubimubwira, hejuru y'ibyo ukongeraho imitoma ariko ikibabaje ni uko ibyo bisa nk'aho binanira abagabo cyane cyane, Abanyarwanda kuko mu muco wabo bakunda gusharira, gutontoma babwira nabi abagore babo ndetse bakagaragaza igitugu mu ngo zabo ! Nyamara baba bihenze ubwenge kuko ibanga rikomeye ari uko umugabo yarushaho guha umugore we urukundo, kuko umugore arushaho kwiyumvamo umunezero no kugira agaciro.
Itandukaniro riri hagati y'urukundo no kuryamana
Kenshi abantu bakunze kwitiranya urukundo (affection) no kuryamana. Nyamara ni ibintu bibiri bitandukanye. Inzobere zakoze ubushakashatsi zibaza ingo nyinshi, zabonye abagabo benshi icyo zibitekerezaho: kuri bo, urwo urukundo (affection), ni urubanziriza igikorwa cyo kuryamana. Ariko ku bagore, bo babona ngo ari ibintu bibiri bitandukanye cyane. Umugabo avuga ko atanyuzwe mu kuryamana kwe n'umugore we, mu gihe umugore we atanyurwa mu kwerekwa urukundo (affection) umugabo we. Ni byiza ko umugabo atakwikakaza mu rgo rwe ngo yigire intare. Yego ni ngombwa kuyoborana igitsure bibaye ngombwa, atari ibya buri munsi, ariko ngo si byiza kwitwara nk'intare imbere y'umugore wawe. Zimwe mu nzira umugabo yakoresha yereka urukundo (affection) umugore we harimo imvugo nziza n'amagambo meza aho bibaye ngombwa yaririmbira umugore we. Harimo kandi gukorera umugore bimwe mu bikorwa bimwereka ko iyo batari kumwe aba amutekereza nko kumworohereza ubutumwa bugufi kuri telefoni (abazifite), bwereka umugore ko amukumbuye. Byaba byiza rimwe na rimwe umugabo agiye aha umugore we indabo cyangwa se ururabo. Umugabo ntakwiye gutinya umugore we. Ntibikwiye kubona umugabo n'umugore bagendana mu muhanda umwe bajya ahantu hamwe, ariko, umwe ari imbere undi ari inyuma, kandi bagombye kugendana. Ahubwo mu gihe bari kumwe mu muhanda, umugabo n'umugore baba bagomba gufatana ikiganza kuko nta soni biteye. Abagabo benshi batabikora bemeza ko iyo umugabo akoze ibi nakomeje mvuga (gutetesha umugore we, gufatana ibiganza bagenda…) bavuga ko bamuhaye inzaratsi !
Abagore boroherwa no kuvuga
Ikindi tutakwibagirwa kuvuga ni uko ahantu bikunda gupfira ari ukwibagirwa ko abagore boroherwa no kuvuga (communication). Ni byiza ko abagabo babimenya, ntibabifate nk'uburondogozi, kubatesha umwanya cyangwa se kwitetesha. Niba ushaka kumenya ikintu kirusha ibindi, gituma umugore yiyubaha, agira icyizere, ni ukuba azi ko umugabo we afata umwanya wo kumwumva kandi agaha agaciro ibitekerezo atanze. Niba muri kuganira ku by'ubuzima bwanyu, wisuzugura ibyo umugore ashaka, kandi umwereke ko ubihaye agaciro, ibyo bizatuma ahinduka neza.
Uburyo bwa gatanu ni uko umugore akeneye kuganira n'umugabo we ndetse no kubwizwa ukuri. Umugabo wese akwiye kugira igihe cyo gusabana n'umugore we, bakaganira, bakungurana ibitekerezo ndetse bagaseka. Umugabo akumva udukuru umugore amufitiye : ese mu nzira yahabonye iki ? Ku kazi byamugendekeye bite ?
Abahanga bakoze ubushakashatsi ku bakobwa bakiri bato ndetse no ku bagore bakuze ; maze basanga kuvuga biboroheye. Ngo n'iyo umugore adafite uwo avugisha, ngo akunze kwivugisha ugereranije n'abagabo. Uko niko bimeze si uwawe wasaze kandi si bibi namba. Ikibi ni ukutubahiriza iyo kamere yabo. Abo bahanga kandi bafashe abana b'imyaka ibiri kugeza kuri ine b'ibitsina byombi basanga abakobwa amajwi yose abasohokamo aba agamije kuganira ariko abahungu 60% gusa ari yo agamije kuganira. 40 % asigaye baba bigana uko imodoka ihinda, urusaku rw'imbunda,…
Buri kanya, umugore aba ashaka kuganira. Ganiriza umugore wawe rero, amenye ibyo utekereza, imishinga yawe ndetse amenye n'ibikubabaje. Ibyo bizamutera kumva anyuzwe cyane kuko ibi nibitaba, uzasanga umugore yita umugabo we amazina amwe n'amwe ateye inkeke, Patoro, Papa Kanaka, nyirurugo Giti mu jisho, Data buja, …
Ibi ngo biterwa nuko umugore we ari umunyamahanga kuri we, atamenya uko atekereza, ntamenye ibimubamo. Ku byerekeranye no kubwiza umugore we ukuri ngo bituma amenya ibiri mu ndiba y'umutima w'umugabo we. Kandi abifitiye uburenganzira, nta mwari ukwiye kubimuvutsa kuko umugore akwiye kumenya umugabo we kurusha undi uwo ari we wese, kabone naho byaba ari amafuti y'uwo barushinganye kandi ikindi abagabo bakwiye kumenya ni uko niba batabwiye abagore babo ukuri bizatera kutabizera. Ni biba bityo bizagora umugabo kunezeza uwo bashakanye. Iri ni ipfundo rikomeye. Uzegere umusaza n'umukecuru basazanye maze ubabaze ibanga bakoresheje ngo basazane. Ikintu cya mbere bazagusubiza ni ukubwizanya ukuri no gushyira hamwe. Niba ubeshya umugore wawe cyangwa ugira ibyo umuhisha, ntiwibeshye ngo ushobora kumunezeza. Ese umugore wawe azi umutungo wawe uko ungana? Umushahara wawe se? Azi se uko uwukoresha? Ibyo utunze azi aho wabikuye? Erega ni agahomamunwa! Hari abagore babimenyera mu irimbi batangiye kuraga ibyo umugabo asize!
Mu gusoza, ntawakwibagirwa kuvuga ko umugore akeneye guhahirwa no gushyigikirwa. Abagabo bamwe ntibanyumve nabi kuko uretse ijambo ry'Imana, amategeko y'u Rwanda nayo avuga ko umugabo ari we ugomba guhahira urugo. Sinshaka kuvuga ko bibaye ngombwa inshingano zo guhaha n'umugore atazigira, bashobora kuzifatanya ariko ni umugabo bireba cyane cyane. Niba kandi umugabo atagira akazi, agomba kwerekana ubwenge akereka umugore we ko atekereza kuri ejo hazaza. Akirinda kuremerera umugore we ngo yumve ko ari we uzahora yikoreye umutwaro wo guhahira urugo. Bitabaye ibyo, kabiri, gatatu, umugore yazasuzugura wa mugabo we. Umugabo yibuke ko akwiye kurinda umugore we, ibyo bizatuma amenya ko ubuzima bwe busigasiwe. Urugero ni nko kumurinda abo mu muryango wawe bamurwanya. Niyo yaba ari umukene, umugabo niyige kubwira neza umugore yizera ko afite ejo hazaza heza kandi ubuzima bwe buguwe neza.
Posted by Gallican Masengesho at Saturday, April 03, 2010
Labels: le Fantaisiste